What good advice do you have for two people about relationships?

Always remember to be kind to yourself, making yourself more beautiful and excellent is the wealth of a lifetime, the first thing a man sees at you is never your heart, but your figure, face and temperament.

Try to spend as much time and patience as possible to chase a girl, and the girl who can be easily chased by you is either too much in love with you or too casual.

Don't easily like a person who chats with you every day, whether he likes you or not is secondary, and most importantly, he doesn't do anything all day long, just chats with you, and how to make money to give you a future? ‍‍

When there is no love, work hard to make money, a man who does not have a very handsome face can still make up for it by having money, if you don't even have money, you yourself will not like yourself.

Whether it's a relationship, a job, a little more positive energy, don't be pretentious, your girlfriend wants to be protected, not to protect you.

Don't be like a, quarrel with your girlfriend all day long for a little thing, be generous where you should be generous, say less, and you can be in a good mood all day. ‍‍

If you don't do it, this kind of thing actually doesn't make sense, you will be angry because you are fed up, you will be coaxed because you are accommodating, and you should properly grasp this scale. ‍‍

Don't look for someone who is unwilling to show you the phone, whether you look at it or not is your trust in him, and whether you show it or not is the sense of security he gives you. ‍‍

Take your favorite people out for a walk, the more roads you have walked together, the more scenery you have seen, and your relationship will be deeper.

Even if you are the recipient of love, you need to be responsible for yourself. There is no deception in the world of feelings, only differences in the outlook on feelings. I can pursue you, but you can't force me to love only you.

Don't give up your heart easily.

Establish links with others when you feel fully secure.

When you can't help yourself, don't beg for mercy from the person who hurt you, he will hurt you even more, and don't try to take revenge in a weak state, otherwise you will suffer for your own incompetence.

Don't be reluctant to accept people who don't meet your criteria for choosing a mate, their disruption to your hormonal system.

The degree is far more serious than you think, and an inappropriate beginning is destined to end because of an inappropriateness.

Every relationship experience will make you grow, and there is no need to exaggerate its negative effects, no one will.

Love you more than you do, please believe in science and believe in humanity.

When others ask you for a big favor, follow the principle of "promise can be slow, but rejection must be fast".

If you want to reject someone, it's best to be more simply and slippery.

Instead of procrastinating, give hope.

Because no matter what the reason for refusal in the end, the other party has already paid the time and emotional cost of this request.

In the end, I didn't get it done, and I was exhausted a lot, and I was disgusted with you every minute.

You will find that those good old people who are obviously powerless, but can't pull down their faces to reject people, are always thankless.

The same thing, if there is time pressure, it will be very painful and irritable; If you don't have any time pressure, you can feel that there is not much difference from meditation and you can do things by the way.

The same kind of exercise, such as swimming, if you always think about timekeeping, you will feel uncomfortable and become a task. If you are casual and have no time pressure, you can play for a long time without feeling bored.

Similar to tourism, if you follow the tour guide every day, count the time, cramming the return group tour, always feel ** is not right, the mood is not so comfortable. But if it's a little more casual, you'll have a lot of aftertaste and fun.

One way to improve quality of life is to reduce time-stressed activities to less than 10% of the daily routine. In this way, you can maintain internal motivation for a longer time.

Long-termism is to find something worth investing in, and then combine your future vision to enter the game, integrate yourself into or swim in the long-term investment, let yourself become a variable to solve problems, and constantly get closer to the "self" you want in your heart.

Everything in the world is like a parabola on a timeline. The real masters are long-termists, and non-long-termists may be able to achieve success, but life is not a sprint race, but a marathon.

In a relationship, don't let yourself be overly involved in a relationship, learn to find each other's shortcomings and treat the relationship between two people sensibly.

The first is to be calm, calm down to treat things between two people with envy, the second is to make trouble with life as the main state, supplemented by feelings, real life is the basis of feelings, and finally the sail cover is to be sincere and trust each other unconditionally!

In the process of interpersonal communication, temper and character are very important, and it is natural and easy to be with gentle people, and there is often a feeling of moisturizing things silently. Once you let down your guard, it is easy to establish a friendly relationship, on the contrary, if you are too strong, it is easy to make the surroundings afraid to approach, and gentleness is often more powerful than strong.

You will try to please each other, will find a way to get close to each other, and will even take the initiative to pursue each other, as if when we like someone, we are not willing to wait slowly, we are not willing to get along slowly, but quickly start in a round of cheating.

At this moment, we seem to have forgotten to understand each other, to feel whether the two are suitable, so we will pursue directly or when the other party pursues us, we don't think about anything, we directly agree, we think this is love, we think this is happiness, but in fact, this kind of love that is together without getting along is a kind of sloppiness.

"Look for a man, don't listen to what he says, look at what he does. ”This is the love advice given to me by my best friend, which made me feel empowered from a painful relationship, and I have been used to this day.

I used to be naïve and naïve when I was young, and a few casual words from my predecessor I love you made me die. At that time, I really thought that he loved me, and I was so tired of the sweet words of the dead that I almost drowned in the gentle swamp without knowing it. He said he would take me to eat something delicious, but every time I paid the bill, I paid for it.

He said I'll buy you whatever you want, but he didn't even spend a dime on me after he was paid. He said that I was distressed by the cold, but there was no news for several days. He said I would marry you, but every time he mentioned going to his house, he dodged it.

He often says "I love you", but I don't feel his love at all in my heart. I suffered from gains and losses, I became insecure, I became hysterical, and I no longer felt like myself. In the end, I was scolded by my best friend and woke up, a man who really loves you and has responsibilities and responsibilities will not just say and do nothing, no matter how good he says, but none of them are put into action, what is the difference between this and painting cakes to satisfy hunger!

I finally let go, he may love me, but he loves himself and money more. A man who has been together for three years and has never even given a serious gift, what is there to be nostalgic for? I'm not a snobbish girl, I don't ask boys to spend much money on me, but at least I have to be attentive, my words must be done, and my deeds must be fruitful, this is a good man with responsibility and responsibility, and I can prove that the other party really puts me in my heart.

There is no man in this world who does not understand taste, and any neglect and indifference he has is just an excuse for not loving.

Now that I'm grown up, I'm past the age of listening to love, and it's better for a man to say three thousand love words, so it's better to do a practical thing in a down-to-earth manner. This sentence is shared with all the girls, and I hope you can all meet a sincere person.

I have heard: Do not tempt the heart of the heart, for the heart is not resistant to temptation. Don't flip through your boyfriend's phone easily, it will turn you from happy to disappointed, and I have been using it until now.

To be tolerant is to tolerate everything that others, and to tolerate people who are not wrong. Respect is to recognize the ability of others, see the strengths of others, praise them for their strengths, and support them.

Even if two people are together, no matter how good the relationship is, they must keep a little distance, because distance can produce beauty, and they will always get tired of being together sooner or later.

I have heard a lot of good advice: give your loved one a certain space, learn to respect his ideas, and don't force him to accept everything about himself.

Emotionally, don't be suspicious of each other for no reason, this is a very good suggestion, there are many things that are not there, because too much suspicion will also affect the relationship between two people.

A friend once told me that distance produces beauty, and I think this advice is especially practical emotionally.

1.People who really care about you won't be hot for three minutes. The person who is hot and cold to you must have thought of you when no one was with him.

2.If there is something between couples, you must say it directly. There's a saying that's well said:

It's embarrassing to delay. What's the use of face in front of your lover? Face is a word used by outsiders, and if you are still concerned about face with the person closest to you, it may not be enough to be suitable for marriage.

Between lovers and families, the most important thing is communication, caring is to let him know, caring is to let him know, worrying is to let him know, no matter how much you do, people don't know, in the end there is only misunderstanding, only suspicion, only the end.

3.If you are particularly infatuated with someone, then you must not be worthy of him, and when you work hard to match him, you will find that you no longer look down on him.

4.Girls should not get married too early, they must first learn to be independent, work hard to earn money, take advantage of the youth to walk more, see more, meet some people, experience more things, when a person's vision is broad, the choice is comprehensive. Marriage is not a 100-meter race, marriage is not the end, not whoever is early is the winner.

In fact, you can get married slowly, wait until you are more mature, and wait until you understand what you want before getting married. Many people get married not because they meet someone who wants to get married, but because they meet the age at which they should get married, which is actually a sad thing. There is no age to get married in this world, only the love that should be married, the people who should be married, and many times we put the cart before the horse.

5.It's naïve to talk to you for a few days and fall in love with someone.

6.Girls don't make jokes with the opposite sex too easily, others will only think you are frivolous and not cute. Girls don't want to be a third party, if you can be a third party, they will not marry you, let alone love you.

7.All the ininitiative is because I don't like it enough. And the best way to retain a person is to become a better version of yourself.

8.Don't be too scumbag, if you don't like a girl, you have to make it clear to her. If you are a girl, then you have to keep your distance from a guy who has a girlfriend, no matter how good the relationship is.