Someone asked you three times and twice what to do with borrowing money?

It depends on what kind of friend it is, and what you want to borrow, if it's a general friend, it's not necessary, if it's a good friend, you also have to look at it, but because there is an urgent matter at home, what about borrowing? Borrowing money is small enough for him to develop this habit.

I think you can just tell people that you don't have any money, so that they won't come to you to borrow money next time.

Generally speaking, I would refuse, after all, it is not easy to make money on my own, and neither am I.

That's because you refuse not to be in place, and directly tell him that it is inconvenient to borrow, and if he is still entangled, he can't borrow.

I might lend him a little money the first time, and if he doesn't pay it back, I won't lend him money the second time.

If I don't borrow, I myself am poor, and if I want to refuse others, I must do it as soon as possible. Don't hesitate to be ambiguous: give people a little hope, let others count on you, and finally disappoint them.

This is more hurtful and irritating than an open and honest refusal in the first place. The gentleman is frank, and the villain is often related! Money is your hard-earned money, borrowing is love, not borrowing is also duty.

To borrow or not to borrow, no one else has the right to blame. ‍‍

If you are not familiar with it, you will refuse it categorically and be merciless, lest he look for you again next time, and simply offend it once in place, so as to prevent future troubles. Because we don't have the time or energy to rip it off. The rest of your life is very expensive, please don't waste it, cherish life, and stay away from scum is a wise move.

I think it's better to lend to better friends, and to help others is to make yourself happier. ‍‍

I'm really sorry, I really don't have the money to help you this time, the family is in a hurry to use the money, the money is given to the family, what else is there to use me, if I have time, I can come over to help.

I don't borrow, I don't borrow money either! I only said this sentence once, and since then no relatives have asked me to borrow money, once and for all. Although it was embarrassing at the time, I only offended one person, and it was much more harmonious when I got along with other relatives, and they automatically blocked me from the borrower, and I didn't have to have a headache how to refuse, how good. ‍

Be honest with each other, directly analyze the situation where you are really unable to help, explain the objective situation frankly, and refuse directly. But these situations should be shared by the other party, so that not only will not hurt each other's feelings, but also win the other party's understanding.

Unless you are seriously ill, you can lend money to others, except for those who are relatives, you can't lend it to him, it's not that I'm cold-blooded, because I have lent more than 100,000 yuan to my relatives, and I won't buy a house for me this year. ‍‍

I choose not to borrow, but to borrow willingly, without complaint or regret; Don't lend to others for the sake of face, because of the embarrassment, that will not only embarrass yourself, but also may not be able to gain a friend, maybe when you go to beg for money, you will become an enemy, I have seen many such examples. ‍‍

It is indeed for emergency relief, and it is also reliable for people. And you don't want to lend him money, then you can only say that you really don't have money, or make an investment, or have something to use at home, etc., give a reasonable explanation according to your actual situation, and then immediately say that there is something else that can help just open your mouth, be sincere, don't sweep the face of others, be a person and leave a line, and see each other in the future.

Generally, if the relationship is good, there is nothing to say, and if you have it, you will borrow. Generally speaking, it also depends on things, who doesn't have a time to borrow money now? It depends on the integrity of the person.

Anyway, some people just say that I don't have any! Just lent it out. Some people will be tactful and explain how much money they have just used.

So now I don't have it in hand. The main thing is really that there is no sprinkling, and now there are hundreds of people who do not borrow directly! The mobile phone has Alipay, why borrow it???

Generally, people who don't want to pay it back have the following thoughts.

01. A type of person who wants to repay the money, but has no money, and there is no pressure to be persecuted, so he simply does not pay it back.

02. When borrowing money, both parties are coincidentally polite, which leads some so-called friends to think that everyone is a brother, and it doesn't matter if they don't pay it back, thinking that the other party doesn't care, so they don't rest assured.

03, I owe money, I am a gentleman now, I owe you some money and dare to be polite to me? Seeing that you are unhappy, I can play to kill you. This category is the person who owes it relatively and has a very poor character.

Find an opportunity to borrow money from him. Or in appropriate small talk, remind with joking words. If you don't wake up, you don't want such a friend, break off your friendship!

Summary. Hello dear!

You can complain about the low salary in front of your friends When you refuse to borrow money from your friends, you can complain in front of your friends that the current job salary is too low, how the boss picks the door, and you do so much work every day to get such a little salary.

After understanding your friend's difficulties, then change the topic, and then pull to the account of your own life and expenses, and then calculate your daily or monthly income and expenses in front of your friends, preferably an account that cannot make ends meet, and your friends should also dispel the idea of borrowing money from you after understanding your situation.

My good friend has asked me to borrow money over and over again, I really don't want to borrow it, how can I tell him?

Hello dear! You can complain about the low salary in front of your friends When you refuse to borrow money from your friends, you can complain in front of your friends that the current job salary is too low, how does the boss pick the door, and you do so much work every day to get such a little salary, and when your friends listen to your complaints, they should not borrow money from you again except after comforting or agreeing with you. After understanding your friend's difficulties, then change the topic, and then pull to the account of your own life and expenses, and then calculate your daily or monthly income and expenses in front of your friends, preferably an account that cannot make ends meet, and your friends should also dispel the idea of borrowing money from you after understanding your situation.

Tell a friend that you still owe money to others This trick is the most absolute, friends borrow money from you, thinking that you will have a surplus to borrow from you, and when the other party knows that you not only do not have any money left, but also need to borrow money from others, it will be even more embarrassing to talk to you about borrowing money, and even feel ashamed. Compare with friends and shout poor Everyone is not easy in life, and they will encounter a lot of difficulties, when friends tell about the difficulties of self-elimination, you can also take out the things that happened to you at the same time worse than your friends, or take out the more difficult things to say, so that your friends feel that their difficulties are so insignificant, and they are even more embarrassed to mention the matter of borrowing money.

After a friend borrows money and you politely refuse, you can also make suggestions to your friend, for example, who has no money last time to borrow from someone, he should have money, you can ask him, who is talking about Sakurayama and who is talking about him here are all you know with the friend who borrowed money, so that the friend feels that although you have no money to lend him, you will help him find a way, so that the friend will not be resentful and turn against him because you did not lend him money.

Summary. If you can borrow but don't want to borrow more, then don't borrow at all, there is a high probability that you will borrow the money and say that you are not sincere to help him, believe me, when you want to use the money to let him repay the money, people will not hesitate, no is no.

Hello, dear, you can tell him that you are not in good health, or your parents are not in good health, and you may have to spend a lot of money recently. Of course, the so-called poor health is just an excuse, but it can also make people retreat. If the other party is still obsessed and wants you to lend him money, then you don't need to tell him about the relationship.

Such relatives don't also call Li Ba.

If you can borrow but don't want to borrow more, then don't borrow at all, there is a high probability that you will borrow the money, and you will say that you will not be able to help him sincerely, believe me, and when you want to use the money to let him repay the money, people will not hesitate, no is no finches.

Hello, if you or your friends are in need of money, you can consider taking out a loan to relieve stress, and at the same time, you should do what you can and work hard to make money. Now there are many ways to apply for a loan, you can apply for a bank loan through a mortgage, and a more convenient way is to apply for a personal credit loan.

Don't borrow, you have to look at the specific situation, look at his character and what he borrows money for, you can't borrow money from him because he invited you to dinner, which may lead to the money not coming back, I used to be like this, asking for money is the same as my grandson, it's too difficult, and the relationship between the two people is nullified, I suggest you find a reason to shirk it, thank you.

You also invite him to a meal, so that he does not feel that you owe him money to borrow money, and after the meal you can refuse his request to borrow money. In this way, you can save face and not hurt your friendship, and I believe that he will also be interested and will not come to you to borrow money again.

If you don't want to borrow, don't borrow, just say that you don't have money, don't be embarrassed, borrowing money once has a second time, and it doesn't end at the beginning, and you must be embarrassed to ask for it back, so it's okay not to borrow, or say that the investment is lost, or it is given to the family, there are too many reasons.

Then please return him! Money can't be borrowed, please say that the money is not your responsibility! I don't have much money, and the family conditions are not very good! He can't beat you and force you! In the future, I will not have much contact, and I will not always be a good friend! Unafraid!

You can say that you don't have any money, if you don't want to borrow, just make all kinds of excuses not to borrow, lest he need to find all kinds of reasons to not repay the money in the future, which is good for everyone.

If you are not familiar with it, you will lose face, and if you do not have an investment plan, you will have to reject it. Besides, you don't have any plans to do that, do you?

There is no return to borrow money, give as much as you want, and don't give it.

This kind of person meets again and again to borrow money. We must resolutely reject such people and avoid dragging mud and water.

If you don't want the money, lend it to him.

You invite him to a meal and ask him what he is doing and why he wants to borrow money from you.

If you don't have anything to do, go to the Three Treasures Palace, his intention in inviting you to eat is that he needs to ask you to borrow money, so you can not go to such a meal.

If you don't know a friend well, or don't want to lend them money, you can just tell them that you need money recently, so you are nervous about cash.

Invite you to dinner to borrow money from you, such friends rarely come and go, friends talk about money hurts feelings, in addition to really encountering difficulties, help is due. But the frequency of borrowing money from you again and again, it is recommended not to borrow, it is easy to borrow money and difficult to repay, if you don't lend him money anymore, it doesn't matter. Learn to see the friends around you.

Just tell him that your money has been used for something or lent to someone else.

If he asks you to borrow money once, then you borrow him once, if he asks you to borrow money, you say no, or you just keep the amount of money borrowed within a certain range.

Inviting you to dinner is a friendship between you, and if you want to borrow money, if the amount is huge, you need to think about it at this time.

I don't think we can just because he invited you to dinner, and then you lent him money uncontrollably, this practice is not reciprocal, we should help him in our own limited ability, so you should make it clear to him that you don't have such a great ability to help him.

You can refuse when he invites you to dinner, if you don't want to refuse, you have to find time to invite you back after bringing someone to invite you, which is the way of hospitality and friends. If he asks you to borrow money again and again, you have to see how your relationship is, whether you know the roots, whether the other party is a trustworthy person, this kind of person can only borrow him once at most, I personally think. If you have to borrow money for a whole thing, it means that no one is willing to lend him, so only choose you!

A friend has invited you to dinner before, and has repeatedly asked you to borrow money, then you can ask the reason for borrowing money, and if you really need help, you can borrow some appropriately.

If you don't borrow it, it will be worth a few dollars for you to eat. Loan, or don't you come back, do you still stare at him every day?

Personally, I think that if it is a reliable friend you can trust, he is really urgent, you can lend it to him, on the contrary, you can think of an excuse to refuse!

It depends on your financial situation and your relationship with him.

It's all voluntary.

Do you want to get it back if you lend money to someone?

I think it's very common for friends to borrow money, and sometimes I don't want to borrow, but I may lend some for the sake of face, but this will put myself in a long debt situation. So, I have a few suggestions on how to deal with this problem.

Since you said that your friend has already borrowed money from you three times or twice, then you must be clear about your position. Because it may be because you didn't refuse thoroughly enough in the first two times, so if you really don't want to borrow, then you must make it very clear to him this time. In fact, if you think about it the other way, I think you can understand exactly what your friend is going to do with this money.

Because he borrowed money three times and twice, it must be an urgent need for this money, so it is likely to be an emergency need, if you refuse three times and twice, then it is likely that your friends will not be able to do it in the future. But if you are really in trouble and can't come up with so much money, then you should explain the reason to him, and it is better to have a chance to talk to the two of you in person, because I think it will be more relaxed.

It is the most difficult thing to borrow money between friends, because after I lend it, it is the grandson who borrows the money, and the uncle who pays the money back, and usually it is returned in time when it comes to the specified date, and it always has to drag on for a while, so it is very entangled. But like me, I'll save face and borrow a part of him.

At that time, we agreed, for example, in August, I waited until October and he didn't pay me back, and then I mentioned the money to him, and he said he didn't have the money at that time, and he said he didn't have the money at the time, and he would pay me back when he started his salary next month, so you can imagine, things are still the same. Then I told his mother that I thought it was very inappropriate, but I was not obligated to give him the same thing as a fortune boy. Now we have a good relationship.