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I'm glad to see you ask, because this is already the biggest improvement in your character, not everyone can see the disadvantages of their temperament, be able to recognize themselves, and believe that you are not far from changing yourself. A psychologist once said that people are the most unreasonable when they are impulsive, so impatience and impatience are caused by your impulsiveness and failure to control your emotions in time, which may be related to some of your own experiences. No matter what happens, mindset is the most important thing.
Adjust your mentality, don't be self-centered in everything, decorate others more in your heart, learn to empathize, think about others, and ask yourself first whenever and wherever you are"What would I do if I were her (he)? "If you compare others to yourself in a timely manner, you will not be easy to be impulsive and will not be easy to cause harm to others. There is no problem with your personal cultivation at all, because you can recognize your own shortcomings, and people with problems with self-cultivation will never know themselves, which is called self-knowledge, which is your preciousness, and what you also need to do is how to love others a little more.
Think about it, do you get impatient when she asks you something in the face of someone you like? Therefore, learning to love people is a very profound knowledge, this kind of love is not limited to the small love between men and women, it is a kind of fraternity, you have to cultivate your own mind, love life, love everyone around you, be kind to yourself, be kind to others, as long as you feel that the world is beautiful, you will not have a little irritability. Start from the truest feeling of your heart and treat others with sincerity, and you will experience infinite happiness from it.
I wish you a speedy way out!
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Take your time. Anyway, now that I know the crux of the problem, I'll change it slowly. I often remind myself in my mind that I want to "endure", I can't bear it, I still have to endure, of course, this is an attitude, not everything you have to endure.
There are a lot of famous sayings about forbearance, what to take a step back. What is the sea. , endure for a while.
Feng Ping... Patience is a good moral sentiment, especially for the opposite sex, hehe.
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Think of them as friends to your lover.
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You don't need to be rational in this matter, and if someone asks you to do something, he is still reasonable! I'm in a hurry not to do it for him! The more you let him do this, the more energetic he gets!!
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You can say that you have something to do later, or some other excuse to refuse.
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Endure the invincibility, don't worry about him.
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Give the other person a regular and completed reply.
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It's up to you. If you feel wronged, there is no need to do it again. You think it's better to help others.,Then go on like this.,But it's better to fight for your own.。。
What's it called... Status? Or basic respect.
If they're your friends, you should talk to them. If they don't care what you think, it can only be said that they can't be a bosom friend worthy of you.
In a person's life, the more friends the better, but the friends of the heart do not need too many, and it is difficult to make too many.
Life is short for decades, and you have to be happy to live. In society and at work, you naturally have to make more friends, and try not to offend people. But in your private life, you can live happily as long as you don't break the law.
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Don't ask questions here, do you?
Others don't necessarily treat you badly to others, the two have nothing to do with each other, and both sides lose if they compete like this. Touching with virtue.
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Under what circumstances? Study or work?
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Everyone has impatience sometimes, but if you are not happy, you can find friends to get together, and go to tourist attractions to play Congheng! It's good to be more open-minded.,I'm like this sometimes.,Think about it.,In fact, happiness.,And annoyances are up to yourself.,I hope you can be happier.。
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You have something on your mind. Very heavy on my mind.
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It's good to practice more, and if you experience it more times, you can learn it.
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The country is easy to change, and its nature is difficult to change.
That's how the character of man is.
However, the more things I have experienced, the calmer I will be.
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Learn knowledge, broaden your horizons, change your mindset, and give more love.
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Before losing my temper, I counted down from a hundred to one in my heart, and I made a mistake again.
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I'm the same way, I don't understand.
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That's how I feel, you have to treat everyone with a minimum of respect and patience in everything you do. Everyone's personality is different, and you can't make everyone like you. But you have to have your own bottom line and opinion.
Treat affairs without impetuousness. You can't be rude, you can't be insidious and treacherous, and you can't show one thing on the surface and one thing behind the scenes. You have to be kind, loving, and see the beauty of this world.
At this time, your confidant will come to you.
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You can do whatever you want.
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Partly yes, but it also depends on the situation, the world is very big, and all kinds of people have it, so I can only answer your questions, which is normal. People die for money, birds die for food, the truth remains unchanged through the ages, but sometimes you will pay sincerely, so at this time you need your own judgment to choose.
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Not to mention young and middle-aged people, society is like this. I'm used to it.
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People are different,,, we can't generalize,,, most people are not like that.
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