What problems should I pay attention to when getting along with the opposite sex?

How to say that? In fact, getting along with the opposite sex is actually a very simple thing, but sometimes it is a very difficult thing. Sometimes I get along too little and I don't feel that there is any intimacy, and if I get along too much, that relationship will be misunderstood.

Therefore, I think we need to pay attention to the following points when getting along with the opposite sex.

Note 1: Keep an appropriate distance from the opposite sex. If you get along with someone of the opposite sex, if you don't keep a proper distance, I think it's easy to be misunderstood, and if you are misunderstood, it's actually very difficult for you to explain clearly.

Because nowadays, people always like to talk about it, talk about the east and the west. Rather than being talked about like this, you might as well keep a proper distance.

Note 2: Don't say something too dirty, if you get along with the opposite sex, I don't have to say those things that are too dirty, sometimes too dirty words especially affect your image. Everyone needs to pay attention to their image.

In fact, sometimes you may make everyone happy when you say these words, it is she who laughs, but in the other person's heart, she plants an image that is impure. It's useless to be happy, if you really want to like this in the future and chase her. Then this kind of thing needs special attention.

Note 3: Try to find common topics, common topics are a very important point, whether you get along with the same sex or the opposite sex. So, if you don't have a common topic, how can the two of you get along better?

It can't be too intimate, but it's definitely time to talk about some common topics when it's time for intimacy. Even if you often chat and don't have a common topic, if you are there, it will be an awkward conversation.

Actually, I think you should pay attention, there is no problem getting along with the opposite sex in this way. I won't be told that it won't be anything, you just need to get along naturally and don't think about it.

As a girl, I still have a certain understanding of what to pay attention to when getting along with the opposite sex, but the points of attention for boys getting along with the opposite sex are not very clear, but I think it should be about the same.

First, politeness is still necessary. A polite person will make a good impression on others, especially the politeness between people of the opposite sex who have just met for a short time still need to be paid attention to.

Second, pay attention to your own image. It is said that the first impression is very important, and you may be able to judge what kind of person you are from your image. When girls and boys get along, it's best not to dress too casually, and you can wear some makeup, which is not only a matter of your own image but also a kind of respect for others.

As for boys, it's best not to meet girls in big pants or slippers, because people will think how sloppy you are.

Third, in addition to the image issue, speech and behavior are also very important. If you are not familiar with each other, it is recommended that it is best to speak seriously, do your duty well, even if you are more familiar, you should pay attention to this, what to say, what not to say, or a little measured. Don't always ask about things that the other person doesn't want you to know, forcing the other person to do things you don't want to do will only make people feel disgusted.

Fourth, the relationship can be good, but don't be in an ambiguous relationship. Some people say that there is no simple friendship between men and women, but in fact, this is not true, mainly depending on how to get along. The opposite sex can complain to each other like best friends, tell each other their hearts, and get along like brothers, but often many people of the opposite sex will get along with each other and become more and more ambiguous, in fact, this relationship is very dangerous, if it is not handled well, it is likely to completely ruin the relationship, so the relationship between the opposite sex can be as good as family, but it is best not to become an ambiguous relationship.

In fact, there are many things to pay attention to when getting along with the opposite sex, but it still depends on what kind of personality the two people are, but the above points may be relatively common and need to be paid attention to.

I think that when people get along with others, in addition to giving each other respect, they should also give each other some safe distance. Safe distance means staying away from places where it is easy to step on mines in terms of conversation. We should all pay attention to these issues, how can we make the other person feel that talking to you is a very enjoyable thing, that he finds it a pleasure to talk to you, so that your relationship can continue to develop.

At the same time, it also reflects your high emotional intelligence, which is the art of words.

Let's take it personally, I'm more averse to talking about feelings with the opposite sex that I don't know very well. First of all, it's my own problem, I think the relationship problem is too troublesome, I don't bother to pay attention, it's the right thing and not the right person, one of my male girlfriends asked me to introduce him to a girlfriend, and I was angry with him, because I really hate to contact this kind of thing, and I have already said that there is no suitable person to introduce him, he still forced me to introduce, of course I was not happy. Besides, I'm not an emotional counselor, and I don't have the intention of doing this, and I'm not interested in dealing with the emotional entanglement between the two of you.

Pushing himself and others, I think no one wants to meddle in other people's emotional affairs, this kind of thing, cut and straighten out and mess, it is better to let him have a headache himself.

I think people who have been entangled in other people's privacy because of curiosity are also annoying, and they don't respect others at all, and only care about their own curiosity. How can you respect others, in case you poke some taboos in others, there is a saying that you break up if you don't agree, I once almost experienced being broken up because of improper words, and I feel the same way.

Isn't it the art of knowing what to say and what not to say, and not to let each other's conversation fall into an awkward atmosphere?

When getting along with the opposite sex, you should pay special attention to the two people to keep a certain distance, if you don't have the idea to be with the other person, don't have an affair with him, because the spark between the two people may be inadvertently rubbed out, if one party likes the other party, but the other party doesn't like him, then this situation will be very embarrassing.

1 Tactfully refuse.

If you don't like the other person, then after others have confessed to themselves, you should politely refuse, don't use excessive words to hurt him, after all, there is nothing wrong with liking someone, but you must make your position clear, don't let the other party have hope and blindly entangle yourself.

Don't engage in ambiguity.

If the other party has expressed his meaning to you, and you have rejected the other party, then don't be ambiguous at this time, otherwise the other party will think that you have a good impression of him, and he will still have hope that it is still possible to be with you, which may make him fall deeper and deeper.

3 Don't show it all around.

If a person expresses love to himself, but the two people are not together, this situation must not be publicized, because it is very likely that the other party will feel that he is discouraged by the success of his confession, and if everyone knows, he may feel particularly faceless, which is also indirectly hurting him.

4 Talk to the other person if necessary.

If the other party is depressed because of the breakup of love, and completely forgets about his work and study, at this time you should talk to him, encourage him to get back on his feet, and leak it to him to explain that everyone will experience countless setbacks in their lives, the most important thing is to see how we deal with it, we must learn to dare to overcome difficulties.

5 Give your reasons.

If the other party still doesn't give up, then you must say your reasons, but don't hurt the other party, after Yuan Oak says his reasons, maybe the other party will be able to understand himself, and he will no longer be stalking himself, so that the troubles of two people can be solved.

6 Encourage him to make himself better.

Many people may fall out of love and feel that they have lost the whole world, and at the same time they have lost their fighting spirit for various things. At this time, you should encourage him to make himself better, so that he will not be rejected again in the future, and you will have more choices.

Two people try to be friends.

Many people may feel that two people are strangers from now on if they are not together. But I don't think that's right, two people can't be together but can still be friends, after all, friends are a rare wealth in life, and usually the people who can confess to themselves are also people who know themselves better.