What are some truths that you can t listen to until you experience it yourself?

Alone, don't rely on the railing. Until yesterday, a 40+ year old man fell from the second floor five meters behind me and died on the spot. A pool of blood and a pool of brains, his neck was broken, and he struggled and went down, which was extremely miserable.

Don't let your child lose at the starting line. I used to feel that I had to compare myself with others all my life, which was the source of tragedy in life. Now that I have children, I don't think so.

Learning to develop good habits on Zen Habits, the author repeatedly emphasizes "one at a time" and "step by step". When I first watched it, I didn't believe it at all, and every time I decided to develop a lot of habits, and every time I wanted to achieve a quick leap forward. After many, many failures, I finally had to "train one at a time" and "step by step".

There is no future for part-time work, your youth is all the boss's, but if you don't work, you won't be able to start a business, and your youth is even more wasteful.

I was taught to go to school well since I was a child, and I always thought that going to college was not the only way out, but it was even more difficult to find a way out if I didn't go to college.

Instead of regretting, it is better to cherish it. I want to go outside when I am studying, and I want to go home to spend time with my family after work, just like when I was a child, I wanted to grow up quickly, and when I grow up, I want to go back to being carefree when I was a child.

When I was still memorizing words, I heard a sentence: don't underestimate your ability, don't overestimate your perseverance. At first, we all thought that as long as we memorized 10 a day, it would be more than 3,000 a year.

But in fact, it is not difficult to carry 3000, but it is difficult to persist for a year. If you don't feel it, you won't listen.

I've heard it said before that the time of love = the time of forgetting after falling out of love, and time is the best healing medicine. I didn't believe it before, but then I experienced it and believed.

Marriage should be the right person. I didn't agree with this sentence before, and felt that as long as we were truly in love, the growth environment and family background were not a problem, but now I feel that falling in love may really need to be a good match, and the story of Cinderella and the prince is only in fairy tales.

Adults often say, "Pay attention to your glasses, you will be short-sighted", I don't care, I inadvertently become really myopia.

Opportunities are for those who are prepared! I used to think it was a very simple sentence, I never thought about it or practiced it seriously, and I always put off what I had to do until the last minute. If you have experienced it, you will believe it!

Why do they say that going to school is better than going to work? It's better to go to school! This is something that almost everyone who goes to work can't help but sigh about. When we were in school, we were tired of exams and the pressure of going to school, and we listened to adults say, "You'll know when you go to work," but we didn't think it was right at all. ‍‍

The first and second uncles are actually successful, and we are still on the way to success. What we see is only the result of the second uncle's efforts, he has been recognized by the surrounding environment and reflects his own value, but this is the result and not the process. And the second uncle's intelligence and hard work are not something that everyone can imitate.

We can see the future of our second uncle very clearly, but what about our own future? So, we still have to trek in our own circles.

Second, find the correct positioning. The second uncle found his own position in his environment, the target customers were very clear, and the business model was also very clear. In reality, we are still confused about our own direction and cannot find our own position.

3. Sense of value. The second uncle's light breeze is a kind of mentality that can only be possessed by people who know where their value lies and reflects their own value. Because he knows he's on the right path. In reality, many people have not yet found their worth.

Therefore, the second uncle is actually still inspiring, but we are still in the process of the second uncle being cured by the doctor, or in the process of the second uncle's self-study. And the second uncle's final breezy demeanor is a state that we have worked hard to achieve throughout our lives.

If you don't go to the Yellow River, you don't give up, you don't hit the south wall and don't look back, you can only empathize with yourself if you have experienced it yourself.

Teacher Xiaolai kept saying. You must "believe" in your own bright future, and the so-called "believe" is "120% believe", because only in this way, when you are hit by others and lose 20%, you can still believe 100%.

What a powerful mind! And I have never reached the realm of "believing", I just believe shallowly!

I tossed hard, tore my cognition hard, and didn't miss my karma, believing that I wouldn't live such a dull life forever, but at the same time, with a little cowardice in my heart.

Doubt that the bright future will belong to you, doubt that you can achieve that distant goal.

Try to dilute your own wounds, try to ignore the negative forces of the outside world, frequently and continuously beat yourself with chicken blood, and get close to more and more people who are rich in encouragement and positive energy resources.

I finally realized the compounding effect of continuous deliberate practice, and although it hasn't lasted long so far, the progress in myself is so obvious that I can't ignore it anymore.

Many things that used to be a little difficult to remember in my heart and required a huge amount of willpower energy to accomplish seem to be the same now, and you can laugh it off.

I finally pushed myself into the world of action. ‍‍

Through the accumulation of compound interest in action, there are some things that I couldn't think of before, but now I think these things can be completed if I work hard!

There are some things that I used to think I couldn't do, but now I believe that I can do them, and what I have to think about is not whether I can do it, but how to do it in the shortest time!

I feel the strength of my heart growing little by little!

Don't underestimate your abilities, don't overestimate your perseverance.

When I was in high school, I didn't have many channels to learn about information, that is, through some magazines and some youth literature, I learned about some so-called life principlesThere are some that he feels are naïve and impossible, and there are some that do prove that he is right. That's the reality, it's just that I didn't believe it at the time. <>

There is no so-called empathy in this world, and it is impossible for parents and children to feel that the communication between their parents is a very smooth thing, and they need to tell their parents what they need, and their parents will satisfy themselves most of the time, but then as they get older, after entering college, there is more and more generation gap with their parents, because they don't understand my living conditions, and then there are a lot of things that they don't understand, so naturally there will be a generation gap, and they are sometimes very unhappyBut they can't understand it, they think that every day you just need to go to class on time and rest on time, and you don't need to make money, what do you have to worry about? Why aren't you happy? <>

I've seen some chicken soup before, that is, a person's degree of independence from the surrounding environment depends on his degree of economic independence, at that time I didn't understand this sentence, not to say that I don't believe him or don't understand what he means, now we understand that the economic base determines the superstructure, this is a very simple truth, how much freedom you want, is affected by how much economic freedom you have, if you can be financially independent, not bound by your parents, not bound by the other half, As long as your actions do not violate morality and do not violate the lawThat's all your freedom. But when you depend on your loved ones for everything, don't talk so much about equality and freedom. <>

There are a lot of realistic truths, you don't know whether he is right or wrong without personal experience, just like saying that when I was in college, I saw some friends around me fall in love, and after graduation, some people got married, and I slowly understood that whether it is a man or a woman, your status and freedom in the family depend on how much ability you have financially, and the same is true for women, even more obviousIf you have no financial ability at all, and you have to rely on your other half for everything, then you should not talk about too much equality and freedom, because you can't even solve economic problems.

Learn from the past! When I studied the Analects before, I didn't believe that I had already read a book, and I already knew what it was talking about, so if I read it again, how could I have new knowledge? I didn't believe this until I experienced it myself.

If you pay, you will be rewarded, if you want you to want you to work hard, as long as you are good to others, others will be good to you, etc., I always thought that these truths were to deceive children, until I worked hard to win this customer, signed a big order, I really believed.

It's the phrase "people have to learn". When I was a freshman, I wasted a lot of classes and failed the course, and now I listen carefully to every class and make a lot of progress.