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It depends on whether your boyfriend is stingy or just stingy with your relatives.
1.If he is usually a generous person, but he is stingy in this matter and refuses to pay, it means that his attitude towards you needs to be improved.
2.If he is usually a stingy person, then such a man is very good at living, and he will never spend money indiscriminately in the future, let alone spend money on other women, because my husband is such a person. At the beginning, he was not less angry at such a thing, and he was educated and educated.
If you want to buy things, you can make your own decisions. A person like my husband seems to just think about living a good life and making his wife and children comfortable, and he himself is not too willing to spend money, but he can spend it as much as I want, and he won't say anything. It doesn't have much to do with his ability to work, he's very good at making money.
If your boyfriend is such a person, then you can rest assured that he will take care of the money. As for the places where you think you need to spend money on dots, you can go for dots, and the two complement each other just right. Otherwise, they are all extravagant, outsiders look good-looking, but their lives are not very good.
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You're right, your boyfriend is really stingy, if you change me, I'll listen to my girlfriend, because if you're stingy, it's hard to even find a job and meet someone in the future. I advise you to persuade him. If he changes, forget it, if you still have this relationship with him in the future, then I advise you to break up with him as soon as possible.
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Is he too stingy to take you seriously at all? Didn't even think about your face. How can there be a first time to go to the woman's elder's house and not take things.
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If he does this to his relatives, it means that he is stingy. If it's only for your relatives, it means that the relationship between the two of you is still far away.
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Men who really love you are very stingy.
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In life, there are not a few cases of boyfriends caring about their beloved women, women will feel that some men love money more than they love themselves, what should women do when they encounter such stingy men?
Under normal circumstances, most men are still very generous to their girlfriends, and they quietly send a gift, send a red envelope, invite their girlfriend to dinner, accompany their girlfriend to go shopping and buy clothes, take their girlfriend on a trip, as long as their girlfriend is happy, they will be happy to spend money and time to please their girlfriend.
It's a pity that not every man in this world is like this, and some men are really very stingy.
Many stingy men are created by the family life environment since childhood, and it is difficult to change in a short period of time. While picking on their girlfriends in terms of money, they will be reluctant to pay more for women and love because of their small energy. Therefore, it is suitable to find a person who is the right person and can share the same consumption concept with you.
It's not that stingy men don't love you, but they love themselves far more than they love you, not only do they not want to share the burden of life, but they also hope that their girlfriends can make more money to reduce the pressure of their lives.
The two deserve to have a good communication on this issue, and you can also find out about his real financial situation. Judging your boyfriend through the phenomenon of economic expenses cannot be said to be too comprehensive and objective. It is also necessary to see the essence, if he saves money now and saves money in order to involve a large amount of expenses such as getting married in the future, then it can be defined as thrifty.
If the economic situation is good, but everyone is habitually stingy and stingy, anyone will feel uncomfortable psychologically. In fact, a man who is really responsible, even if he has no financial ability, will only be frugal to himself, and will not let his girlfriend be wronged with him. When dating a stingy man, don't expect to be generous to you after marriage.
If the requirements for living standards are too high and exceed the financial strength of your boyfriend, you really need to do what you can to last for a long time.
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Communicate openly: If you find your partner stingy, then the best way to do this is to communicate with him honestly. Tell him how you feel and ask him what he thinks. This booklet can help you better understand each other's needs and expectations.
Respect each other: Even if you think your partner is petty, respect his decisions and behavior. Don't try to change his thoughts or behavior, but try to understand his position and motivations.
Building Trust: Building trust is the key to resolving any relationship problem. If your partner is exhibiting petty behavior, then you need to believe that he did not do it on purpose, but because he has different values and experiences.
Seek compromise: When dealing with petty issues, it is very important to seek compromise. You can come up with some solutions to meet the needs and expectations of both parties. For example, you can propose a cost-sharing or create a budget plan.
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