What should I do if I have a serious illness and don t want to affect my family?

Updated on society 2024-06-24
46 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    If you have a serious illness and you can't get medical treatment and don't want to cause trouble to your family, then you should recite the Buddha with all your heart and mind to go to Amitabha Buddha's blissful world. Because Amitabha Buddha knew that he saw the birth, old age, sickness, and death of all living beings, he established the Elysian World, and attained the name of Amitabha Buddha to give us a recitation, that is, to lead us to his Elysium, where the immeasurable life will no longer be born, old, sick, and die, all of which Amitabha Buddha vowed to guarantee. Being able to recite the Buddha like this can dissolve the karma, and you will suffer less because the suffering comes from karma.

    Your own mind will also be settled, because the major events of the next life have been decided, and there will be no more reincarnation of birth and death.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    I think I think everyone may have this thought, but you think about your loved ones, if your loved ones are sick. Will you give up? No, so in this case, just let it be.

    As long as the family is happy, I think everyone may have this idea, but you think about your loved ones, if your loved ones are sick. Will you give up? No, so in this case, just let it be.

    As long as the family is happy, I think everyone may have this idea, but you think about your loved ones, if your loved ones are sick. Will you give up? No, so in this case, just let it be.

    As long as the family is happy to be together, I think everyone may have this idea, but you think about your loved ones, if your loved ones are sick. Will you give up? No, so in this case, just let it be.

    As long as the family is happy to be together, it doesn't bother them, if you are on your own. In this case, they are in a hurry to get angry.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I don't want to affect my family when I have a serious illness, but in the final analysis, I still love my family and don't want them to have a bad life. It is too difficult for people who are sick, and all the suffering has to be borne by one person.

    However, since you said that you are seriously ill, it is probably impossible not to let your family know, and one day they will know that if they also love you deeply, they will definitely worry about you, work hard for you, and will not blame you for causing them trouble. Because true love is always about giving, not taking. If a person defects in front of family affection, he will eventually be condemned by his conscience for the rest of his life.

    So, if a serious illness is a difficult time, you have to carry it with the person you love the most. I wish you happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    This is a very normal thought, you don't want to drag yourself down to your family, and you want your family to not have a serious material burden because of yourself. You can tell him that you are fine and don't ** anymore, although you are in pain, but they will feel better in the future, but you are really great.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If this is a disease that will not be discovered, then you can only endure it yourself, and it will not affect your family.

    But if it's a disease that will be discovered, then it's impossible not to want to.

    The other thing is to live alone, so you can only say that it's okay every time, and you won't be known.

    But it is not recommended to do this, if there is a disease, it can be prevented early, basically except for acute diseases.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    People are seriously ill and don't want to affect their families. You should have the perseverance to resist the disease. Don't get too much medication. Treat illness with a full heart. It's best to do so.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    First of all, I feel sorry for you, something unfortunate happened to you. But I had to move on with my life and try to manage the deterioration of my condition. You think about your family, and your family must love you very much, so you hide it for fear that they will be sad.

    But sooner or later, you have to know the day, it is better to tell your family to face the condition together, and family care will improve and help your condition.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you have an incurable disease, you should give up as soon as possible**! Otherwise, the money is gone, the people are gone, and the family will probably be considerate of you, in fact, if you want to open some, it's still good.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If a person is seriously ill and doesn't want to affect his family, what should he do? What should people do if they are seriously ill and don't want to affect their families? I think that people who are physically and financially able have a serious illness and don't want to affect their families, what should I do?

    I think that if my body and money allow, I should go out and travel and fend for myself.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    If you have a serious illness, it's unlikely that your family won't know about it!

    Although I don't want to affect my family, I'm actually very selfish!

    Your family always loves you and always wants to solve your problems. If you reject your family, the family will be very sad.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    What should I do if I come to your serious illness and don't want to affect your family? I think people are sick, so you don't want to affect your family, so what do you do yourself? What should you do if you are sick?

    Do you yourself lie on the kang and wait to die? I thought it would have to affect the family, so the family sent you to the hospital**.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    This idea is not right, why don't you want to affect your family when you have a serious illness, the family should love each other, and you should help each other at this time, so don't think like this.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    If a person is seriously ill and does not want to affect his family, then he should find ways to earn money for treatment.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    What if a person is seriously ill and doesn't want to affect his family? In fact, no matter what, if you are sick, you should go to the hospital for treatment, and your family is willing to spend money for you, and the best way is to cure the disease.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Hurry up**, if you don't have money, you can go to online crowdfunding to see, if you can't do it, go out and travel.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    You don't want to burden your family, but don't make decisions privately because your family doesn't necessarily think you're a drag on them.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    After you get the note, it's not that you don't want to affect your family, I understand your intentions, you don't want your family to suffer with you and be affected, but the more you are like this, the more painful your family will be.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Sickness can always be cured, this method is not the best, you can also use the fundraising to get help from others.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Why is it so helpless to criticize, it's good to be alive and eat slowly, don't be so sad? It's going to be fine today.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    I'm sick too, understand how you feel ...

    I can't go to class now, so I rely on my family to support me.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I am also sick and I still have to replace some parts of my body, I have also thought about giving up on myself in a hundred, many ways, but I also think that my family may be sad for a lifetime because of your self-abandonment, and there is another way to be strong in the face of illness, life is unsatisfactory nine times out of ten, even if the result is not what we want, we must be strong to the end!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Don't tell me about cancer, leukemia, AIDS, no matter how sick you are, tell them. I only know that acting in the movie seems that you are so filial that you are going to heaven, and when you really have an accident, have you thought that they will feel guilty? Aren't you afraid that they won't be able to live well for the rest of their lives?

    Anyway, I'm bored, I don't actually believe in your routine, you're a primary school student, so rural.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Nowadays, science and technology are very developed, and any disease can be treated, and the key is to find the root cause and source of the disease.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    Is it serious, take care.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    You must be very helpless, dear, you can copy the Sangha Sutra seven times and recite these four sentences often: Do everything evil to Sudra. Then give away from suffering.

    Suffering beings are liberated. Fear all living beings and keep them away. Your life will slowly change for the better in the future.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    In fact, I personally feel that my health is not good, and it is not that it affects my family. The health is not good, but you are alive, and this is the greatest comfort to the family. The family does not require you to be disease-free, if you are sick, actively cooperate with **, actively take measures, as long as it is not too serious to ** disease, there will always be a time to get better.

    The expectations of the people in the family for you are not that you will immediately become a healthy person, they just hope that you can have a positive attitude towards life, work hard to cooperate, have the desire to survive, and then everyone works together. The reason why family members become family is not because of interests or other connections, but because of family affection. They just care about you and love you, so you don't need to think about it that much, you just need to take care of your body, and that's enough.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Every life survives with its own meaning, and your life is not simply yours. In any case, first work hard to make yourself live a quality life and cooperate with the doctor positively**. Then see if you can buy an insurance policy, which can also reduce the burden on your family in the future.

    In any case, don't give up on yourself easily, and live well to have hope.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    As long as there is a glimmer of hope, you can't give up, let alone commit suicide, because your life does not belong to you, you have to be responsible, have you thought about it, if you commit suicide, how sad is your family? So you can't be too selfish, you have to be brave, have faith, and overcome the disease.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    In fact, no matter what, you should live bravely, to what extent is your health bad? As long as you can take care of yourself, then don't think about suicide, it will hurt everyone. Don't always focus on your body, there are a lot of beautiful things in life, divert your attention and live well.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    Bravely face it, have faith to overcome the disease, because your life is not only your own, but also your family's, think about it, if you leave, your family will be in pain, they will live in pain and guilt for the rest of their lives, helpless, so you have to live well, cooperate with the doctor**, I believe you will definitely overcome the disease.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Everyone has the value and meaning of survival, you are already the greatest comfort to your family, don't feel sorry for yourself and think about others, be optimistic to overcome the disease, and live one more day and one day.

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Then live well, the family doesn't think you are a burden to them, you just need to cooperate well**This is the greatest comfort to them.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I am not in good health and don't want to affect my family.

    But I don't dare to commit suicide, what should I do.

    First of all, I want to criticize you for why you have.

    Suicidal thoughts.

    Life is not easy to encounter difficulties.

    We need to be brave enough to face it.

    You must regain your self-confidence from confusion.

    Come out!

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Buy an insurance policy first, and you can also give them a little benefit in case of an accident.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Don't have this kind of thought, how sad you will be if you leave your family, so you must live well and be positive**.

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Wouldn't it be nice to live?

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Hello! You know how illness comes in. How do you get better?。。

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Life is not easy, birth, old age, sickness and death, you are sick and seriously ill now, now that medicine is developed, it is generally not an incurable disease, you must **, your children will also support you to cure the disease, you must have the confidence to cure the disease.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Long-term insomnia can be supplemented with bai-aids**. Got du sick, zhi

    We can also go**. You don't want to.

    DAO involves family members, which means that you are a very specialized. People who take care of the family. But have you ever thought of it?

    Your loved ones, them. How painful it is to lose you. There's a lot of fun in being alive.

    We don't just have to live for ourselves. Also think about others for others.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    It's understandable that you don't want to affect your family, but you only have one life, don't be afraid if you are sick, sleep insomnia.

    If you can't answer your sleep, you can also cooperate with the way **, insomnia can be pricked with acupuncture, take some Chinese medicine for conditioning, and other serious illnesses can also be medicated, slowly**, don't think about it, friends are still alive and meaningful, bad things will pass, and the future will be tomorrow.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    May I ask what kind of mentality do you have, if you are seriously ill, will you die immediately, being seriously ill is not a drag, but reluctant to leave, the torture of serious illness may be more painful than death, at least death is a moment, and the torture of illness is long-term, in fact, the disease is not terrible, the terrible should be cold words like you,

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    It's still a strong desire to survive, after all, there are too many nostalgic things.

  43. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    When you get old, your son will give you a set of combination punches to send you back to the West.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    If you don't want to affect your family, then work hard, work hard to make money, repay your family well, repay your parents' nurturing grace, when you don't repay your parents' nurturing grace, you are not qualified to die, because your life is given to you by your parents, so you must complete the task.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    Friend, what do you mean, I want to die. People are tired of life, only cowards dare not face this realistic society, do you want to be a coward?

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Life is precious, please cherish your short and long life. Don't do stupid things, everyone has a unique meaning in life!

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