Do you have any tips for managing love?

Everyone wants to be respected, and mutual respect is especially important before loving someone. Respect for each other includes many aspects, such as: respect for each other's living habits, respect for each other's interests and hobbies, respect for each other's opinions and opinions, respect for each other's family and friends, etc.

Never criticize the other person with a condescending attitude, if you feel that the other person is doing something wrong, or you hope that the other person can make changes for you in some aspects, use a gentle, caring tone and communicate with the other person calmly. Only in this way can the other party be infected by you like a spring breeze, and will seriously consider your opinions. Any domineering will only make people disgusted, and at the same time expose a person's cultivation and quality, just imagine, who would want to listen to the advice of such an unqualified person.

You have to treat each other with respect. Respect each other's ideas, each other's opinions, and each other's actions. There is a word called respecting each other, getting along with the other half should be kind, don't take the other party's contribution for granted, so that your mentality changes, and the other party will naturally be aware.

Understand each other on the basis of respect. Understand his difficulties, understand his suffering, understand his difficulties. If you can think calmly before you start arguing, then maybe things won't go violent.

Be vigilant with yourself. Be wary of whether you are slowly becoming numb because you have been together for a long time, and whether you are not as sensitive to the small touches of love as you were at the beginning. For the small contradictions of life, is it gradually becoming ignored or even disgusted.

Don't ignore the sense of ritual because you are familiar with it, and in managing love, a very taboo sentence is: "It's all old husbands and wives, what kind of romance do you play." The reason why marriage has become the grave of love is largely because there is no sense of ritual in marriage when you are in love.

This sense of ritual is as simple as a gift for an important holiday, a kiss goodbye before leaving the house in the morning, a hand-in-hand walk by the river after dinner, or even just a sincere "I love you". Whenever I see a pair of gray-haired old people holding hands in the sunset, I will be moved by their love, because they have not abandoned the ritual sense of love after decades of getting along. Although, the two of them holding hands have long been like their left hand holding their right hand, but they have never given up these ritual actions, perhaps, the feeling of electric shock back then can never be found back, but the temperature from each other will still be a warm current surging up in the heart.

The sense of ritual is the preservative of love.

To give each other full trust, trust is the premise of two people getting along, without trust, everything is impossible. If there is no trust between friends, it is a big deal to choose to leave, and if two people who share the same bed and sleep together are suspicious and counter-suspicious of each other every day, then it is tiring to think about this kind of relationship. It's not easy to delete the text messages before going home every day, but what if you don't delete them, maybe it's not really what is in the text messages, but the sensitive nerves of the other party can always initiate infinite imagination from anywhere.

Even if you choose to be together, you must choose trust. If you choose to trust, the other party will be worthy of your trust. You choose to be suspicious, and over time, the other party can only be worthy of your suspicion.

I feel love, when arguing, give both parties time to calm down, and then talk about the reason for the anger and find a solution. Usually care about whether the other party is a little tired and give some comfort. Usually a little surprise, it's okay.

I'm 25 years old and think love is important. Every time I fall in love, I have a sincere attitude to date, about love advice, I can only say some opinions at my age, I talked about the longest relationship for 4 years, after being together but my family disagreed, and then they were together for 4 years, the woman was lazy, no job, and we often quarreled for these. When I broke up, it was a relief for me, I felt that I was not good enough, if I really love someone, he will go to your side, accompany you, and also think about what a relationship will bring to you in addition to two people.

I talked to my 10-year-old sister who was 10 years younger than me, and I was also timid at first, but then she meant that the love was decided by himself, and I accepted it, so I played games and chatted with her every day. After 2 months of acquaintance, I went to meet her, and when we met, I thought that it was impossible for us, that is, I had a meal, and I came back. It's all illusory on the web, keep your sanity.

Love, there is no innate eternity, all eternity must be the result of two people who love each other and manage with their hearts. Only by managing love with heart can the sweetness of love be from holding hands to whiteheading.

I think that the management of love requires two people to be mutual, and then the first thing is to trust, and the second is not to hide something, but to be tolerant.

In fact, love is very simple, as long as you are good to her, you must conquer her with sincerity.

Take the other party as the main thing, put yourself in the other person's shoes, often make him happy, and give him a happy life.

Love should be a luxury in life, not a necessity in life.

Love needs to be managed.

Relationships begin with mutual attraction, and a long-lasting relationship requires effort.

Everything in this world is mutual. You invite me to dinner, I invite you to drink milk tea and watch movies. If you take me to see the stars, I will take you to bask in the sun.

In fact, in the process of emotional management, people should be more heart-to-heart communication, the so-called love at first sight, is just two people friendly to each other, and if you rely too much on love at first sight, no matter what you do, everything will be expanded, especially when something small happens, if you do not achieve your expected goals, or do not meet your own psychological expectations, you will feel that the other party does not love yourself.

Sometimes, the more they believe in love, the more they believe in feelings, their sensitivity in emotional love is much higher than that of ordinary people, and sometimes it is even a very small thing, which can be said to be an inconspicuous small thing, but in their eyes, it can rise to the level of unfaithfulness to the love of the two. Actually, it's a bit like coming across something you like, if you don't buy it, you always think about it every day, but if you buy it all of a sudden, you won't cherish it when you have it.

In fact, in the process of emotional management, people should be more heart-to-heart communication, the so-called love at first sight, is just two people friendly to each other, and if you rely too much on love at first sight, no matter what you do, everything will be expanded, especially when something small happens, if you do not achieve your expected goals, or do not meet your own psychological expectations, you will feel that the other party does not love yourself.

Relationships begin with mutual attraction, and a long-term relationship requires us to manage it with heart.

Everything in this world is mutual. You invite me to dinner, I invite you to drink milk tea and watch movies. If you take me to see the stars, I will take you to bask in the sun.

In fact, in the process of emotional management, people should be more heart-to-heart communication, the so-called love at first sight, is just two people friendly to each other, and if you rely too much on love at first sight, no matter what you do, everything will be expanded, especially when something small happens, if you do not achieve your expected goals, or do not meet your own psychological expectations, you will feel that the other party does not love yourself.

I will run our lives with him, cherish every day in the future, and be a warm-hearted person.

It's not easy to live, and I'm eager to meet warm-hearted people.

At home, it is good to have a warm-hearted lover who thinks of you in everything, speaks in a measured manner, and never makes you angry;

In the unit, there is a warm-hearted group, who don't care about everything, don't laugh or talk, and never talk to you, how good;

Outside, there is a group of warm-hearted people, there are people to help them in everything, everyone is kind, and they never blush with you, how good. If there is such an opportunity, I am afraid that he will be the happiest person in the world. I want to be such a person, I don't think anyone wants to.

Then look back at yourself, is she a person who thinks about her lover in everything at home! I always want my lover to treat myself well, but do I treat my lover well! The ancients said that respecting each other is like a guest, do you treat your lover as a guest?

Perhaps, it was okay when I got married for a while, but after a long time, my lover's face was wrinkled, not beautiful, and she was vulgar, so she got tired of it. There are frequent quarrels, and it is not pleasing to anyone who looks at them. So when you ask people to be nice to you, first you have to be nice to people.

Those who love love to return, and the love is deep. On the contrary, complainers complain and ...... when they are upset

In the unit, you are eager to meet a group of warm-hearted groups, everyone is a group of kind, empathetic, do not care about things, the overall amount of others, smile at you every day, never quarrel with you. But have you done that? Do you give your brightest smile to your colleagues every day?

Do you think about your colleagues and leaders every day? Don't you ever take your anger out on others? If so, congratulations, you must be the most popular person and the happiest person; But the fact is that you always bring your emotions on your face, one will be sunny and one will be cloudy, one will be this is not good, one will be that bad, and you will say right and wrong in front of your colleagues, although it is not a big deal, but it makes people feel that you are always a little wrong, colleagues are alienated from you, and the leader of Xi Chunlu does not trust you, can such a day be called a good day!

You must know that those who benefit others benefit themselves, and those who are blessed are blessed.

What kind of love needs to be managed, so that you can have a long-term love, how do you manage your own love?

1. Create some small romance to impress each other.

Whether two people are a couple in love or a couple who have been married for many years, they must understand this truth, that is, to create some romance appropriately, so that love can always be kept fresh, so that this flower of love will never wither. In love, I will surprise and create surprises, for example, I will ask each other to dine in a very stylish restaurant and have a candlelight dinner, so that two people can be freed from firewood, rice, oil and salt, and enjoy the happiness that love brings us.

Second, decorate the home very warmly, so that the other party is very attached.

As a woman, what she is best at is to decorate the home environment, which is a common habitat for two people, a place for two people to pour out their love, and it needs to be arranged with heart. For example, I will put our travel in the restaurant**, there are seafood at the beach**, there are skewers on the grassland**, in this way, in daily life, we feel that every meal we eat is sweet and meaningful, I think such a warm family will make the other half very fascinated, and I will always rush home in time to prepare Yinyan after work.

3. Constantly improve yourself, so that the other party feels that I have infinite charm.

Managing love is not only about doing things for each other, but also about constantly changing yourself, improving yourself, and making yourself better and better. Because he is constantly making progress at the same time, he is also reminding the other party that he can do better, there are many things he can't see, and he needs to work hand in hand with me, he only looks at the turn of the past self, and the current self, the future self, he can only have a better me if he has been holding my hand. I think that in this case, the other party is very obsessed with himself, and he prefers this temperamental, self-contained, and independent woman.

Then the relationship between the two people will continue to sublimate.

I will choose to trust and understand each other as much as possible in love, and leave some personal space for each other to celebrate as much as possible, so that the other party will not feel pressured.

I try to leave more space for each other in love, and try to trust and understand each other as much as possible.

I manage love with my sincerity, and I also regard my love as very important, and I spend a lot of time on love.

Love is the need for both men and women to cultivate and operate with sincere feelings, love is a rose in the hearts of both men and women, if you want the rose to never wither in the heart, you must use the closest trust between men and women to fertilize and water.

Love needs to be maintained so that feelings can be sublimated.

1. Share your childhood.

In the childhood life of each of us, we hide the influence of our original family on us, and share our childhood with our close partner, not only to share our childhood happiness and troubles, but also to let each other enter our own childhood to experience our own happiness and sorrow.

When we understand the growth process of the other person, we can empathize with each other to the greatest extent, and we can understand why the other person has formed such a personality and temper.

It seems that this is a process of sharing, and at the same time, it is also the fastest way to let the other person into your heart.

2. Make rules for love.

Formulate love rules that belong to two people, and in this rule, it is necessary to include not only the mode of getting along with two people, but also the mechanism of stopping the war between two people.

Especially when two people have conflicts, effective love rules can help us reduce quarrels and avoid cold wars to a greater extent.

A good relationship must have its own love rules, whether or not this rule is specially formulated, but it must invisibly affect the emotional relationship between two people.

3. Share hobbies.

Girls always hate boys playing games, and boys always hate girls for putting on makeup for a long time.

Because boys' interest is to play games, while girls' interest is to be beautiful. This is the difference between men and women, and because they don't understand it, they will be particularly annoying.

Maybe when girls fall in love with games, and when boys fall in love with makeup, they won't hate this interest so much.

So share your interests and hobbies, let the other party understand deeply, he (she) can not like it, but must understand.

4. Talk about each other's view of love.

The concept of love is a very macro expression, just like we always say that the three views are different, in fact, few people can explain which three views are.

The same is true for the concept of love, it is difficult for us to express our view of love, but we can talk about our attitude towards feelings and how to deal with problems when they arise.