What should I do if an honest man chases a girl and has no topic?

Enrich your life, such as hobbies, things you focus on, read more books, go out for a walk, and communicate with better people, you are definitely not the person you are now. Then, your topic will naturally be much more. This is complementary to each other, if you don't pay, there will be no return, the topic of immortality never exists, I hope you live a down-to-earth life.

The essence of not having a topic is that your life is scarce and you have no ink in your stomach. Many men will make excuses and say, I have no money, no time, how can you let me live a rich life? According to you, only those in the world who have money and time can fall in love, and everyone else is lonely and old?

If you don't do it yourself, you blame the society, you just say that you have what can attract people? Excuse making? It's really damning.

You, an honest man, are obviously also an excuse, what's wrong with honest people, can't honest people be attractive and handsome, and know how to live and understand girls' minds? These are not innate, they are all acquired by their own efforts, others can, why can't you? I know why you can't, you're either making excuses, or you're expecting a solution once and for all, the so-called topic of immortality, you can't calm down and savor life and explore it yourself.

It turns out that there are people who are in the same situation as me. I don't talk to girls either, and sometimes I don't know what to say after a few words, which may be related to the different living environments and upbringing experiences of both parties. However, my "experienced" friends around me advised me to talk more when I was dating girls, and to be more flirtatious if I had nothing to do, and the topic would always be more and more.

Moreover, I think it is better to meet more often and chat in person than WeChat chat, which can shorten the distance between the two parties, and it feels more real. When talking to girls, I think there are a few things you can try: work or study, interesting things in life, books or movies, hobbies, life planning and stage planning, travel, food, etc.

Post more beautiful places and famous places on your circle of friends, such as in Guangzhou, you can go to the Canton Tower to post some **, and talk about it as a topic. When a girl subconsciously sees that you have also been to these familiar places, she will have a sense of belonging, and you can also use this place as an excuse to invite her out for an encounter. For example:

Let's go there and take pictures together.

Many people will tell you that as long as you are OK, it's okay if all you say is nonsense. Yes, but this is only temporary, and in the long run, this kind of so-called people are OK, such as handsome, rich, talented, can play, etc., and they will get tired. In the end, the girl chooses the one with the best comprehensive conditions or the most comfortable, so what is the topic of immortality and immortal people?

The key is in yourself, whether there is agency. In other words, within a limited range, try to present yourself, walk around and see, and adjust as you go before you know the result, and the result is not the only constant.

If you are introduced to her by someone, you might as well talk to her about this friend, remember to praise him more about the merits of this person, girls hate boys saying bad things about others behind their backs to improve their own value. Girls like talking men very much, and she will know who you are by listening to your conversation. And talking about common people can bring you closer and no longer so strange.

If you don't have a topic, you can do more homework in advance, and if you don't know what to say, you can search for some hot topics on the Internet and write them down, and when you chat with girls, you can talk about these things, and embarrassing conversations are better than silence.

6 Take her to the movies, you don't need to say anything to watch the movie, you can communicate with him about the aftermath after watching it.

Why do girls have a special affection for boys who know how to cook, because she is particularly resistant to food, and we often hear girls ask, "Do you know how to cook?" "Why does a girl ask this, is to have a connection with food, talk to her more about food, even if you don't know how to cook, the invitation can be said:

Take you to eat crayfish.

To avoid embarrassment, you're better off going to dinner or watching a movie with her.

Honest people can't chat, and they can chase girls by being bold, proactive, and humorous.

1. Be bold

If a guy wants to chat with a girl he likes, then you have to know what you want to say, what you want to express, and you can express it boldly and truthfully. Pursuing girls and chatting with girls have ideas, and they cower and dare not say what they really think.

When you are pursuing a girl, as long as you are sincere in your efforts, then you can be bold, do whatever you want, and say whatever you want. Because your boldness will make the girl feel that you are a confident person, sometimes it seems nothing to you, but in the eyes of the girl, she will have a different opinion. So your boldness may be a sign of self-confidence in the eyes of girls.

2. Be proactive

As the saying goes, "As long as you take the initiative, we have a story." "If you want to pursue a girl, a girl will definitely not take the initiative, because the only person who takes the initiative is the person she cares about the most. Therefore, when it comes to pursuing girls, only boys take the initiative to be king.

If you want to catch up with the girl quickly, then you should take the initiative, but your initiative must have a degree, and don't let your initiative become sticky.

Sometimes some boys feel that they take the initiative, that is, they go to the sticky girls all the time to chat with the girls. You can empathize with you, if you were a girl and a person bothered you every day, what would you think? Over time, do you find this person annoying?

So, be sure to take control of your initiative.

3. Be humorous

Every girl wants her boyfriend to be a humorous talker. Some boys are a more straightforward person, when you say those words, you don't think through your brain, and girls don't want to listen to it, but if you are a very humorous person, your way of speaking will definitely attract girls, and girls must be very willing to talk to you.

Because she thinks the chat with you is a very interesting and wonderful one. So, when you're chatting with girls, you make your way of chatting a little bit more humorous. Avoid a question-and-answer chat, which is the least acceptable.

1. Don't do something deliberately.

Girls who say this will definitely reject you, because no one wants to be watched. This kind of behavior is deliberately approaching, which will make the girl feel very stressed. Actually, you can say that, coincidentally, I also like to run. After that, if you meet a girl by chance, it won't seem so deliberate.

2. Do more things and talk less awkwardly.

When chasing girls, what you have to do is not to deliberately approach, but to meet the needs of girls. Attention is a girl's need, not an individual's need. If you can't chat, don't force you to chat, learn to play to your strengths and avoid weaknesses, and do more things.

For example, do what she likes, do things that care about her when she is unhappy, don't do things that she hates, etc., so that she will slowly notice you.

3. Don't kneel and lick, girls like people who can conquer her, not slaves.

4. Ask her on specific days such as Valentine's Day, Christmas, 520, etc., but don't use it in the name of love.

5. Create chance encounters, but don't pester each other.

In a nutshell, chasing girls is to talk less nonsense and do more practical things. Don't be afraid of rejection, and don't look down on yourself and kneel and lick each other. If you're not good enough, make yourself better and don't ask others to like you.

It is important to remember that chasing girls is not about moving yourself, but about moving the other person.

1. Say yourself.

As the saying goes, men are afraid of getting into the wrong business, women are afraid of marrying the wrong man, whether it is a blind date or a chance encounter, they all hope to meet a true son who treats him sincerely, not a ** full of lies.

So when you go to meet a girl for the first time, you can talk about your situation and don't just pass it in a few words, unless you are both familiar with each other.

Second, talk about the future.

This topic is suitable for men and women who have already dated a few times. Although it seems a little private, girls always like to listen to men's future plans, whether they take themselves to heart, etc.

If you can add a girl to your future plans and plan for the future of both of you, then even if you haven't talked about marriage yet, even if the girl shows that she is duplicitous, she will still be happy in her heart.

3. Talk about hobbies.

However, it is important to note that you must not babble on your own. It's good that you talk non-stop, and it means that you can talk. But it is also necessary to take into account the feelings of the girl, and when appropriate, you can let the girl talk about her interests and hobbies.

No matter when, no matter how much you like a girl, if you are not good at expressing it, it will make the girl have a very big psychological pressure and burden in the process of contact and interaction with you, it seems that she bears your life and death and all your hopes for love, believe me If a girl does not have an extremely strong heart and belief, there is no way to accept and endure such feelings.

For example, celebrity gossip, horoscope, clothing and makeup girls are generally more interested. But what if you don't understand that? Actually, it doesn't matter, the biggest point of chatting is not what to talk about, but how you talk about it.

That's how the brothers talk in general"Have you eaten?""I ate""What are you doing?""Surf the Internet""What's the weather like there?""Ok""I've been busy lately""Not too busy"Then I couldn't find a topic. So you said that you have talked about four topics at this time, how can you still find a topic? You have to learn to find a topic to talk about.

For example, this is the case"Have you eaten?""Eaten""What to eat""Egg fried rice""Did you do it yourself""I don't do takeout""You are not as good as my craftsmanship as a girl, it depends on how you marry in the future""I don't have a boyfriend yet, so why should I marry?"。

Do some small things within your ability, such as helping her carry her luggage or something, and slowly impress her.

If you can't chat, you can talk less and do more, don't be a dwarf in language, you have to be a giant in action, you can't chat and speak is not a lifetime, you can learn slowly.

Work hard to make money, and when you can drive a Ferrari with one hand, you can easily catch up with girls without chatting.

If you can't chat, you can use your own actions to chase girls.

Let it be, if you have it, if you don't, forget it.

As the saying goes, women are made of water, women are born with water have an inexplicable affinity, if you are a boy who is not very good at chatting, you might as well start from the aspect of water to establish a bridge of communication between two people, such as remember to tell girls to drink more hot water all the time, so that girls will definitely continue to talk about the topic of water, such as hehe I went to take a bath (manual funny).

Isn't that simple? Slap her and then you run to see if she chases you, and slap her again if she doesn't.

Then do some practical things, such as delivering meals to her every day and transporting her to and from school.