Do we love because we are lonely?

Perhaps! Maybe it's because you're in such an environment that you think of having someone share it. Perhaps mature men know better about this.

None of us will know what love is, what is true love, sometimes people are really contradictory, no matter how smart people are, it is the same, there is no smooth sailing, and there will be no eternal breakage, so we must believe that there is no failure, only a temporary stop to succeed.

Hope you have the best of luck.

Sometimes it's not, when you think about someone, it's not just because you're lonely, people are like this, when you love someone, it's almost like thinking about him all the time, normal. That person is your first love, if so, I guess you will never forget it in your life.

It may be that there are too many people who are in love around you, and people generally fall in love not because they are lonely, but because they think about it when they see others falling in love, and it may be better if you are surrounded by people who are enterprising for their careers.

In fact, don't believe too much in the dry love on TV, love that can face reality can last for a long time.

Do you only think of him when you're lonely? Didn't you think of him when you were happy? Maybe he used to only show up when you were unhappy and lonely. So you'll think of him. Perhaps, you liked him because of the joy he brought you before.

Feelings are really a wonderful thing, but sometimes they are also selfish, people are now in the relationship and career double harvest, it is difficult to remember the person they liked before, but once there is something unsatisfactory in life, you will miss your previous love object, in fact, this is just a kind of psychology. If you miss someone a lot when you're not lonely, I think you're really in love with him.

The mood is changing, and after a while, you will naturally forget about him

Mr. Ringer said".AloneWhen this word is written, the realm is lofty, and there seems to be an invisible force pushing people forward, so that after you are afraid and afraid, you can see the sun through the clouds, be reborn, and understand lifeFeel at easeThe essence is—Return to loneliness, urging you to see through life and know how to behave. When I learned to feel, there was an indescribable sentimentality around me.

A moderate sense of loneliness can be profound, unique, and elegant. Life also needs this kind of profundity, elegance.

People's loneliness is to see the beautiful scenery and realize the inner happiness, but there is nowhere to tell or shareOne can discover when one is lonely that love is unique and love is important. Everyone has love, even if they are lonely. When you fall in love with solitude, you can put your mind and your soul at work.

Alone, leaning on the door to watch the moon, stopping in the courtyard to enjoy the scenery, lonely or not?

This song is Eason Chan's "The Lonely Brave", and the lyrics should be "Fight, Fight".

The lyrics are as follows: All are brave.

The wound on your forehead, your different mistakes.

None of them have to be hidden.

Your shabby doll, your mask, your self.

They say to tame every monster with light.

They say to sew up your wounds and that no one loves clowns.

Why solitude is not glorious.

People are only imperfect and worthy of praise.

Who said that the sludge-covered are not heroes.

Love you walking alone in the dark alley.

Love the way you don't kneel.

Love you have confronted despair.

I won't cry.

Love your tattered clothes.

but dare to block the gun of fate.

Love you and I so much like you.

The notches are all the same.

Go, deserve this ragged cloak.

Fight, fight, with the humblest dreams.

To the whimpering and roaring of the night.

Who said that only those who stand in the light are heroes?

They said, "Quitting your madness."

It's like wiping off the dirt.

They said to go up the stairs.

And at the cost of bowing your head.

Then let me not ride the wind.

You're just as proud of what kind of loneliness.

Who said that the ordinary are not heroes.

Love you walking alone in the dark alley.

Love the way you don't kneel.

Love you have confronted despair.

I won't cry.

Love your tattered clothes.

but dare to block the gun of fate.

Love you and I so much like you.

The notches are all the same.

Go, deserve this ragged cloak.

Fight, fight, with the humblest dreams.

To the whimpering and roaring of the night.

Who said that only those who stand in the light are heroes?

Your mottled is different.

Your silence is deafening.

you are the hero

Love you walking alone in the dark alley.

Love the way you don't kneel.

Love you have confronted despair.

You are the hero, love you from the wilderness.

I don't borrow anyone's light in my life.

You will build your city-state.

Above the ruins.

Go, go, with the humblest dreams.

Fight, fight, with the most lonely dreams.

To the whimpering and roaring of the night.

Who said that only those who stand in the light are heroes?

Yes, we have not found any other creature in the vast universe, and we may not find it in our lifetime. Are we a lonely civilization? Could it be that the seventh universe is the only civilization that survives?

Writer Zhou Guoping said:"Loneliness is a kind of love, and people without love are not lonely"。

I think so. I don't know when I started to feel lonely, but experience has taught me that it was with this loneliness that I began to find myself, and I officially grew up. Everyone is actually lonely in nature, in an absolute sense, no one will accompany them through their lives, loneliness is the background color of life, but also the beginning and end of life.

Loneliness is also a sign of a person's maturity, which in a certain sense illustrates the depth and breadth of life. Any experience and thought is meaningful only when it returns to oneself and thinks independently. A person who can think is admirable and most powerful.

One of the biggest help to me from years of reading life is that I have gradually understood what loneliness is, as well as the exact value and aesthetic significance of loneliness in the essential sense. Loneliness is good, it is one of the most appropriate ways to know oneself and be good at thinking, and its most direct good result is the old saying: those who know others are wise, and those who know themselves are clear.

Be sober and self-aware, be self-conscious, consciously keep a sufficient distance from the outside world, and not be moved by customs; The second is to heal, be your own psychiatrist, heal yourself, and rely on yourself as much as possible, which is a helpless choice, in fact, it can also be an active posture. And a sense of loneliness to be avoided is that when you are alone, it is easy to walk into a false dead end, perhaps more negatively, such loneliness, don't do it.

Loneliness is different for everyone, and loneliness is unspeakable, it can only be experienced.

I thought I could just share thoughts. And the reason why I like this book "Six Lectures on Loneliness" by Taiwanese esthetician Jiang Xun is that I hope to have a deeper understanding of loneliness from more angles and levels. This meaning and understanding is more metaphysical than psychological.

Mr. Jiang is an esthetician, and his deep theoretical knowledge and skillful expression skills are enough to enable him to have a deeper grasp of loneliness, which is incomparable to ordinary people. I'm sure everyone who has experienced and appreciated loneliness will love this book. He made us understand:

Loneliness is the beginning of a successful life, there is no experience of being alone with yourself, you will not know how to get along with people, love and loneliness are actually the same thing, you understand loneliness, you also know love, people who have love, no matter how you go, will easily find your way home.

"One Hundred Years of Solitude" is not a good read**, the construction is too grand, and the combination of magic and reality is quite difficult to understand. For first-time readers, repeating names that are difficult to remember can be a challenge. Moreover, Marx himself was quite in favor of the "schoolboy style of writing", so that the whole work does not read with particularly strong dramatic conflicts, in other words, a bit like a running account.

As a first-time reader, what this century-long family that eventually disappeared left me with a new understanding of loneliness - love and non-love, it's all loneliness.

What is loneliness? The term is too abstract. This feeling sometimes flares up at some inadvertent moment, hidden so deeply that it startles; Sometimes this feeling is accompanied by every imprint of life, and with time it gradually ferments and decays, externalizes into action, and destroys people's faces.

At the moment when loneliness comes, I only feel that I am the only independent and fragile individual between heaven and earth, and I can't find an outlet for my emotions, so I can only brew in my heart until I wring out the sour bitter water.

What is the cause of loneliness? Abandoned? No one understands?

Having trouble fitting in? All kinds of small reasons are because I can't feel the love passed on by others. This is true of most loneliness.

Colonel Aureliano in the book is a typical representative of lifelong loneliness, destitute and without love. Male and female copulation is a physical need for him, driven by desire. He is arrogant, vain, cold, does not respond to the love of others, and does not give.

He has spent his whole life battling loneliness, because he locks himself in a world of solitude and loneliness, and he clings to it and does not want to step out. In fact, Colonel Aureliano is an amplification of countless people in life, and the author portrays him as a loveless man before the bend. However, it is impossible for a person in life to be completely loveless, and loneliness still accompanies a considerable number of people, even if there are tens of thousands of reasons to escape loneliness around him.

Compared to Ao, who has nowhere to seek a solution to loneliness in his life, aren't we much happier in reality?

Of course, if you are a person who is willing to endure mental loneliness for some reason that cannot be abandoned, it is also an option to stand up for yourself. Such people generally become "real madmen" or "madmen in the eyes of the world".

Colonel Aureliano is, after all, an outlier. In fact, all the characters in the book have unique attributes, but none of them can escape the fate of loneliness. In particular, there is no escape from the loneliness that comes with thirsting for love.

Love is a good medicine to comfort loneliness, but the deep love is taken advantage of by loneliness.

Two people who love each other like this can still have someone else's place in their eyes? When you recognize it, you will miss, and when you miss it, loneliness will come.

This loneliness brought about by love can only be dispatched by the other party, and there is no other solution.

I hope that this inexplicable loneliness, you and I can fall into it without an antidote.

I love you before I believe in you, and I am willing to do it.

The sum of loneliness - Wu Wenfang.

Words: Wu Wenfang.

Music: Wu Wenfang.

If I'm a flower, for whom is it blooming?

If I were a bird, where would I fly?

The sparkle of a star is not enough to make a star phase.

The sum of a large tree assembles a single weight.

Truth has vacated the lonely environment.

Because the sum of loneliness makes us snuggle up to each other.

Embrace each other's sentimentality even if you can't have it.

We are the sum of loneliness, so we are together.

How to break free from the ups and downs of your feelings.

If I'm a flower, for whom is it blooming?

If I were a bird, where would I fly?

The sparkle of a star is not enough to make a star phase.

The sum of a large tree assembles a single weight.

Truth has vacated the lonely environment.

Because the sum of loneliness makes us snuggle up to each other.

Embrace each other's sentimentality even if you can't have it.

We are the sum of loneliness, so we are together.

How to break free from the ups and downs of your feelings.

How to break free from the ups and downs of your feelings.