What are some books about managing love that are worth sharing?

First Corinthians is a chapter of the New Testament that Paul wrote for the Corinthian church. The discourse on love is so classic that it can even be said that it transcends all the words of love throughout the ages: love is long-suffering and kind; Love is not envy, love is not boasting, it is not arrogant, it does not do anything shy, it does not seek its own good, it does not become quick to anger, it does not count the wickedness of men, it does not like unrighteousness, but it loves the truth. Bear all things, believe all things, hope all things, endure all things.

Loving You Like Loving Life" is a "book from two places" with Li Yinhe that Wang Xiaobo never published before his death, and it is also the most complete and independent collection of books and letters between the couple so far. In this book, there is only a silly thirst for love, as innocent as a child. This book depicts all the imaginations of love, untouchable, but always in love with ......At the beginning of each letter, he said, "Hello wow, Li Yinhe."

At the end of each letter, he said, Happy to you, Li Yinhe. Li Yinhe, this name alone is enough for Xiaobo Ai I. He describes love this way:

You and I are like two little children, surrounding a mysterious jar of jam and tasting it little by little to see how much sweetness is inside. It would be nice to save 90 minutes on the road to stay with you. Yes, loving you is like loving life, loving every minute and every second of it.

When I was confused about my own personal feelings, I also read some classic books and bestsellers in psychology ("The Art of Love", "Intimacy", "Men from Mars, Women from Venus", "The Five Abilities of Love (Upgraded Edition)"), read some essays about love ("The Quintet of Love"), and browsed many popular science articles and communities. Some of them teach you to stick to your ideals of love and marriage, some teach you "skills" to maintain long-term love, and some tell you some psychological terms such as "empathy" and "allowing". These textbooks and articles did give me some inspiration, but they couldn't really help me in my love or even marriage choices, nor did they solve the problems in my long-term relationship, nor did they change my deep-seated thoughts in real relationships.

How to Make Your Loved One Fall in Love with You is the work of Lil Lowndes, a well-known American emotion expert. This is a gentle book, and it is gentle and cunning that makes people love it. I read it in its entirety and fell into a long aftertaste.

Of course, there are some shortcomings in this book, the most important of which is the cultural differences and cultural identity between the East and the West. But that doesn't stop us from learning love from this book. It's like there are many languages in the world, and smiling is the body language that everyone can read, and it is also the fastest signal.

It's the same with love. Love knows no borders. We can read about love in Lil Lowndes's book, learn to love, and then reap love.

A Happy Marriage is a practical guide to marital issues. The biggest takeaway after reading this book is that if you love her, you have to understand her. It's simple, but it's extremely important.

When you take a short time every day to understand what the other person has done today and what has changed. It's easy to know what's really in the other person's mind. And when problems arise, you can quickly understand them and find more appropriate ways to solve them.

A popular psychology book based on academic research, three sentences to feel "7 Rules for Obtaining a Happy Marriage". Marriage needs to be understood, because it is so that both spouses feel safe and secure in the midst of it. Putting the spouse first and building this sense of solidarity is an important part of marriage, and at the same time, any lack of attention from parents to the spouse cannot be tolerated.

Conflict resolution is not about changing a person, but about negotiating, finding common ground and finding ways that both parties can accommodate.

The Story of the Sahara is the most popular of Sanmao's works, describing Sanmao's life in the Sahara with her exotic lover Jose. I love her attitude to life, from Taipei to Germany, from the Sahara to the United States, she has always pursued nature and simplicity.

Some of the ideas in Rudolph Drakes' book have profoundly changed my perception and practice of long-term relationships. Love and marriage are inherently different things, and many people live happily without guidance. But perhaps when we understand the nature of long-term relationships, we can be less idealistic and more constructive about long-term relationships.

I quite agree with the idea that the problem of love should be solved by returning to love, but reading may solve the problem of perception.