How can my friend comfort my boyfriend when she has a fight?

I hope you can take a step back to look at the problem no matter what happens, if you always think of yourself as the protagonist of this story, I think you will never be able to see the essence of the matter, and you will never see the solution to the problem, the authorities are confused, the bystanders are clear, if you can take a break from your story and sit in the audience to watch your own story, I think you will be able to understand more things! You must also know what you should do now.

In fact, love is a kind of fate that does not clean up more chaotic, in your own love, only you know the ins and outs of things best, other people's answers can only be used as a reference for you, the final decision is still your own decision, you must not take other people's answers as the standard for solving your own problems, because who will know your own things better than you? You choose to go into love, that is, you also choose the ups and downs of love, there may be a day of breakup, since we choose a process from the beginning to the end, then, we have to face the process of love, separation is not a difficult thing to face, because two people are together for happiness, if separation is to give each other more space to find their own happiness, then what do we have to be sad? Happy is a day, unhappy is also a day, we don't have the courage to escape from this world, we still need to live every day, so since we choose to live, then why not live every day?

How about making yourself happy every day? When you don't plan to love someone else sincerely, please love yourself well! Think about it, how much have you loved yourself?

Isn't it? With a calm mind to face all the things happening around you, you will find a way to live in peace!

Have fun!

told her that beating is love, scolding is love, life is too boring, sometimes noisy is also a kind of adjustment, the important thing is to click on it.

Take her to some of her favorite places to relax and distract her. The human mood is like this, and if you divert your attention, you will turn your mind to another thing.

Find a time to talk to him, slowly let him want to open up, and look more optimistically, it will be good.

Look at your friend's mood,,As a result, your friend still likes the man, you can persuade more.,If you don't like it, you say that the man is not good.。。。

It's best not to talk to her about her sadness, spend more time with her, take her out for a walk, and talk about some pleasant topics.

Enlighten her, girls and girls are easy to talk to.

Be a man and do things freely, don't worry about it, life is actually very beautiful, rely on your own efforts

Take care of her in a good place!

Don't ask her and her boyfriend more specifics.

Hit her often**.

Make an appointment for a meal and a cup of tea.

Help her distract herself.

The greatest comfort as a friend is that you can be there for him when he is in a bad mood, even if you don't say a word, but at least he feels that there are still people who care and care about him!

Is it worth it? If it's not yours, let it go.

Don't say more, let him do it himself.

Which one is wrong? He was wrong. Insolation. Just break up. Yes, there will definitely be a next time. She was wrong. No more words. Go and mediate with the man.

Don't force it if it's not for you, it's useless to be sad, and he won't really appreciate it, of course, it depends on whose fault it is.

You can't comfort this, only if her boyfriend's matter is solved, she won't be annoyed. Only they know how to solve it, and you can only give them advice.

I'm a little confused, and I don't understand what you mean, maybe I'm too stupid!

Accompany your friends to the police and pay a lot of money.

Are you a man, or are your classmates a man? Male··· How can a man be like this... It's okay to go out for a drink, Lalagua, they all seem to be good students... I really envy good students··· Mother came to me just looked at it and there are still 200 points If you don't say so many answers... Pretty what's that?

Communicate with him and take him on tours.

There's no way, at least let him feel that he's not alone, with you as a friend.

His preoccupation is so heavy that he may have to see a psychiatrist.

Uh, it's still like this at the age of 17, is it a man?

As the saying goes, if he doesn't experience wind and rain, he will always be a child.

Indeed, it is more practical to restore his self-confidence, by watching the speeches of successful people, and so on in inspirational movies. Books, etc. The key is that he can realize the importance of the problem from the heart.

Let him think about it for himself, after all, there is still a long way to go in life, communicate more with parents, and it is best to find something that interests him to do and devote himself to it. Maybe it helps.

Young Master 鈊閿乿:

Hello. I'm so glad that your friend has such a small hair as you. As for your friend, to be honest, I know him too well and understand him very well, because in my work, I often encounter teachers whose children have psychological problems who come to counsel, and these children with mental disabilities are not bad, it is not that their parents do not love them, but that their parents love them too much, so they are too self-righteous, and educators deprive their children of their autonomy.

Therefore, many teachers' children are very painful, it is difficult to grow up, and it is difficult to become talents. And your friend may be one of those miserable ones.

Talk to him more when you're okay I think he's definitely more sad It's sad to bear such a weight at a young age Fortunately with you as a good friend It's okay for you to comfort and comfort him more Communicate with him more Let him know the joy of life **Life Ah, study, common interests... Don't let him think about it!

Try to talk to him about what interests him or what he succeeds in3 Let him grow in self-confidence and regain his domineering spirit Communicate more and spend more time with him! You can't go wrong at this juncture in high school, so you take the liberty of asking if it's Dragon No. 2 Middle School?

You are good brothers, talk to him more, talk more about the good things you have experienced together in the past, try to find some topics that he is interested in to talk about, and arouse his self-confidence!! You can also talk to his parents, his parents are teachers, and it should be relatively easy to communicate, so that they can think more from their children's point of view!!

I wish your brother a speedy recovery of self-confidence and health!!

Don't look at anything else.

What is a brother is to share ideas, share responsibilities, and share joys and sorrows!

What you have to do:1His ideas are derived;

2.Analyze together, solve together. You have to do it in an inquiring, consultative tone. Be decisive every now and then!

3.Help him find a psychiatrist at school. (To convince him, e.g., "Find an experienced .......")"As an enlightener, learn to solve problems with this step:

Definition-Measurement-Analysis-Improvement-Control In short, let him feel that he has you by his side, and help him plan the way forward.

Good luck!!!

Because he felt that he was sorry for his homeroom teacher and classroom teacher.

So he has been having diarrhea this summer vacation and is listless all day long.

That's a very bright sentence.

The results have to be looked at, don't you damn if you don't take the first test? Then there will be no one in China for a few days, and learning a craft or really being able to take the doctoral exam is the last word.

Personally, I think you have to find a way to communicate with him first, try to bring him outside from home, often go out to have a meal together or play together or go to buy books together, so that he can restore a good relationship with you, and then try to give him encouragement and support from little things, so that he can slowly regain his self-confidence. It is necessary to talk about interesting and happy topics often, to make him feel happy and to regulate his emotions. After all, there is not only learning in life, don't let him feel that he is nothing if he doesn't study well, he must change his mentality, so that his body can get better first, after all, the body is the most important.

For his studies, the most important thing is not to let him transfer schools, you can try to communicate with his parents first, do not let him transfer schools, and let his parents see that he is gradually returning to optimism.

In terms of learning, the most important thing is to let him relax, don't let him keep suppressing his study, so that the effect is the worst (this is not good for the heart).In fact, going from 200 to 30 is very fast, and I believe that as long as he is not allowed to study all the time, it will not be a problem. All you need to do is give him more moral support.

Since both parents are teachers, isn't it better to explain? You first have to know why his parents transferred him to that school, don't his parents know how bad that school is?

Let me tell you, a famous teacher may not be a high apprentice, not to mention that there are so many people in a class, and the teacher will also become a robot, which one can be taken care of? If he really can't learn, it's better to transfer to the experimental class first, the experimental class should be much easier than the elite class, it's not so much pressure, and the study can be better, ask an experienced tutor at home, guide him according to his physical condition, and wait until his health is better to see the situation, if the grades are not satisfactory, it's not too late to transfer to another school.

I have a private school that has just been run for a few years, because it has just been opened, no one can see how good it can be, but there is still a student who got good results in the exam and became the champion in Shenzhen, whether he was admitted to Peking University or Qinghua (forgot), the reporter asked him: "Your grades in the school are only average, not very outstanding, why can you get such good results in the college entrance examination" He said: "Mainly rely on self-study".

First of all, you can talk to his parents, since you are his good friend, then tell his parents what he is afraid to say to his parents, so that they know what their children are thinking, and I believe they also want to know. Then talk to your friends and tell that if you don't want to be sorry for others, then work hard and come out of the shadows, you are his always strong backing, no matter what decisions he makes, you will always support him.

Don't continue to dwell on this problem with him, talk to him about something else in the next few days, or play around, divert his attention, regulate his emotions, and then persuade him that it may be more effective.

Spend more time with her, and think of diverting her attention, such as shopping, planting flowers, traveling, and adjusting your life will be better.

Don't say anything, what she needs is someone to accompany her, not someone to comfort her.

No language is good at action.

Spend more time with her!

Hey, what's wrong with this for others, I can only hope to bless her daughter to be okay, or she wants to be happy.

Tell him that Ji people have their own natural appearance!

We are all children, and of course we will know things in a very naïve way of thinking. This is just a matter of age, instead of paying too much attention to these superficial phenomena, it is better to study hard and accumulate more knowledge to enrich yourself, gold will always shine, people have their own expertise, and your friend doesn't want to be a star, why care so much about that? Don't let other people's words affect you.

If you give her more care and affection, she will probably be better Since someone hates her, then she must have some shortcomings, help him find out and solve them. It doesn't matter if you introduce her to your other friends and everyone will accept her appearance.