Can t be a good friend who can be a lover?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-10
21 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It varies from person to person, but it is possible to be friends after a breakup.

    However, it is rare to be friends, even friends may only be ordinary friends, because if they are separated, they will have their own lives and partners, and it is not excluded that there is a kind of breakup that is very good and reconciled.

    If you have loved each other deeply, at least one party will feel deeply hurt, he may be reluctant to contact again, he may be more hurt when he sees each other again, and it is better for the other party not to force it.

    It seems that after the breakup, everyone must understand the reasons for the breakup, learn a lesson, and recover as soon as possible in the next time.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Yes, my girlfriend and I have been for three years, and we recently broke up, so let's break up. But each other promised to be good friends, and now they are also maintaining. I believe I can keep dating her ...

    It's just that this feeling is starting out and it's going to be painful. After all, from college to now, they have gone through 3 years of wind and rain with each other...

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It should be possible, at least if the relationship between the two people is not too stiff when they break up, I hope it can. But it will definitely feel strange when you meet.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    It's hard... I also broke up with my girlfriend. Now the relationship is not clear, although we spend less time together than before, but we still keep in touch every day.

    Including some of the things I did when I talked about friends, I really didn't know what to do, my girlfriend thought I had no money, and refused to continue talking with me.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Of course you can be friends, but some things are not absolute.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    It seems impossible, even if you become friends, will you treat her with a normal heart? Don't hypocritically say yes! The pain in my heart doesn't go away so quickly.,Friends with her again.,It's sad to see it.。。。 Anyway, it feels n's complicated.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If the love is not so deep, it is okay, but if you give a lot of affection, you cannot.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Looking at a person, if it is me, I can't do it, and it is even more uncomfortable to see it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I can. If you're really in the love zone... It's impossible to be an ordinary friend in the same district... Would you like to see the district with the second one...

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, it's up to you to be all-rounder! ...

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Don't be friends.

    Because they have hurt each other.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I think it's the mentality, if you still feel that he is good, you will become friends with him, if you are very tired of him and break up, you will not be friends with him!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Let's not do that. Since she rejected you. Why do you have to fall on a tree and not come down? Let someone else hang it, too.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Be friends with someone you like? What does that feel like? If you can't be a lover, you will cut it in two, and don't associate with him or her again, so as not to make yourself sad.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Don't be friends, find someone who looks better than her. Angry with her. Ha ha.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Yes, confidante

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    It depends on what you love about her If it's her appearance, it's better to forget it as soon as possible.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    It's up to the people. Some people can, some people can't.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    See if you can really see it in your heart and think about it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    Generally difficult. Few Chinese couples can be friends when they break up.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Be honest! Don't be a psychological burden!

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It's unlikely, because emotional problems can't be easily leveled with friendship, temporary friends are just to maintain feelings, if the other party finds real feelings one day, it will cause you more damage, so the long pain is better than the short pain, rather than using friends to restrain yourself, it is better to directly pick out, I feel that it is possible to be a sedentary lover, there is no possibility to break up directly, don't be so dragging the mud and water, and it is not good for your future feelings.

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It depends on how you and her personality are, if they are very foreign, it should be very easy to do, if you really can't be a lover, then don't have too much ideological baggage when you meet in the future, normal communication is also okay, and there is nothing, the key is that you have to be open-minded.