I have been in a cold war with my wife for more than a year, and I feel that I have no feelings, sho

Cold war with his wife.

The emergence of the Cold War is a manifestation of the naivety and immaturity of the husband and wife, and the lack of emotional communication between the husband and wife hurts not only themselves, but also their young children.

No feelings are just your personal statement, you have two children, your feelings have been condensed in the child, and the child is the bond of your husband and wife's feelings.

Parents who face the cold war every day will also be at a loss and at a loss, which will make the child's actions become cautious and have a great impact on the child's growth.

With a wife and two children, you should know your responsibilities and think about how to make your children live a happy life, instead of selfishly thinking about yourself first.

When there are difficulties, we should find a way to solve them, instead of thinking about giving up marriage, family affection, and family, which is a bit unrealistic.

Children have the blood of their parents in their bodies, and since they have given birth to children, they have the responsibility and obligation to raise them.

Your husband and wife have been in a cold war for more than a year, and the reasons for this must be very clear to both of you, no matter what the reason, you should solve the problem quickly, instead of "adding cold to cold".

It is irresponsible to give up a marriage with two children.

There is no responsibility, no ability, and you want to escape, giving up marriage can only be easy for you, but you put pressure and pain on your wife and children, and a responsible man will never do this.

I personally believe that a man is a big husband and should be able to bend and stretch, not to mention that taking the initiative to talk to his wife at home will not make a man lose face at all, because you are a husband and wife, "every family has a scripture that is difficult to read", and it is also one of the skills of men to be able to make their wives and children live a relaxed and happy life.

After more than a year of the Cold War, we should find a way to resolve the contradictions between husband and wife, instead of prevaricating with the excuse of having no feelings.

I have a few questions for you: Would you like to watch your 2 children live in a broken family? Would you like to watch your 2 children be left alone? Would you rather watch 2 children cry in agony? Will you live happily without your children?

Husbands and wives need to be tolerant, need to understand, need to respect each other, and need to love each other; Instead of wanting to give up on marriage when you encounter difficulties.

After more than a year of cold war, it was just that there were problems in the relationship between husband and wife, and giving up marriage could not completely solve the problem.

Now, you need to let go of your posture and resentment, calmly take the initiative to communicate and speak with your wife, break the deadlock of the Cold War, and let your wife and children feel your care and love for them.

A smart man can make his wife and children live happily, and being a man who is responsible, responsible, and capable of making his family happy is a man's enviable ability.

If the marriage can be repaired, it must be repaired first, especially if you have children, divorce is a harm to both parties, to the family, and to the children. Of course, there will be no feelings for the cold war all the time, feelings will not come out of thin air, you should break the cold war and try to awaken your feelings for your wife. If you really can't get over it, give up and minimize the damage.

It's best not to give up, after all, having two children, after divorce, will add a lot of trouble, which is not conducive to the growth of the children, find a way to resolve the conflict and get back together.

Don't give up, after all, you already have two children, the children have done nothing wrong, there is a cold war, you should actively admit your mistakes, if you can get the other party's understanding, then the cold war is over.

You can talk to your wife first to see if it's because you've been in touch for a long time, so you don't feel emotional, and you have two children, you should think about it clearly, and you can't give up!

In fact, you can choose to give up, and you should also pursue your own happiness with two young children.