How to forget someone, I m really disappointed, she still chose his family to give up on me

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
13 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It can't be helped, sometimes the person who makes the choice is also painful, isn't it?

    Think about it from another perspective, if you had to choose, how would you choose?

    So, don't blame him, we can't impose our own ideas on others, even if we love the most, we can choose to respect her, choose to give up on her, choose to bless her.

    Because she is someone you loved, or at least once was, someone you loved.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Forgetting a person is only a matter of moments, the main thing is that you have to make up your mind.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    It should be forgotten that you can selectively forget about the unhappy past and don't let yourself get too tired. The same is true of awareness.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Maybe when encountering this situation, everyone's heart is sad, and even a little persistent, always thinking about why they love him so much, but in the end they can't get him.

    It is precisely because of such an idea that it is likely to entangle, will force, and in the end only end up with one injury, and the other party is completely indifferent.

    If you love someone, you must be together, this varies from person to person, some people will feel that if you love someone, you must find a way to be together, and some people will put this love silently in their hearts, and he will look at him from afar, for her, this is also a kind of happiness.

    Forced love will not last long, forced people will not be happy, everyone has some obsessions in love, when the person you like doesn't like you, or two people who love each other are separated for some reason, in this case, there will often be a lot of reluctance in the heart.

    Many people will not be able to let go after a breakup, nothing more than nostalgia for his kindness to you, reluctant to give up the good memories of the past, every time I think back to these, I will feel like returning to him.

    But the more reluctant you are, the more you will not be able to let go, the more reluctant you are, the more you will make yourself miserable, and when you can't love, the best thing to do is to take a step back and open the sky, rather than continue to entangle, which is not good for anyone.

    No matter how beautiful the past is, it is also a thing of the past, no matter how good he is to you, he will never come back, don't cling to it, don't be nostalgic for the past, tell yourself to look forward.

    If you can't love, then let go of the nostalgia for the past, only in this way can you get out of this relationship faster and move forward bravely.

    Leave the wrong feelings.

    The more you can't get something, the more you want to get it, this is the common nature of human beings, but can you get it by forcing it? It might just make you more uncomfortable.

    If you know that the other party doesn't love you, then stop the loss in time, don't continue in a wrong relationship, that is the biggest harm to yourself.

    For love, we can only go with the flow, obey the arrangement of fate, and force it not to come.

    Some people are lucky to meet the person who has been with them all their lives at the beginning, while some people have to search for the right person to meet them.

    In this waiting process, maybe you will experience some love but can't, at this time, you must learn not to force, only in this way, it is possible to reap the happiness in the future.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Giving up is an art, it is not for you to blindly escape, but to understand that it is better to give up than to maintain pain! Learn to give up, turn away before crying, leaving a simple back. Bury yesterday in your heart and make the best memories.

    Learn to give up, so that each other can have an easier start, and the love that is bruised all over the body is not necessarily unforgettable! To love someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, to make that feeling more sincere. If you can't do it, let it go!

    Giving up is not another kind of beauty!

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If you really love, it is impossible to forget, only slowly forget with time, love someone for only a second, but if you want to forget, it may even take a lifetime, "forcing yourself to deliberately forget the result will only deepen the memory of ta, more and more miss ta" There are always some times of loss or low tide in life, that proves that you really love is better than facing reality, looking for new feelings will make you slowly forget, the previous injury, time just let your memory slowly talk, not forget.

    Perhaps time is the best master of trauma. But I can't remove the scars in my heart.

    Time just changes a person. But it can't change a person's memories and past. The country is easy to change.

    A crow never the whiter for washing herself often. A truth.

    Signed.

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    Plagiarism report. I hope that others will not copy and respect the fruits of others' labor, thank you.

    No matter how inevitable the injury is, it is not easy to give up, but the result of continuing is doomed.

    What you lack is not opportunity, but the courage to zero yourself back in the face of opportunity. Confidence.

    If you escape for a while, you can't hide for a lifetime.

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  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    Time is the best medicine, as time goes by, everything is no longer as unforgettable as it was at the beginning, adjust your mentality, life is short, youth is limited, you will not have too much time to wait to reminisce and pain, face everything with a normal heart, you will have more energy to face the future!

    Forgetting is a much deeper memory. Therefore, don't deliberately forget, everyone has their own journey, there will be all kinds of passers-by in the journey, every relationship and every experience is the mark left by life, whether the memories are beautiful or painful, they have already happened, learn to thank everyone in life who has met or parted.

    Learning to forget is not easy to do, because many sorrows and shames that cannot be forgotten are unforgettable. Then, we need to treat the problem with a normal heart. Since it happened, it is destined to be irreparable.

    When you're crying over missing the sun, you're also missing the stars.

    When you're lost and sad, it's best to learn to forget. Don't care about the road under your feet, the scenery ahead is more charming.

    The past is gone, but what is left is the best memory, so why deliberately forget it. Although you can't be with him, you have good memories, I believe he will also keep your good memories in his heart forever, loving someone is to make him happy, to make him happy, but the premise of his happiness is that you are happy, are you happy, do what you want to do, happiness and unhappiness are in your heart, and when the time slowly passes, you find your other half, you will put your memories in the bottom of your heart, and bring your blessings to him with the same memories, and let him pass in the pastShort-term heartache is inevitable, but don't let yourself deliberately forget anything, it will be more painful, as long as you think you are happy, you will always be happy!

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Because giving up is also an option.

    It is also a manifestation of rationality.

    gave up silently, giving up a favorite but unfated friend;

    Giving up some kind of invested but unrewarded feeling;

    Let go of some kind of spiritual expectation; Let go of a certain thought.

    At this time, there will be a kind of sadness, but this sadness does not prevent me from starting again, and I will re-listen to ** and tell the story again in a new time and space!

    Because it is a natural farewell and abandonment, it is full of detachment, and therefore sad and beautiful!

    There was a feeling that I wanted it to be forever"……

    It took many years to realize that it had faded away.

    Then I understood: what we hold in our hands is not necessarily what we really have;

    What we have is not necessarily what we really engrave in our hearts!

    In fact, many times in life, you need to consciously give up!

    There are so many good things in the world.

    For the beauty that we don't have, we have been yearning and pursuing.

    Busy for the sake of getting.

    In fact, what you really need is often not understood until many years later, and you don't even know what to do after spending your whole life!

    And for the beauty we already have, we have a sense of apprehension and worry because of the experience of often gaining and losing.

    The sigh of the sunset, the troubles of flowers blooming and falling, and the unhappy life because when we have, we may be losing, and when we give up, we may be regaining.

    In fact, we cannot be absolutely sure of everything.

    If you deliberately chase and own, it will be difficult to get out of the misunderstanding of gains and losses.

    Therefore, life needs to be sublimated into a quiet and detached spirit.

    Those who understand know how to give up, those who are true understand the sacrifice, and those who are happy know how to detach!

    I didn't come to this world because of you, but I fell in love with this world even more because of you!

    If I can be with you, I will be grateful to the world, and if I can't be with you, I will walk away silently, but I still will not lose my love and gratitude to this world.

    Thank God for allowing me to meet you, to say goodbye to you, and to complete a poem that God has created! ”

    Life has given us endless sorrows, but also given us eternal answers.

    So, Enron gave up and stuck to a detachment!

    No matter how the worldly life changes, no matter how personal choices are, and no matter how heavy the things in our hands are, we are brave even if we escape, and we are happy to be sad and happy!

    The opposite of giving up is opportunity, and choosing an opportunity is equivalent to giving up all other possibilities.

    When new opportunities are in front of you, dare to give up everything you have gained, this is not a failure, this is not giving up halfway, this is to seek greater space for development; Or do nothing, just because you like to do it, because, being young is the greatest opportunity.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Many things are always experienced before you know that you can't afford to gain or lose. Just like feelings, after the pain, you will know how to protect yourself; If you are stupid, you will know how to persist and give up in a timely manner. Let us learn to give up, turn away before we cry, what we exchange for tears is not reliable; Let's learn to give up, bury yesterday in our hearts, and leave the best memories; Let's learn to give up so that we can all have an easier start for each other.

    Holding on to it will only make you indulge in memories and pain and become sluggish. Let go of your hand and let it pass away with the wind of memory, you will find the other side of the sky, and you will revisit the fragrance of flowers in life and feel the warmth of the sun.

    Giving up is not evasion, not cowardice; Giving up is an open-minded attitude. Think about it, how many people and things a person has to experience in his life, and if you don't know how to give up those things that have been lost and irretrievable, how can you grasp what really belongs to you? If you find that the only door in your world is no longer open for you, you don't have to linger in front of the door or hit your head and never wake up.

    Learn to give up, then turn around and look for a skylight that opens for you, where you can also see the stars.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you decide to give up on someone, don't delay it for too long! If you decide to love one, just love a little, and in front of true love, she will change for you....

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    If you love, love deeply.

    If you don't love please leave! Falling in love with someone is only for a moment.

    It is impossible to forget about a person.

    If you have decided to give up.

    Then give up! Be resolute!

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It's hard to try to forget love. It's harder to forget someone you once loved, what is forgetting? After so many years, when you meet or mention this person by chance, you just smile happily and don't have any distractions in your heart.

    But this is very difficult to do, especially when you forget your loved one.

    To deliberately forget is to forget. Because I care about whether I still remember, I often remind myself to forget, but in fact, every reminder is to let me remember him at a deeper level. So don't try to forget the person you don't want to forget.

    One day, when you don't care if you forget it, you really forget it.

    If you can't forget it, bury him and this feeling deep in your own heart, hidden in a place that can't even be reached by the smoke of the city. That's a beautiful place in your heart....

    Forget. A heartache ...

    In the end, forgetting the past is deceiving yourself and others.

    As long as there is a little bit of something that can be linked to the past.

    It is impossible for you to forget the past. Don't run away, it's useless to regret ...

    Isn't there a saying that says? You may meet someone in 1 second, fall in love with someone in a day, but forget someone in a lifetime...

    That's love!

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    It's not easy for people to forget, especially for those who remember it in their minds.

    If it is really loved, it will not be forgotten and will never be. It seems to be a clear truth to always know the lost beauty when you miss it. If you have loved, you will last forever.

    If you lose money after many years, there is still a sky that belongs to a teenager in the depths of your heart, and there is a love that belongs to your youth in the depths of your heart, and there will be a tenderness and touching, that love will last forever.

    Time is like water, and every bit is a trace of life. Perhaps each of us has to experience the joy and parting of love. But no matter what, it's a blessing to have the most precious memories of your life.

    I remember there was a song

    Pingju lyrics:

    Don't care how it ends later.

    At least we used to get together.

    Don't bother to bind each other.

    There is no need for frank promises.

    As long as I let the hermits have it.

    That's enough for you and me.

    There are many memories in a person's life.

    I only wish your remembrance had a me.

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