My dear uncle unfortunately passed away unexpectedly, should these four good friends come?

It has a lot to do with the fact that you are unemployed at home.

The point is that you don't work in society, so you don't know the people of these people.

1. No matter how close your uncle is to you, he is too far away from them in the eyes of your friends. You think he's as close as your father, but in the eyes of your friends, a person can have many uncles and uncles, but only one father. You said that you didn't want people to give gifts, but you didn't directly say your requests, and most people would think that you didn't want to give gifts.

If your uncle dies and you have to give a gift, then this matter will be endless, because you have other uncles and aunts and uncles and aunts, and you will go bankrupt with the gift money. Generally speaking, when a relative of a friend's family has passed away, only immediate family members such as parents and wives will attend the funeral.

When people are working hard, all kinds of interpersonal relationships are very troublesome, you really think you are brothers, and if you need anything, just mention it directly. When my father was seriously ill, my friend called me and asked if I needed help, and that was because she knew that I was not working at the time and was alone, but I didn't bother anyone. If you are depressed, you should explain the situation directly and ask them to accompany you, especially those friends who return to you, if they don't even give you this comfort, it will be chilling.

Just what you said, I think your friends will be chilled by you when they know it: you are not Sister Lin, they are not Brother Bao, it is not easy for people of this age to listen, and they don't have time to guess your thoughts. Because when ordinary people encounter this kind of wedding and funeral, they think about the ceremony, and they feel that your uncle's relationship is already quite far away, and there is no need to come.

Especially the one who took the kiss, do you care too much about what you have done for others? As far as your uncle is concerned, who does he know about your friend? Isn't that for the sake of your face?

It doesn't matter if you help, it's only a matter of how much it costs to rent a car. It's the same for your friend, what he owes you is a favor, not your uncle's favor, and he doesn't care if he pays you back.

3. You said that they are very familiar with your uncle, and the reason is that they have eaten a few times, which makes me think that you are too serious. Now outside, friends of friends, relatives of friends, have eaten together many times, and they are still far from familiarity. Your eldest sister's situation is the same, your father-in-law is already very polite, and probably came here knowing that you have a good relationship with your uncle, and it is enough for him to come, do you need their whole family to come?

First of all, uncle is not the same as father, you are close to uncle, but for other people, uncle is gone, don't come can really say the past, if it's a friend's parents are sick or need help, then you must go, parents are different from uncle, and you mentioned that your wife's sister didn't come, in fact, the truth is the same, they are not your direct relationship, everything wants to open, don't pay attention to these little things, men should be generous, don't care about anything, friends should be frank, A person's family, friendship and love are indispensable, I hope it can help you.