In fact, if you really keep paying for a person, will there be good results?

This may depend on the other party's personality Some people you can't get and never get it No matter how much you are touched, it's useless They need a feeling that they would rather lack than the kind But some people with a good conscience can be touched Because they know that feelings can be cultivated As long as you are wholeheartedly good to him, you will be satisfied With you there is the whole world But if the other party is **, then the final result of your efforts is to get hurt everywhere And others do not appreciate it and humiliate you heavily Because that's what I turned out to be! There is no place to bury the dead, not even a grave!

No, there would have been a good outcome a long time ago.

Don't think about it. Don't fantasize.

Throw it when it's time to throw it, let it go when it's time to let it go.

Clear up your memories.

You'll be fine.

There shouldn't be times when the more you do this, the deeper the injury becomes.

Life has to learn to give up.

Not necessarily, good results are not something that can be exchanged for continuous giving, maybe in exchange for just gratitude. Sympathy only. Learn to let go, and there may be unexpected effects.

When you like him or her and give true feelings, no matter what the result is, you have done it, I believe that you will be rewarded for your efforts, and I hope you have a smooth journey on the road of love.

Not necessarily, does the effort have to be rewarded? If you're having fun, why not?

True love is the ability to give everything for a person. True love doesn't care about anything. If you love someone and don't give everything for a person, then this love is definitely not pure.

If you love someone, you will definitely have to pay for the other person, but there is no need to give everything, because love is only a part of our life, not everything, so we have to have reservations.

Even if I love someone very much, I will not give everything for the other person, because my life is given by my parents, only the love of my parents for me is wholehearted, and other loves should be carefully considered.

Yes, because I already love each other to the core, I feel that the other party is my life, and I deserve to pay for each other, and I can't wait to give her all the best in the world.

They will indeed give everything for each other. Because when you love someone, you always want to do something for them.

No. Although I love someone, I feel that I love myself more, and love is not the whole of my life. So will not give everything for each other.

If you love someone, you will give everything for each other for some people, but there are also some people who love yourself the most, so they will not give everything for each other.

Yes, if you love someone, you want the other person to be okay, and you are willing to give everything you have, so that the other person can feel your love.

Of course it will, because since you love each other, you should be responsible for each other, and you should give everything.

Of course, they will give everything for each other, because love means giving, and it is unconditional giving.

Of course it will, because this is what love should be, that is, to give everything you have.

I think so, because if you really love someone, then you don't want to ask for anything in return.

You shouldn't give everything for each other, because people's love is limited and selfish.

A well-known psychologist said:If you want to ruin a relationship, it's enough to give desperately!

Why?

German family ** master Hellinger said:

When we give, we feel entitled; When we accept, we feel obliged.

People who only give and do not accept will have a sense of innocence and will feel that they have absolutely a clear conscience in this relationship.

It's a very comfortable feeling, and people who feel this way, feel like they're always right in a relationship.

Correspondingly, then, the other party to the relationship will feel very uncomfortable, will often feel guilty, will often feel guilty conscience, even if he does not understand why the giver likes to give so much, he will eventually have the urge to run away.

Once he did make the act of fleeing, the giver who had always thought he was innocent would feel hurt and would vehemently accuse the fleeer of betrayal.

As everyone knows, the giver is the one who destroys the relationship.

If, as you say, one person keeps giving and the other keeps taking, then eventually your relationship will surely fall apart.

However, it is not entirely impossible to restore or repair the relationship. This relationship needs the help of a professional marriage counselor who will help you analyze the problem, find the problem, and help you find a solution.

I hope that in the relationship, everyone can reap happiness while giving their feelings.

Professional marriage and love counselors are in the edge shield emotion (poke this line directly).

Society will be distorted, and personality will be deformed.

If a person keeps giving without anything in return, there is a high chance that the person will become selfish and no one is born to serve others. If a person has been serving others, I would like to ask for him, "Why?" "It's all out of the womb, it's all a human species, where does it come from in essence?

It is only because of the stratification and class of society that there is a high and low level of consciousness and inequality. And if a person keeps taking, no one teaches him to reciprocate, and he does not reflect on himself, then he will take it for granted to ask for other people's things, and then it will become a habit, or even a "representative" of his person.

Therefore, only if you give first, you can ask for it. From a certain point of view, it is "pay first, then you are qualified to receive." "Of course, it is not excluded that parents give to their children, which is selfless and great. But as children, we must also know how to be grateful.

I have the ability I can pay more But you don't give it to me I really can't accept it No one is a fool Everyone can see who is a real friend Who is a fake friend Who is a fake friend who is greedy and cheap Who is a real friend who is willing to pay and is willing to help People who pay more are really capable People who don't pay can be said to be more incompetent.

Pay will be rewarded, in line with the causal relationship, may not be the result you want, or it may be an accumulation of quantity, only flowering and not bearing fruit, or it may be planting flowers without fruit, mediating the mood, a kind of gain or satisfaction in the heart.

It's a deformed circle, and it's not worth advocating.

This person's character is noble, he only knows how to pay, he doesn't know how to return, but he is also very stupid, I don't know if you are stupid and cute, or stupid to get home, your girlfriend is a bottomless pit, how do you fill it, but also fill it up, people always have a poor time, when the time comes, what do you give her, she is a person who does not want to forge ahead, only seeks to report, one day will squeeze you dry, then she will dump you, and then go to find another man, see what you do, then your pay, don't you just go up the drain, get nothing, cheap others, Why is this so painful, it hurts both yourself and her, you have to persuade your girlfriend and tell her that there is no free lunch in this world, only by continuous hard work can she get everything she wants, and will be looked down upon by people, and people who only know how to ask for it and do not think of returning will always be looked down upon and ridiculed.

In the past, we always naively thought that sincerity could be exchanged for sincerity, so we tried to be good to everyone with our hearts and lungs, but we often made ourselves scarred only to find out that not everyone in this world deserves to be good to him.

A person's warmth is limited and cannot be wasted at all. From now on, you just need to be nice to both of them.

Someone who is willing to be nice to you.

This society is too complicated, people's hearts are unpredictable, you may have met many people on the road in the past, but there are actually very few people who really want you to live well, and even fewer people who are willing to be good to you.

A person who is good to you, willing to accompany you to share the ups and downs of life, whenever you need him, he will be there, and will not make you feel lonely and helpless;

A person who is good to you, he will wholeheartedly want you to live happily, without any scheming and calculation for you, and will not make you feel tired when you get along with him;

A person who is good to you always thinks about you everywhere and silently pays for you, but rarely asks for you and is reluctant to embarrass you.

Cherish the people who are good to you.

There are always some people in life who don't know how to be grateful, and always take your kindness to him for granted.

If you do 100 things for him and you don't do 1 thing well, he will forget all 99 things he did before and resent you.

And the good person who cherishes you knows that no one in this world has the obligation to be good to anyone, so he keeps all the good you do to him in his heart, and he will definitely repay you if he has the opportunity.

You have pulled him when he is in difficulty, even if it is only a small favor, he will think of your goodness, and he will not have the slightest excuse when you need him to help him one day;

You usually take care of him, even if it's just a gesture, he is grateful to you, very close to you in his heart, and strives to do more for you.

In short, your kindness to him, even if you never expect it to be rewarded, is never in vain.

Feelings should have been between you and me, he cherishes your goodness, appreciates your goodness, responds to your goodness, and is certainly worthy of your sincere treatment.

From today onwards, only good for these two kinds of people.

People live this life, don't always think about using their own flesh and blood to warm and illuminate everyone, this is unrealistic.

Because not everyone wants to be nice to you, and not everyone will appreciate your goodness.

After a long time, you may also get used to your low profile and make a lot of unreasonable demands on you because of your infinite release of kindness and concessions;

And don't always think about being good for everyone, it's not fair.

Because many times, we have to treat us differently in order not to chill those who care about us and those who know about Entu.

Those who deserve it, we treat them a little better; For those who are not worthy, forget everything in the past, but from now on they will no longer be stupid to deliver their sincerity.

Pay must also meet the right person, otherwise it will be in vain. From today onwards, it is enough to be good to the above two kinds of people.

May you be worthy of all the good that others have done to you in this long time, and all the good you have paid is worth it!

Because the other party may not really like himself, just like no matter how much he pays, the other party treats himself as a spare tire, and it is impossible to return his love.

If you don't care about people who don't love you, no matter how much you give, you can't get a return in return, even if you have to pay, you have to pay to those who care about yourself.

Because if this person doesn't love you, your efforts will become a burden in his eyes, and he will not only not understand your intentions, but also feel that you are very troublesome and have no eyesight.

Because you have given too much for an unworthy person, there is no need for us to do too much for an unworthy person, so there is no reward.

You will get what you pay for.

You don't give, only the other person pays.

He will eventually leave you.

He will feel that it is not worth it to fall in love with you.

Only when you pay will you know how much your love needs him.

Love is the love of two people.

Not alone.

Both parties have worked hard to know if they are in love or not.

To love someone is to learn to give.

If you fall in love with someone, you will do anything for him and will tolerate everything about him, whether it is good or bad. When two people love each other, they must be humble to each other, tolerate each other, and accept everything from him. Think more about each other and give both of you more time.

Loving someone often says I love you to the other person, and a sentence I love you is not a difficult thing for you, but it is so important for him. Loving someone is something you have to give, and it's enough to give your time, your energy, and your sincerity.

Friends, take out a little bit of your time, take out a little bit of your energy, and come out with all your sincerity! Go and love your loved ones with all your heart!