When is the strange phenomenon of happy funerals in rural areas? The old farmer can t figure it ou

Summary. On the morning of the funeral, if you need to ask for the spirit, the deceased's family will come to the mourner's house early, at this time, the mother's family usually has to prepare offerings, burning paper and firecrackers, the offering is relatively simple, consisting of eight or twelve pieces of sugar, plus a few seasonal fruits. The bereaved family will set up a small house where the spiritual seat is placed in the paper, called "Louzi", and the deceased's maiden nephew will ask the blank tablet of "Louzi" to be taken out and let the personnel on the outer cabinet write the tablet.

In rural red and white ceremonies, those responsible for receiving gifts and writing gift lists are called "outer cabinets", and those who manage tobacco, alcohol and miscellaneous goods are called "inner cabinets". If the deceased is a man, the tablet is written "First Examination for the Position of the Prince", the surname is written in the front, and the name is written in the back; If the deceased is a woman, the tablet will be written "Lady of the Ancestors" or "Position of the Lady of the Ancestors", with the surname of the husband's family in the front and the surname of the mother's family in the back. The font of the tablet must be written in block letters or official scripts to show solemnity.

Before writing the tablet, the mother's family should give two boxes of good cigarettes to the staff on the outer cabinet, as a thank you, and the people on the outer cabinet also need to be polite.

On the morning of the funeral, if you need to ask for the spirit, the deceased's family will come to the mourner's house early, at this time, the mother's family usually has to prepare offerings, burning paper and firecrackers, the offering is relatively simple, consisting of eight or twelve pieces of sugar, plus a few seasonal fruits. The bereaved family will set up a small house where the spiritual seat is placed in the paper, called "Louzi", and the deceased's maiden nephew will ask the blank tablet of "Louzi" to be taken out and let the personnel on the outer cabinet write the tablet. In rural red and white ceremonies, those responsible for receiving gifts and writing gift lists are called "outer cabinets", and those who manage tobacco, alcohol and miscellaneous goods are called "inner cabinets".

If the deceased is a man, the tablet is written "First Examination for the Position of the Prince", the surname is written in the front, and the name is written in the back; If the deceased is a woman, the tablet will be written "Lady of the Ancestors" or "Position of the Lady of the Ancestors", with the surname of the husband's family in the front and the surname of the mother's family in the back. The font of the tablet must be written in block letters or official scripts to show solemnity. Before writing the tablet, the mother's family should give two boxes of good cigarettes to the staff on the outer cabinet, as a thank you, and the people on the outer cabinet also need to be polite.

Asking for a spirit is an important procedure in northern funeral customs, which usually refers to the death of one of the husband and wife, and the spirit of the deceased party is invited home from the cemetery to the day of the funeral from the time of the death of the other party, and the deceased party enjoys the sacrifice at home with the next party, which is also a way for filial sons to commemorate their deceased father or mother.

The most painful thing in the world is life and death. The death of a loved one was originally a sad event; But now, some of the old people have just driven west, and their temperatures are still alive. After the children squeezed out a few tears and howled, everything was back to normal.

The strange phenomenon of "joy and mourning" is normal for simple old peasants not to understand. In our traditional view, death is the most important. It's all sad.

Because of this, the funeral has an irreversible solemnity. This solemnity is not disrespectful to the deceased, but a great respect. As a so-called red and white happy event, people call it a "happy event", which refers to the death of an old man who died a normal and long-lived life.

However, this sentence does not mean that the descendants of the old man are no longer sad and their hearts are no longer heavy, nor does it mean that the funeral can be regarded as a "happy event". In the countryside, the dying old man is called "joy and sorrow". People always try to create a concept of a happy event.

They express this mood through big movements, firecrackers, gongs, drums, suona, and song and dance performances. This is not normal and should not be expressed in this way for the elderly and children.

We must get rid of those bad social customs, do not "do happy events" after the death of the elderly, or hold big funerals, and concentrate on serving the elderly while they are still alive, so as not to breed bad customs. In the final analysis, funerals and funerals in rural areas are both face-saving issues and compete with each other. This is because some people have psychological problems.

I think that as long as the old man is alive, he can take good care of the old man, even if the old man is still alive. After death, a simple operation will leave a good name. The Chinese nation has a fine tradition of honoring parents, respecting the elderly, and loving the young.

Moreover, supporting the elderly is also a kind of good deed that accumulates virtue and does good. It also sets a good example for our children, killing two birds with one stone.

As a child, you need to go home often, give more ** to the elderly, and provide better living conditions for the elderly. This not only allows the elderly to live out their old age safely, but it is also a good thing. Children are role models.

Families who support the elderly are generally happier, everything is going well, and their children's careers are successful.

I think this matter needs to be controlled to a certain extent, and now people are paying more and more attention to funerals, which is a bit extravagant and wasteful, so I think the relevant departments should issue a warning.

Not in a few years. Because people nowadays attach great importance to the death of their loved ones.

I think as long as you don't change your minds, you'll continue to do so. It's because everyone thinks it's a sign of respect for the dead.