What should I do if the matter between my boyfriend and his former girlfriend is not resolved

Remind you that this man even bought a house in order to marry that woman, which shows that he loves him deeply. And the reason for the breakup is that the woman likes someone else, but I think this man still loves that woman very much, but he can't accept it all of a sudden, but he must forget about that woman, find you after half a year and propose marriage so quickly, so you must be clear whether you are a substitute for his feelings or a kind of emotional sustenance! If you are really sure that he truly loves you, then you should face everything with him, love is something that two people work hard to strive for.

You said above that you are tired, and it feels like you want to give up. I think if you say you want to quit because you're too tired when he really loves you, you're wrong! And if he really regards you as a kind of sustenance for his feelings, I think you should quit early!

The landlord thinks twice.

Friend, don't let this get stuck in your heart. I think this has risen to the realm of the combination of material and spiritual, and I used to have some spiritual adjustment problems. Now, let me tell you what I think about this, I think that as your boyfriend, I have been deceived by that ex-girlfriend, and now I have been brought so much trouble by that woman, and I don't think that woman is a good thing, and she is so shameless that she has not paid a penny out of the house!

I still want money. Look at how stiff things are now, if your boyfriend doesn't marry you for this and marries her, I think your boyfriend is dizzy! How dare he marry such a tasteless woman?

One day, everything in the house was sucked by the woman and then divorced, and it was too late to regret it! Besides, if your boyfriend can still be with her, I think you'd better not stay with your boyfriend, I can't think of any reason to make your boyfriend change his mind to that woman. If you do go back, you should tell yourself that the man is not clear-headed!

Let's talk about this matter again, in fact, this is a matter between him and the woman, and it can't be connected to the relationship between you and your boyfriend at all, because whether you love him or not is not determined by the house, and whether he loves you or not is not because he has a house. Of course, whether you can get married in the end depends on your fate, and fate can't be separated! As you, I think what you have to do is to grasp your love and grasp the future you want!

Okay, that's a lot to say, I wish you all a family!

It's really troublesome, I'm about the same at the moment, but it has nothing to do with the house, it's the money from his previous girlfriend's family to regret the marriage, because they were married before! I feel like you have to look at his attitude towards his ex-girlfriend before deciding what to do. And you must know that he and her girlfriend didn't get married because of something, so if you weigh it before and after, you will count it again in your heart!

It feels like I still have to believe him.

If you love him. You should trust him. Can't believe it.

You should ask yourself questions. How much I love him. It's not been long since you've been together.

A lot of things are just hazy. And not profound. Let's figure out if you love him or not.

Not loved. Leave early.

Yes, if you love him, you have to believe in him! But there is a limit to this faith

Love him and don't doubt him!

I won't have met on the Internet, hehe, where can I wait.

The most afraid is the boy who likes to play ambiguous, tell him directly, you care about him very much, don't want him to play ambiguous with other girls, he must say no, you are too sensitive, at this time you say believe him, if he doesn't change, just dump it, come to me, haha, I'm also very good.

Ask him if he has a real girlfriend like you in his heart.

If you don't break up with him right away.

If so, ask him to play ambiguously with other girls and consider your feelings.

Just say that you don't want to, you care. If he cares about your feelings, restrain it, and if he thinks it's normal for him to do so, just split it up.

Tap him at the right time and say you don't like it, but don't be jealous.

Everyone has a first love, and it's understandable that your boyfriend keeps in touch with his former girlfriend, but it's worth noting if the relationship is ambiguous. The relationship is maintained by two people, if you really love him, you should seriously warn him, for he is still in a relationship with his ex-girlfriend, you are very sad, ask him to promise never in the future. If it happens again, you can be separated from him for a short time, just don't contact him, if he cares about you, he will be fine!

Thank you for adopting o(o....Wishing you happiness!

Have a showdown with your boyfriend, saying that you don't like this, since you choose to be with me, don't dwell on the past, I don't have that belly, to tolerate you and her as masked friends, you have to talk to him face to face for this kind of thing, don't look for that woman in private, so you will be very ignorant.

Hello! If your boyfriend and ex-girlfriend haven't broken off, you just tell him.

Let them deal with what is done.

I'm coming for you. Say you don't like him the way he is, what is that called!! It's clearly pedaling two boats!

Communicate with your boyfriend, break up if nothing works!

Negotiations, if the negotiations fail, they have to be isolated.

Don't dwell too much on this, after all, it's your boyfriend now, you can care about his ex-girlfriend with him, participate in them, and let the woman retreat, of course, you have to be kind and gentle from beginning to end, boys are afraid of girls being gentle If he cares about your feelings, he will consciously restrain himself. Also, pay attention to communication.

Ask the reason why I contacted my ex-girlfriend again.

2 people together Communication is necessary.

Tell him that the key to communication between two people is to tell him how you really feel.

Let him have a time with his ex-girlfriend, and you can say something that touches him: if you love her, take care of her.

Actually, I wanted you to kick him.

Then you have to communicate with her well, there may be things you can ask her to let him solve them by himself next time, and if there are some major things, you can let him inform you, and then find a way to solve them together.

1. Break up without breaking up. The answer is given to you in the third question.

2. Love doesn't love you. It can be said that there will be. But. He hasn't fully recovered from his previous relationship. So. It's better to give him some time.

3. Handling of **. It's to return the ** to him in person. Tell him you don't want to be a stand-in for another person.

If he tore the ** in front of him. I don't need to say that. It's definitely not a breakup.

But. If he puts the ** away again. There are also two cases.

One is when he tells you that he needs time to forget the past ... The other is that he won't say anything. In the former case, he can be given time to think it through.

But in the latter case. His idea may be to hide the feelings he once had in his heart ... At this time.

You can tell him directly. If he doesn't love you. Then break up...

So. It depends on how well he behaves ... You can also push him appropriately.

If he can tear the ** apart in the persecution. Then you don't have to break up. Because at this time, although he does not want to.

But He is willing to do something for you ... It's been a long time. He will be single-minded with you ...

If he says he loves you. I don't want to deal with the ** again. Then let him choose...

He will choose the answer in his own heart ...

1=No breakup. Break up words. It's too stingy to show that you don't love him. The child was a little angry.

2=He still loves you. Just reserved a little bit of their goodness to that girl. Don't care too much about people, they're not around you, aren't they.

3=Give it back to him. You just said you accidentally got it.。。 Let his mind be on yours. **。。He would.

Dealt with...

You believe him

If he's good to you, there's no problem, he keeps his ex-girlfriend because he's a kind of affectionate and righteous person, not the kind of person who is in the twilight, and I'm not married, so I'm not very acceptable to talk about marriage after just half a month of dating, and I just broke up with my girlfriend who has been talking for 4 years, so I know your mentality very well, since he said he wanted to let go, and his ex-girlfriend also went to the UK, it is impossible to reconcile. So I think you still have to use your care and consideration for him to completely possess the whole of his heart! ** should be returned to him, and be tolerant of his feelings for his ex-girlfriend!

1. Don't talk about breaking up for the time being, but I advise you not to get the certificate tomorrow. If you want to talk to him, you must talk openly and honestly, let both sides think it through, and think about it maturely.

2. Women are sensitive, and you should be able to feel how deep his love for you is. I believe. Maybe his ex-girlfriend is just like a beautiful memory of first love, and it won't be good to keep it. Isn't it?

3,**You keep it first, don't destroy it. After all, it could hurt his heart and self-esteem too much.

Finally, I advise you, be a smart woman, love him, and allow him to have some space for himself, okay?

1.Of course not.

I still have my former boyfriend's **, but that doesn't mean I don't love the present, allowing him to have the past, is to forgive your end, every minute will become the next second of the past, if you can't let go, so much past, how can you clean it up?

2.I think you know best.

Have you forgotten that you still need to trust each other in love?

When love begins to involve two different families, love is not only love, but also affection and responsibility. Whether he loves you or not, I think you should know better than anyone else, it's too late to discuss this issue now, if you shake your mind because you see that **, then I think the person you don't love is you.

3.Be a generous and decent woman.

You don't have to deliberately find a place where there is no one around, as long as you feel that you are ready, you can return the ** to him, and gently say in his ear:"I'm sorry to stumble upon this **, she's beautiful, I think she'll bless us. "Calm, smiling, without jealousy or temptation, this is not cowardice, it is to show him how generous and tolerant he has a wife.

If I were him, I would be ashamed and guilty of my actions.

Remembering the old man's feelings are fragile, they also need comfort and love, if you really love him, you have to take everything that loves him, replace the little shadow in his heart, sometimes just need a word, an expression.

I also kept my original girlfriend's **, although my current girlfriend minded it very much, but she understood that I didn't love her like her before, ** was just a souvenir, and I wouldn't take it with me.

I think the key issue is to find out if he really loves you, if you have been dating for a short time, it is advisable to look at him for a while, and whether you can really forget that relationship (not necessarily forget that person), even if it is just a promise, because it takes time to forget something.

1 Breaking up can be considered, but marriage is not to be discussed, only people who truly love each other are suitable for marriage, I don't think you are heart-to-heart, at least for now.

2 Whether he loves you or not is known only to him, and you can ask him directly (of course, it is not excluded that he lied to you). Maybe he's just using you as a temporary support, and if his ex-girlfriend changes his mind about him, then his feelings for you will be vulnerable.

3** You must give it back to him, because you still love him, and if you love him, you should respect him.

I'm a person who hasn't experienced any feelings, so I don't know much about boyfriends and girlfriends, and the above is just a personal opinion, just for reference. ）

Oops, love is so complicated.

First of all, we must trust each other, believe in each other, and be tolerant of each other.

Haven't you been tolerant of him before, be generous, give him back generously, and then tell him that you are also stingy and ask him to deal with it himself, if he loves you, he will naturally have a sense of guilt, and he will naturally behave very well to you in the future, and he also needs time and space.

1.Why bother with a breakup so serious.

2.It should love you.

3.Actually, I think, you should give him ** and let him handle it himself.

That relationship is his, even if you are his girlfriend, even if you are about to get married, you have no right to deal with it No matter what, this relationship has passed, the past, why are you too obsessed with I believe that he is also trying to let go of the past, why don't you give him time, tolerate him, and forgive him?

I think that's a bit of a problem.

If only you put it in a drawer and look at it occasionally.

It's a bit too much to carry around.

Does he love her too much and can't forget it, or does he not know how to cherish your feelings?

You marry such a man.

Can you guarantee that you won't have conflicts over this matter in the future?

Don't get married first, talk to him seriously, if not, everyone calm down for a while, watch him behave, if he is still like this, you can't help but mind, then end.

Really, marriage is a beautiful thing, I hope every girl can marry happily So, the landlord thinks twice.