I don t know how to chat, whoever gives me ideas, I want to change!

It seems that you are also quite small, it's normal, it's not a problem, don't have a burden, even if it's a problem, it's a problem for everyone, so it's normal, so it doesn't matter, haha! I don't know if you've heard of it, but you can.

There is a person, I don't know if you have heard, Dale Carnegie, the American success master, to put it bluntly, he is a teacher of words.

One of Carnegie's fundamental views is that what you say must be what you understand.

yes, don't you know how to be interested? I am not familiar with it and am not interested, so who can be interested in listening to it?

Actually, I was also very introverted when I was a child, but I was a man, so I was a little thicker-skinned, hehe

I'm not good at talking, and I'm not very interested in communicating, but there are still people who say I can "speak in the vernacular".

Actually, it's very simple, I know something that others don't know, as long as this situation exists, I have the possibility of speaking, and anyone has things that he doesn't know!

Therefore, it is said that you can understand more things, be good at observing and thinking, develop the habit of thinking about problems, read more books, or even just watch TV, as long as you are selective and have content

And then it's shameless! It doesn't matter if you're embarrassed, you don't feel it, you're afraid of losing people, and people are more afraid of what, haha

Believe in yourself, say what you are interested in, understand, and take your time! No problem! 0(∩_0

Don't be too nervous, aren't you happy to meet such an occasion? When you are alone, you can reminisce and think about how they talked at that time. Think about what you want to know about the person you like, what questions you want to ask him, how do you think he will be, and how you talk to him.

Such assumptions will allow you to gradually get into the character. When you encounter such a scene again, like a performance after a rehearsal, you will feel familiar with the road. Of course, other people's may not be what you think.

You can ask the next question. But when you have time, you have to think about how you will respond the next time someone talks to you like this. After practicing like this for a long time, you will be very gregarious.

Well, landlord, indeed, sometimes it can be painful to be silent. I want to join again.,But there's no topic.。。。

You should open your heart more and observe the things around you more, it may be boring, but it doesn't require you to go deeper, and the skin will be fine. The main thing is to broaden your horizons. Learn what people like and what they hate.

What kind of things and what characteristics, from time to time you can also add your own opinions. These can also be one of the topics of conversation. If you want to join others, then you don't hesitate to like others to join your world.

Maybe your door is always closed, but you have to open that window from time to time to change the fresh air and change the mood! It's normal for you to be introverted, but if the sun doesn't shine on you, it's abnormal autism. Making friends is also making friends, and it should be gradual.

It cannot be said that it is to change oneself, but to improve oneself. First of all, we must have self-confidence, and with self-confidence there is a way. If you want to gain someone's favor, you don't have to please him, but you have to use your charm and temperament to infect him, as long as he is worthy.

The landlords are more open-minded. I also wish you the best of luck.

If that's what you're talking about, and you want to change it, there's that kind of eloquence training class, you can try it.

Listen more and be with people who are good talkers.

You can start with a little bit of what you are best at, or find some topics in advance that you think may be of interest to everyone, and then slowly everyone can participate in whatever others say, and it's okay to take it slowly, girls, it's normal to be introverted, come on

First of all, you have to read more books, read more newspapers, read more news, and then find your friends, pull out what you see and hear, say it, exaggerate a little, popular is to brag b, blow the sea and blow, say more, and listen to more, and then find a better boy, understand the difference in topics between boys and girls, and finally the person you love the most, don't blow it here, damage the image, in short, it is to communicate more, take the first step, I wish you success!!

It is very important to go out into society and communicate!!

Think flexibly, pay more attention to current affairs or something, enrich yourself more You understand what they say, you can join them If you don't have your own opinions, you can't talk about it, it's that you don't understand this, you don't think enough, you don't have your own opinions, you don't have your own ......opinions

If you think about it, you have to change.

Watch more movies! Pay more attention to the trending topics lately! But if you've been like this for a while, you've got to start taking your time. It's best to talk to your best friends first, and then reach out to your friends, so take your time! There will always be someone to say!

I'm not afraid of talking nonsense, I'm afraid I don't have to say it!

Try to get involved in the topic, even if you are not interested, smile and look at each other, and you can also think of something that interests you and share it with others.

You don't have to say it, just ask

Ask him about the past, ask him about his current life, ask him about his future ideals, and let him say, you come and listen Soon after, you will make a lot of bosom friends, and when you ask, you can add a little in the middle, your own thoughts and opinions!

In fact, making friends is as simple as that.

When others speak, you can get involved, don't care if what you say is right or not, whether you say it well or not, focus on participation, the atmosphere of participation.

That 、..Aren't you very autistic?

Tell me more about how you feel in your heart, and your friend will definitely talk about his feelings, so we start talking、..Hehe.

Learn more about social knowledge, news, etc., and you will have the opportunity to chat.

Alas. It's the same! Always silent, silent, silent. Silence is gold [Leslie Cheung].

Seek answers together. I'm a super chiller.

It's related to your age.

First of all, it is essential to dress up the following and the first impression is important. It's not rude to give a gift for the first time, it's what to give. Why bother thinking about money and material things when it comes to gifts, you can make a collection of your chat records on your mobile phone from now on, and attach ** (about you), meet and wait for the chat to be familiar and then take it out (the packaging should be eye-catching), it is best to attach the words that will be romantic, it should be almost.

Don't tell her until you go back, and when you get there, you call ** and tell her, of course she won't believe it, you'd better buy something she likes to eat.

You just give gifts, I'm a girl, I know. Girls love to give romantic gifts from boys. You get to know the local romantic getaways and take him there.

This depends on the person who puts the dishes on the plate.,Can't teach.。。 If you have time to listen to cross talk, it will be humorous.

Cai Kangyong's book, go buy a copy and read it.

Remember, when two people are in love, you must have this belief: patience, tolerance, and perseverance.

What ideas to talk about specifically.

Actually, you're similar to me, I'm worse than you, I'm autistic and depressed... **You still have to rely on yourself: First, make more friends to expand your social circle Second, learn to break the psychological barriers, such as going to the interview, don't think about anything and go inside, you won't be afraid to go in, anyway, you have already entered.

Just play normally, don't have too much burden in your heart, the ugly thing is whether he loves it or not, if you don't want it, I'll find the next one, don't let yourself be pressured. Third, if you are dependent, you can find a way to be independent, and if you don't have to do things as a last resort, you don't rely on others, even if you go out to buy a bottle of water, just do more by yourself, and get used to it for a long time.

I feel like it has something to do with my family.

Start by deciding on something small, and slowly gain a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence.

Learn to do some of the most basic things, don't have the idea of dependence on anyone, and slowly get better.

Find a friend who is not afraid of things, just take it with you, or read more books. Knowledge makes people confident!

Imagine yourself as God, omnipotent.

I often say to myself, I've grown up.

The essence of Chinese inheritance culture.

China has a history of 5,000 years of civilization, which continues to this day, showing a rich and colorful traditional Chinese culture everywhere. There are exquisite folk crafts. Such as:

Paper-cutting, ceramics, printmaking, sculpture, woodcut, dyeing and weaving, tiger head shoes, wheat straw painting, brand painting, Tang Sancai, face people; There are ancient folk arts, such as: drama, storytelling, shadow puppetry, Chinese painting, embroidery, kites, garden architecture, clothing and ornaments; There are also unique customs and habits, such as: Spring Festival couplets, Lantern Festival lanterns, Dragon Boat Boat Race, Mid-Autumn Festival moon cakes, Tujia "marriage", Dai "Songkran Festival".

There are many traditional festivals in China: Spring Festival, Lantern Festival, Qingming Festival, Dragon Boat Festival, Mid-Autumn Festival, Double Ninth Festival. Among them, the most solemn is the Spring Festival and the Mid-Autumn Festival, and the most commemorative is the Dragon Boat Festival.

Spring Festival, this is the most solemn festival of the Chinese, where there are Chinese people in the world, they all celebrate the Spring Festival, no matter how far away from home, no matter where they go, they must rush back to their mothers on the day of the Spring Festival. For this day, every household should clean their homes early, paste window flowers, buy New Year's goods, paste couplets, set off firecrackers, wear new clothes, eat dumplings, bid farewell to the old and welcome the new, and be healthy and healthy for the new year.

The Mid-Autumn Festival is a reunion festival. After spring planting, summer sowing, and autumn harvest. In this season, the autumn is high and cool, the grains are abundant, the melons and fruits are fragrant, people have worked for a year, and the harvest is in sight. Therefore, every household makes moon cakes, eats moon cakes, and appreciates moon cakes, symbolizing a year of reunion.

In addition, the Dragon Boat Festival is handed down to commemorate a patriotic poet --- Qu Yuan. The poet Qu Yuan was dissatisfied with being relegated to the Chu River area at that time, and the poet felt that the future was bleak, and he threw himself into the river and died on the fifth day of the fifth month of May. In order to commemorate him, the local people make zongzi and eat zongzi on this day every year, and some places hold dragon boat racing activities.

In life, we can feel the rich and colorful traditional culture of China everywhere, and these traditional things are the treasures of the motherland, which need to be passed on from generation to generation.

In the love field and the battlefield, it is impossible to use any means! If you think you have a future with him! Then keep your mind on your mind! If you love him, why don't you get him.

It's your question again, and the purpose has changed. Yes, you don't give up, grind slowly, but let's get to know his girlfriend first, how to understand it clearly.