What do you think about hiding his illness from his family?

A colleague of mine had a herniated disc in his lumbar area, but he hid the truth from his parents, just because he didn't want them to worry.

In fact, everyone's life is not easy, just to make each other feel at ease.

The main thing is that I don't want my family to worry about me, and I'm afraid that they will be sad.

It may be that he is afraid that his family will worry about him and does not want his family to worry about him, or it may be that he thinks it is a minor illness and does not tell his family the meaning.

Concealing the illness in order not to worry the family is a manifestation of hard work and filial piety.

I feel that this is a well-intentioned concealment, because many people know that it is easy to break down after getting sick, so the culture that causes the disease, in fact, this is quite good.

Yes, parents are quite their own, and the family's illness is to let their family have a very good mentality, because a person's mentality is also very important for physical health.

This situation feels relatively normal because I don't want my family to worry. So it's going to be hidden, and it feels unfair to the family.

The family concealed his illness from some people, probably because they didn't want the sick person in their family to worry too much, which might be better for his mood and condition.

In fact, this kind of thing is mainly because they don't want their families to worry about themselves, but I think this is also a kind of irresponsibility to their families.

First of all, I think it's an act of irresponsibility to yourself, but if you think about the big picture, it may be to make your family feel at ease.

I think it's a very necessary thing to hide your illness from your family, because some of your relatives will have a very bad attitude when they know that you are sick, and there are many such villains in this world.

I think it's very normal for the family to hide their illness because it's a white lie, and sometimes a good mood is very helpful.

Some people say that if you have a serious illness, you can hide it as much as possible, in fact, the reason why you don't want more people to know is because human nature is very complicated now, some people will slowly stay away from you once they know about it, and the people around you will stay away from you, which will only aggravate your condition, if your relatives know, they will also worry with you, in short, everyone around you, including you, the whole rhythm of life will also be disrupted, and many people will choose not to contact you anymore, so you can hide it as much as possible. This is also the reason why people think more now, because this society is really too realistic now, maybe when you are good, many people ask here when you are not good, when you need help, few people may lend a helping hand to you.

In fact, I still understand this matter, on the one hand, I don't want the people around me to worry, especially my family, for fear that I will affect the various emotions of my family and let my family be scared with me.

On the other hand, I am actually afraid that the people around me will slowly move away from themselves, maybe this matter has broken out, we may not get so much comfort, if the implementation of the network is not good in the direction of development, the friends around you are far away from you, then you will become more and more lonely, this loneliness and the eyes of others to treat themselves is something we can't bear, so I also think this is a reason to hide. On the other hand, in our profession, once our colleagues or bosses know that we are in good health, will they force us to resign, etc., and how our colleagues should treat us, these are all issues that we are worried about.

To sum up, so I think this is the reason why everyone can hide it, try to hide it as much as possible, in fact, barbarism is more painful, but it is also a last resort, of course we want to get more assistance, but we are afraid of losing these people around us, we are afraid of the eyes of others.

I think this is to not let my relatives and friends be hurt, but also to let the patient have a good attitude and not be overly nervous, which will affect the deterioration of the condition.

Because these people are afraid that their families will worry, and they are also afraid that their families will go bankrupt when they see a doctor, and they don't want to drag down their families.

Legal analysis: When informing the patient of the condition may endanger the patient's life or cause the condition to worsen, the patient can be concealed, but the immediate family members need to be informed.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 130:Civil entities are to exercise civil rights in accordance with their own wishes and law, and are not to be interfered with.

Article 131 When exercising rights, civil entities shall perform their reckless obligations as prescribed by law and agreed upon by the parties.

Legal analysis: When informing the patient that the patient's condition may endanger the patient's life or lead to the deterioration of the patient's condition, the patient can be concealed, but the immediate family members need to be informed.

Legal basis: Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 130:Civil entities are to exercise civil rights in accordance with their own wishes and are not to be interfered with.

Article 131: When civil entities exercise their rights, they shall perform the obligations provided for by law and agreed upon by the parties.

Parents are the most concerned and supportive of their children, and revealing their condition can give them more care and help. Especially in the process, the companionship and support of parents can play a good role. This is a positive reason to inform parents.

2.However, depression is still a taboo topic in the minds of many people, and they fear that they will be discriminated against and misunderstood. Informing parents may also increase their worries and burdens, which can be a reason to hide the illness from parents.

3.Depression is a long-term process, and it takes time for continuous medication and psychological counseling. If it is revealed to parents, they will be better cooperative** and will also reduce misunderstandings due to unexplained disorderly behavior, which is also a consideration in the recommendation to inform.

4.However, patients with depression often have feelings of icompetentism and low self-esteem, worrying that their parents will question and be disappointed in them after knowing the truth, which will make people choose not to tell and hide it.

5.The individual's age and ability to live independently are also factors to consider. For young or unindependent patients, parental support is more significant, and the positive impact of notification is more significant.

For patients who are married or living independently, it is more understandable to choose not to tell and hide in order to alleviate the concerns of their parents.

Therefore, in general, whether to inform parents about the condition of depression needs to take into account factors such as the patient's own mental situation, family environment and cultural background. If parents can understand and support them, the positive effect of notification is even greater; But there is also a need to take into account the impact that can increase the burden on parents. The ultimatel still requires the patient to weigh the pros and cons according to their actual situation and make a choice after consulting with the doctor.

Whether to inform or conceal, the patient's psychological construction and the cultivation of independent living ability are equally important. Only when patients have the courage and ability to face their illness independently can they make more free and wise choices. This is also the embodiment of the patient's self-growth in the process of depression**.

Legal analysis: According to the relevant laws and regulations of our country, those who intentionally conceal the epidemic and cause serious consequences may be punished as the crime of endangering public safety by dangerous means. In addition, those who fabricate or deliberately disseminate false information about the epidemic and seriously disrupt social order will also be punished by the criminal law.

Legal basis: Article 330 of the Criminal Law of the People's Republic of China Whoever, in any of the following circumstances, causes the spread of Class A infectious diseases or has a serious risk of spreading, shall be sentenced to fixed-term imprisonment of not more than three years or short-term detention; where the consequences are especially serious, a sentence of between three and seven years imprisonment is to be given

1) The drinking water of the water supply unit does not meet the sanitary standards stipulated by the state;

2) Refusing to disinfect sewage, dirt, or feces contaminated by infectious disease pathogens in accordance with the sanitary requirements put forward by health and epidemic prevention institutions;

3) Permitting or conniving patients with infectious diseases, pathogen carriers, and patients suspected of having infectious diseases to engage in work that is prohibited by the provisions of the administrative department of health and that is likely to cause the spread of the disease;

4) Refusal to carry out the prevention and control measures proposed by the health and epidemic prevention institutions in accordance with the Law on the Prevention and Control of Infectious Diseases. Where a unit commits the crime in the preceding paragraph, the unit is to be fined, and the directly responsible managers and other personnel directly responsible for the draft are to be punished in accordance with the provisions of the preceding paragraph. The scope of Class A infectious diseases shall be determined in accordance with the Law of the People's Republic of China on the Prevention and Treatment of Infectious Diseases and relevant provisions.

Hello, in the face of the situation where your family hides your condition, I suggest that you can do the following:

First of all, you can try to communicate with your family members patiently and respect their wishes, but also remind them that concealing the condition may aggravate the condition, affect the effect, and ultimately affect the health of the family.

Second, you can try to give your family members more practical help, such as helping them gather information about their condition, helping them seek professional medical advice, and helping them arrange medical appointments.

Finally, you can try to provide psychological support to your family members to help them adjust their mindset, relax their minds, and strengthen their resilience so that they can better cope with the condition.

In short, you can provide as much practical help and psychological support as possible to your family members to help them better cope with their illness and have a safe and healthy New Year together.