Which should come first, family or woman?

Kindness... This allows your parents to recognize her goodness, figure out what their parents don't like about her, and then prescribe the right medicine.

If you really love that girl miserably, just be a little bit and cut it first and then play! Get girls pregnant. The old man likes his grandson the most, and even the grandson's mother accepts it together!

If you really don't get along, just move out and live. Distance produces beauty, and if you don't contact it every day, there won't be so many contradictions.

Finally, I wish you happiness!!

Yes? No Blessings? If you don't care that she doesn't have a good sign, it's even simpler. Tim Jin Sun is the most important test for the elder to the daughter-in-law, hehe!!

If the two truly love each other

Don't give up easily

Let's do the work of parents

Let relatives and friends do it

Use your actions to touch the hearts of your parents

After all, human hearts are flesh long

Family is important, but it's not easy to meet the right woman for yourself in your life It's best if you adjust it in the middle, it's like that at the beginning, no one will like other people's children, maybe it'll be okay after knowing each other for a long time.

No blessings? Oh my God, since there is no blessing in appearance, then you two can get him something blessed from somewhere else, for example, she can make your work prosperous, or as soon as she arrives at your house, your family's affairs are very smooth, you can try it, I hope she will be accepted by your family as soon as possible

There is no river that cannot be crossed, this thing is not what you think: getting your loved one and your family is not an irreconcilable contradiction, you can find a way to make your family accept her slowly, if you can't accept other people, as long as you work hard everything is possible! Besides, your family didn't make it clear that it was just you.

If you really love someone, you have to be with her, this is not easy, you should try to change the concept of your family.

You can see it by looking at it, isn't it?

Can you do without that woman?

Can you do without a family?

It's not a clear thing!!

Friend, without a home, will there be you??? Parents are always the best!

First of all, you two have to have faith! Don't give up easily! Then, let your girlfriend come to your house more often, cook with your mom, and take the initiative to wash the dishes.

Then care more about your parents and take the initiative to care. However, her parents felt that she cared about them very much, and gradually felt that she was a competent daughter-in-law! That's it!

You really have to get to know each other!

Family is the support point of life, you should put the family first, you can encourage and persuade your parents, see your sincerity, they will be soft-hearted.

As a parent's work, good feelings should also be cherished, and what long-term love will only lay the root of regret in the future.

Maybe you should listen to your family's opinion, if they are not powerful people, if the girl you love is not a rare girl, if you are not a very assertive person, if that girl does not have the power to change her image in the heart of your family!

The family road is still long, and there are many girls, and they are in love for a long time.

Tell the aunt to be diligent and see what the old lady likes, small and warm, send it to her, and the old lady chats with a natural expression, and it's OK.

Family takes care of you for half your life, girlfriend how many days do you know?

It's best to have both fish and bear's paws.

Family, a good family is better than anything.

Equality between men and women is now advocated, but in most families, the status of the mistress is higher than that of the male hostess. In many cases, it can also reflect the family status of women through some specific expressions!

Many boys are very machismo, and although they do have machismo after marriage, they will correct a lot. In many places, there are boys who turn in their financial income! Especially in the areas around Sichuan and Chongqing, it is particularly serious, and the so-called "rake ears" in the population of Sichuan and Chongqing are also worth learning from many people!

For example, the mother has always been in charge of the family's finances, the father regularly hands in his salary, and the mother will give the father some "pocket money" every month, but there are things in the family that require a lot of expenses, which need to be discussed by both parties, not by one person!

In some families, the status of women is very high, and the husband and wife may attach great importance to their parents' family, and may choose to return to their parents' home to visit their parents during some festivals. But both parents should be treated equally, whether it is a man or a woman, they need to be accompanied and cared for accordingly!

Today's boys are versatile, not only "going to heaven, but also to the kitchen". Many boys can be said to be making good dishes and good meals, just waiting for their daughters-in-law to come over and enjoy the blessings. In a family, if a boy is proficient in cooking, everyone in the family is very happy, can feel full of happiness and security, and such a man is more responsible and responsible.

In many families, most of them are women who cook, but in some families it is men who cook, and everyone's lifestyle and choices are different, and many men think that they are very happy to be able to cook for their wives and children.

In a family, there is no such thing as a complete family status! The mutual understanding and respect between the two is the most important thing!

A woman's family status is reflected in this way, a woman with family status never needs to let a man pay for things, because this shows that he has the economic power in the family, if her husband loves her, he is also willing to hand over his salary, and let the woman manage the expenses of the family, including her status in the in-law's family, which also depends to a large extent on her husband.

Personally, I think that a woman's family status is manifested in housework, and if a woman does not have to do housework at home, then it means that a woman's family status is relatively high.

Women's family status is based on their abilities, the speed at which they work, and their knowledge.

To be honest, the status of women in China is quite high. However, this kind of high status is different from the high status in the early days of the founding of the People's Republic of China. At that time, the teachers proposed equality between men and women, equal pay for equal work, and female compatriots could participate in labor production in all walks of life, laying the foundation.

At that time, the corresponding female workers' security was also relatively good, at least the factories and mines basically had nurseries, schools, factories and mines, hospitals, etc., and women could be relatively worry-free. And at that time, love and marriage were still more elaborate on "husband and wife progress together". Even if it's a wedding bride price or something, it's simple, and the man's three major women's beds are covered with these.

Now, on the one hand, liberal ideology + money-only theory, it is better to marry well than to do well, the bride price and dowry have come out, and many female comrades are really different in concept from before, of course, not only them. The whole society laughs at poverty and not at prostitution. At the same time, after the reform of public-private partnerships, private enterprises are encouraged, and these service-oriented units that do not make money and purely subsidize the people will either be changed to private or closed, and it will be difficult for female comrades to devote themselves to their work.

Therefore, at present, China's equal rights work is regressing, and the status of women is high, but in fact, many times society is objectifying women, and many women themselves do the same.

Aside from other aspects, when discussing the status of women in the family separately, women and men have very different perspectives.

Many men think that the status of women in the family is too high now, and it is simply a matter of saying it. And most women believe that the status of women is still very low, and in order to improve their status, they must constantly strive for it.

Women with this kind of thinking, from the day they get married, strive to be the masters of their own households, and the most common method for most wives is to control their husbands. They are proud of their ability to control their husbands, but they don't know that they will put themselves in danger by doing so.

It is common to hear many men complain that their wives are very strong at home, saying that they must do everything according to their own will, and if they do not comply, the family will be in flames. If a woman wants to improve her status, she should start from self-cultivation, read more and learn more, develop her own career, and strive to create her own value.

The home is a welcoming place, a haven from the wind. In family life, you should use the unique flexible beauty of women to get along with your family, handle the relationship with your family with delicate love like water, and get the respect and love of your family.

Such a woman disdains to compete for family status, but her status is very high.

A woman's true status comes from the recognition of society and family, and from the heartfelt respect and love of her family. It should not be obtained through being strong in the family, it should not test the bottom line of men, and it should not be exchanged for the so-called "status" by suppressing men.

The happiness of married life is the pursuit of every couple. May every couple respect and understand each other, and not regard the family as a battlefield and the lover as an enemy.

If you love enough enough, your status will be high, and if you don't love or you don't love enough, you will weigh the lesser of the two, then you must be the one who is sacrificed, and you will naturally be despised and your status will be low.

Summary. Hello, I am Zhang Yiyao, a co-teacher who is good at bad mood counseling, and has been engaged in the psychological counseling industry for 1 year now, and I am very happy to serve you. Hello, dear, generally speaking, the high ground of family status usually depends on the family contribution of one party, the higher the family contribution, the higher the natural status.

Hello, I am Zhang Yiyao, the co-teacher of Ask, who is good at counseling the bad feelings, and has been engaged in the psychological counseling industry for 1 year, and I am happy to serve you. Hello, dear, generally speaking, the high ground of family status usually depends on the degree of family tribute and dedication of one party, the higher the family contribution, the higher the natural status.

Teacher, you must learn to be independent, two people together must have a clear division of labor, so that there will be no contradictions.

Well, it seems that the male staring party thinks that your contribution to the family is a little less. What about your attitude towards Dou Zelu? Do you want a people-pleaser? Or do you disagree with his attitude so much that you want to be tough?

How can a woman have a good family status in the family.

If you want to have a good status, you need to fight for it with practical actions, but words will seem very pale.

You can make a clear division of labor with him, perform their own duties, and then use this in exchange for you and your husband on equal footing.

Husband and wife, only by putting the relationship between husband and wife in the first place in all kinds of family relationships can the impact be solved.

After getting married, with the arrival of their children, many mothers will put all their thoughts on their children. At this time, dads will feel that they are left out in the cold, as if they are not important. Children are the crystallization of love and one of the most happy families in a family.

However, the relationship between the mother and the child is so close that the relationship between the husband and wife is neglected, which will affect the relationship between the husband and wife. Some people say that children are small, of course, they must devote themselves wholeheartedly, not to mention that they have no experience as a mother for the first time. Busy with work, busy with children, and busy with housework, how can I have time to be alone with my husband.

We admit that mothers give more to their children than fathers, both in terms of time and energy. But what I want to say is that whether it is the relationship between mother and child, or the relationship between mother and daughter, it is not the most important relationship in the family relationship, but the relationship between husband and wife. Mothers should consciously involve fathers in taking care of their children, and don't feel that only they can do it well, and others cannot be trusted.

In this way, the bond between the husband and wife will also be further strengthened by the arrival of the child. Best of both worlds.

Now there are many mothers and boys, after getting married, mothers still often interfere in "internal affairs", such interference will make the daughter-in-law uncomfortable, and finally the relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law will be tense. At this time, if Ma Baonan puts his relationship with his mother first, it will inevitably affect the relationship between them and his wife. The mother-in-law seems to be taking care of her son's daughter-in-law's life, but she is actually trying to find her own desire for control.

It turned out that her son was under her control, but now that she has lost it, she will be unbalanced in her heart. In addition, her mother-in-law has her own home, and she can do what she wants at home, so she thinks that her son's house is also her own home, and she can do whatever she wants.

In essence, the son's house does not belong to her, but to another hostess, the daughter-in-law.

Therefore, Ma Bao Nan wants to see his mother's participation, which will not make his little life better, but will be counterproductive; And the mother-in-law should also see that her son has already started a family, and it is best not to participate, and find other focuses in her own life.

Marriage, a concept with social significance, is mixed with many social relationships. And in family relationships, two people in a marriage must understand that the relationship between husband and wife comes first.

The relationship between husband and wife comes first! As the saying goes, one wife affects three generations, and only when husband and wife are harmonious can parents be happy and children happy!

The family relationship should be the spouse first, the children second, and the parents third, so that the family relationship can be handled well!