Is it true that loving someone only asks for giving, not asking for anything in return?

Updated on psychology 2024-03-02
34 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Happiness will not wait for you all the time, the people who love you and the people you love are not ready to appear, please learn to cherish them.

    When a person who loves you deeply changes for you, it is because he loves you, and when you meet someone, he puts away his stubborn temper for you; And because he loves you, he turns your interest into his interest when ......Or because he loves you.

    There is no reason to like someone, and there is no regret to give.

    They all think it's worth it, as long as they can be with the people they love.

    In fact, we all have some such people around us, but (you. I. He hasn't discovered that the person who knows you best will always be by your side to protect you and not let you have a trace of grievances; People who truly love you may not say many things that love you, but they will do many things that love you.

    If you find someone like this around you, please cherish .......

    Please remember! The stars that can't be picked are always the brightest, and the small fish that slip away are always the most beautiful. The missed movie is always the best, and the lost lover always understands you best.

    In this world, everyone has someone they want to find, and once they miss it, they won't come back.

    If you fall in love, don't give up easily. It's awkward, maybe you regret it for a while; But you give up, and it may make you regret it for the rest of your life. A life that has experienced love is beautiful, and love that cannot stand the test is not profound.

    Beautiful love enriches life, and love that has passed the test is perfect.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Love can be produced in a second, but love takes a lifetime to complete. Love: to understand, but also to unravel; To apologize, but also to thank; We must admit our mistakes and correct them; Be considerate and considerate, accept, not endure, be tolerant, not conniving; It is support, not domination; It is a condolence rather than a question; It is to pour, not to accuse, to be memorable rather than to forget; It's about communicating with each other, not about everything:

    It is to pray silently for each other, not to ask for many from each other, it can be romantic, but don't waste it; It's okay to hold hands at any time, but don't break up casually If you do it all, even if you don't love someone anymore, you will only miss it, not hold grudges.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    The meaning of "everything" in everything that loves a person is very large, how much is everything, it depends on how your heart treats it personally in this love, no matter how much you pay for the person you love, it is not worth it at all to pay for the person you don't love, so how do you have to pay for loving someone? I believe that there is no one positive answer in everyone's psyche! Does it really cost everything to love someone like that?

    And that's not one yet.

    There is no answer to the answer.

    Finish! No one knows what it will cost, and no one dares to measure it. Love a person, don't care how much you give, it depends on what kind of love you are worthy, what kind of action you have to take in that love!

    For some people, you don't have to give everything to love someone, but for some people, it has to give everything, and different people and different loves will have different actions and practices!

    To love someone is to give endlessly for her, don't reciprocate, as long as the person you love is happy, you will get the greatest happiness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Although your love is not unrequited, the love you give is far more than that of the other person. Even if the other party just does something inconspicuous and good to you, you will pay for him more and give everything for him. When your lover should also be happy, keep it up, and believe that he will fall madly in love with you one day.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you really love her very much, then you will hope that she (he) can be happy, and be happy.

    As long as you see the happy smile of your loved one, you will be satisfied, and you will be happy Love someone deeply, you can not care about gains and losses, do not care, do not ask for returns, it depends on your thoughts.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    I think it's okay to have this without asking for anything in return. There is no need to pay silently, the other party is completely unaware of your existence, completely unaware of your good - I don't think, this is commendable.

    The emotional giving still needs some degree of return. In return, the other person knows what you have done. Just let him know, and that's it.

    As for the returns, I can't say for sure. No one's efforts are guaranteed to be 100% rewarded. Moreover, it is also abnormal and inappropriate to give feelings that need to be reciprocated.

    However, I definitely don't approve of doing a little thing and talking endlessly. I can't wait for the other party to repay you with a personal promise. This is a utilitarian pay, and the other party may not like it, and it may not accept it.

    You should still be honest and do what you want, and don't complain if you don't get anything in return. In this way, even the only good feelings you have will be lost. The other party hates to have to know you, so you have to bear this unexplained responsibility.

    And there are very few people who give silently without asking for anything in return. Only, she is willing.

  7. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Truly loving a person is willing to give everything for him, do anything for him, although it is not to ask for anything in return, but it is inevitable that the heart still hopes to get something, love is two-sided, in fact, occasionally love without asking for anything in return, maybe you will indulge him, but there are many definitions of love, just to see which one of them is really suitable for you.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Loving someone needs to feel the reward, this kind of return is given by the other party, not by themselves, and the small flame of love needs to be nourished by the return of love between each other, otherwise it is easy to extinguish. Love can't be like a transaction, you have to pay as much as you want.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    There are many kinds of love Explanation of Love in the Bible:

    Love is endurance and gifts; Love is not envy, love is not boasting, it is not arrogant, it does not do anything shy, it does not seek its own good, it does not get angry easily, it does not count the evil of men, it does not like unrighteousness, but it loves the truth. Bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things; Love never ends.

    Do you belong to the love above?

    If you are.

    You certainly don't care about the return if.

    You're not. It's okay to be careful.

    Don't worry too much about it. Society is very realistic

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    To love someone is to be satisfied when you see him happy; To love someone is to comfort him when he is sad; To love someone is to care for him when he is hurting; To love someone is to want to rush to his side immediately when you hear bad news about him; To love someone is to be able to cry for him, but when I said that I would forget him in the future, my heart was deeply imprinted with his shadow.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    If you really love someone, you will be willing to pay for him But it depends on the situation if you don't get him in return, if he has a heart and doesn't want to harm you, you put this love in your heart; But if he just wants to use your contribution to satisfy his vanity or achieve a certain goal, he will advise you not to pay meaninglessly in this love, so that in the end it will only tire yourself and make others happy In this way, you probably understand.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Yes, if you really love someone, love should be selfless, unrequited, and even give everything for the loved one!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If two people truly love each other, they will not be unreciprocated, and you will feel that being together is the best reward and the greatest happiness.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Love is selfless giving, if the giving is in return, then this pay is not a pay, but an investment.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    The reality is that 99.9% of them want to be reciprocated, and it doesn't matter if they don't get a return, that's nonsense, since they pay will be reciprocated, and a very small number of them are all for each other to love each other.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    That's a fool, how many people have such a high level, love is selfish, want to possess, have illusions.

    Love that doesn't ask for anything in return is because you don't get that love.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Blindly giving is not rewarded, you will feel unfair after a long time, except for parents who do not care about returns, it may be difficult for others to do not care about returns.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    No, why should he give everything if he doesn't love you, love is consensual, why should he pay alone

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    Yes! As long as he really loves you. That's it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    That's a fool, it's okay to pay, you keep paying and he can't see that you live for him.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Not necessarily, if you really reach that state, it is transcendence, otherwise it is self-deception.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    It's all pretty beautiful, but how many can really do it, as long as you're happy, you're happy, don't be so persistent.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Love is happy to love once, and there is no regret when you get hurt in the end.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    It depends on how much you love him.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    It's too tiring to love one like that.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    Fart, you don't want anything in return, and you make a fool of yourself.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    It's called unrequited love, and it's painful.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    If you try hard, you won't regret it.

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    Chinese pay attention to equivalent exchange, pay is to get in return, how can it be okay?

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    It will pay off, but look at what.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    I answer you very seriously: before I experienced this failed relationship, I always felt that loving someone is selfless and does not ask for anything in return, and it is not love that asks for something in return. It wasn't until I met him that I took his dedication to me for granted, and when I wasn't sure if I liked him, he put pressure on me (his age required him to feel that the relationship was secure) and then after hearing him say he liked me, I proposed to break up, and I was not sad, but after a while, when I learned that he had a girlfriend again, I panicked, and I was so sad that I didn't know what to do, and I wanted to redeem it, but I heard him say to me that he was tired with me, and she was very good to him.

    All I could choose was to give up.

    Although I only know a little about love now, the biggest benefit of this relationship for me is: no matter how much the other party loves you, if he just blindly gives and does not get a response or return, then he will feel tired sooner or later! Maybe when you really love each other, you will give to each other willingly, so that it is love, and there will be sweetness!

    Don't regret it after it can't be reversed, why didn't you treat him better at the time!

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Loving someone is not asking for anything in return, this is just saying that it sounds good, in fact, people are selfish, how can it be possible to fall in love with each other and not want to get the love of the other party, in reality, there may be very few people who love each other and don't want each other to know, and in turn, it can be said that they dare not say that they don't want to let each other know. Love is selfish, love is not so great, people are realistic, whether you can get it in return or not, as long as you want the other person's love in your heart, this means that you want to be reciprocated.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    Who doesn't want to be able to be rewarded.

    However, it backfires, and giving is not equal to return, so they are not proportional.

    If you put it on a mathematical formula, it is absolutely proportional!

    However, if it is a relationship, many people can't say anything about the relationship!

    So why care how much you give? How much did he or she reciprocate?

    If you really love him or her, what is it to pay for him!?

    If he or she is happy, won't you be happy too!?

    If what you pay is only what you want in return, then you still pay sincerely!

    This is life, it is the process of growth ...

    When you face a lot of things like this, it's not surprising, because you've been numb for a long time ...

    Some things don't just have to be paid, they also have to pay attention to a little way and method!

    As long as you give sincerely, it will definitely be rewarded, maybe not tangible, but it is also a kind of wealth.

    Life will make us less youthful and vigorous, it will make us more mature and stable.

    That's life! Don't sigh, don't grieve.

    The sun will shine on your sky, making your sky even more dazzling.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    True love is not expressed in words, it comes from the heart, when you fall in love with someone, your whole heart will be attracted by the person you love, fascinated by him (her), concerned for him (her), I hope you can see him (her) every minute, when you can't see him, you will always think of him (her), you will be excited when you see it, your heart beats faster, you will feel very warm and safe when you are together, real love for a person will be willing to take care of him (her) care for him (her), give him (her) everything he (she) wants, Seeing the person you love happy you will also be happy, seeing him (her) troubled you will also follow the troubles, but you will do everything you can to make the person you love happy and happy, the real love of a person will want to grow old with him (her), and he (her) with each other, you will look forward to using all your love to bring him (her) the greatest happiness, and you also get another happiness in this process! I often think of him (her) and am happy, I mind him (her) very much, I care about him (her) very much, without him (her) it seems to have lost something, with him (her) I have happiness!

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