I want to be with him, but I don t want to get married

2 people are together, and they need to be responsible for each other.

If you don't want to marry him, then please leave him. You can be single to the end ...

Compared to you, you must be more mature than him, you have experienced a failed marriage, maybe you resist, maybe you are tired, the days of returning to single are indeed very free, and you have also completed the mission that a woman should complete, but I personally feel that it will not last long. There are detached women, but I think in the end you are certainly not that type.

Make it clear to him, I just want to fall in love, I don't want to get married, persuade him to leave you early, it won't last long, you look like people from 2 worlds, just physical and psychological temporary each other"Yes"bar.

Your boyfriend is still young, and it is right that you will not get married for the time being, so you should observe for a few years to see if your child is sincere before deciding.

Personally, I agree with this statement, after all, he is really small, and your income is not bad, which shows that there is a reason to test and observe the other party.

At the same time, combined with what the following person said, he should directly tell his boyfriend that he doesn't want to get married now, he just wants to fall in love, so let's see what his opinion is.

You can try it (a woman's sixth sense).

Although I am a man, I believe that a woman's sixth sense is correct.

The landlord believes that your judgment is correct, don't think complicated, it will be more messy.

I suggest you don't pick up 7 years younger than you Now you are happy, but it's not really hard to say in the future, I don't know, to say something bad, do you think his parents will agree? Will your parents agree again? You've failed in a marriage because you know what you need?

What does marriage mean? What's better for you?

Your annual income is hundreds of thousands, and a man with such good conditions will definitely want to marry you, you can actually live alone, if you really want to find another one, you should talk about something similar to yourself, otherwise it will be very hard to remarry in the future.

A woman is not only responsible for herself before the age of thirty, but also for herself after the age of thirty. And this second half of her life is really a woman's difficult years ......

If you have feelings as the foundation, you can't get married, you don't have to be a big man or a young woman.

Sister and brother love is very troublesome, hehe! It's good that I also have such a girlfriend, hehehe, I'm still single.

1. What should I do if I don't want to get married?

1. If you don't plan to get married at present, then don't worry, it is recommended that you go with the flow, marriage must be based on feelings, if you want to find a suitable person, to be honest, it is not simple, so you must be cautious about marriage, don't settle, you may want to go to the marriage hall with her when you meet the right person.

2. People who don't want to get married should also understand what marriage is, maybe there are more failed marriages with relatives and friends around them, but this is only a few representatives, and it does not mean that marriage is very terrible.

3. What should I do if I don't want to get married? In addition, you can also change your mentality, some people think that marriage represents bondage, and they will no longer be free in the future, but this is not the case, two people in marriage will respect each other, but also give each other enough space.

2. Why do you resist getting married?

1. It may be that you are very afraid of marriage, and now people are generally insecure.

For example, after the friends around me get married, many marriages are not happy, so I will feel that the marriage is not trustworthy.

2. Everyone is an independent individual, they are very free when they are single, and they can do whatever they want, but marriage means that two people organize a new family, and they must be responsible for each other and the family, so they feel that they may be constrained, so they are very afraid of getting married.

3. In addition, it may also be an economic problem, in fact, the economic problem is a very real problem, for ordinary office workers, the economic pressure will be greater when they get married, such as buying a house and a car, and giving a bride price.

Especially in the man's family, many boys want to wait until their jobs are stable and their income is high before discussing marriage.

4. Of course, it is also possible that you have seen the facts clearly, or that you are afraid of taking any responsibility, for fear of married life after marriage.

Not happy.

It's nothing if two people don't want to get married. However, if one person wants to get married, but one person does not want to get married, it is recommended to communicate with each other. After all, the need for a relationship is different, and it will still affect the final direction of the relationship.

Then don't get married. No one is going to ask you to be married. It is your freedom to marry or not. However, a person's life is viewed in stages, you don't want to get married now, maybe when you pass this age, your mind will change.

It is advisable to still get married, and you will understand later.

If neither of them wants to get married, then don't get married. There are a lot of unmarried people.

If one wants to tie the knot and the other doesn't want to tie the knot, then divide it up and don't delay the other party.

If you are always together and don't want to marry someone else, you are irresponsible.

Now you can get along well, when the time comes, your parents want grandchildren, and in the circle of peers, you are looked down upon if you are not married. So slowly the perception will change.

It's okay for two people to have this idea, and if they don't get married, they won't get married, which means that they are people with the same three views.

Then don't get married, anyway, neither of them wants to get married, and it's not unilaterally that they don't want to.

If you don't want to get married, it depends on whether you don't want to get married or if he doesn't want to get married.

Or either of you don't want to tie the knot.

If the other party is a man who doesn't want to get married, it is recommended to break up, and falling in love without the purpose of marriage is a hooligan.

If the woman doesn't want to break up, it means that the woman still feels that she is too young to get married.

If it's the two of you who don't want to get married, it may be that the two of you are career-oriented. Then keep focusing. Continue to discuss marriage at the right time.

This should be done slowly, and you have to deal with the above situations one by one. The workaround is also inside.

If two people don't want to get married, it's easy to do, they can enjoy the world of two people, they can fall in love, but they don't get married, as long as two people can reach an agreement, it doesn't matter, I'm afraid that one person wants to get married, and one person doesn't want to get married, then they can only break up.

Personally, I think it's not too fair for girls if two people are together and don't get married, because girls can't find another partner after this age, but men can.

If both of you think like this, then don't tie it. Neither men nor women suffer losses nor break the law,!

Unmarried, normal.

Because love ≠ love.

She just likes you and is relatively willing to marry someone she really loves.

Because she prefers herself.

People live in this world with their own values, I think everyone's values are different! There are no other leaves in the world, let alone people!

People on the same channel must have comparable abilities, common hobbies, and love and understanding for each other.

There is a saying that marriage is the grave of love, so many couples will also think that marriage is a restriction of freedom, generally they are not willing to be bound, or they are unwilling to be responsible. In fact, the author thinks that this is not the case, marriage does not restrict freedom, although it does come with responsibility, but love is also responsible. Besides, a person who doesn't want to be responsible doesn't deserve love!

In addition to not getting the blessing of their parents, some love comes too late, and two people who meet too late will not get good results, and some people may have married and had children a long time ago, but at this time they met the really right person, but unfortunately they have taken on family responsibilities, and the two people can't go further, and life is not like cooking, and they can't wait for everything to be ready before they start to get out of the pot, so some things are missed is missed, and if you don't have this fate, don't continue to entangle, otherwise it's not good for both parties.

It may be that he doesn't really like you yet, he is not sure whether he wants to marry you, and he himself is still waiting to see if there is a more suitable partner. It could also be that he just doesn't want to marry you.

Some men don't want to get married because they don't have the ability to give you happiness. When he first entered society, he met you, fell in love with you, stayed with you, and became the closest lover! In his heart, you have a very important position, he really wants you to be his real woman, he wants to hold hands with you and go to the white head together.

But when you proposed to get married, he refused, he didn't want to marry you, because now he has no ability, can't give you happiness, can't give you a home! He may have taken a fancy to a better woman, how could he marry this woman who is already tired of it. That is to say, it's not that he doesn't want to get married, he just doesn't want to marry you, he doesn't want to form a family with you.

That's because of your problem, you can't afford to support him or people don't want to deal with you at all. Maybe you're more selfish and look for a girl who will be useful to you!

That means he doesn't give you enough security, and you don't have enough to compare with him.

It's one thing to like, it's another to get married. When you get married, you should consider the firewood, rice, oil, and salt after marriage, and you don't need to think about it if you like it.

There are still dissatisfactions, all of them are satisfaction, both parties have a good impression of each other, how can they not want to marry him.

The only reason is that he is afraid of causing him harm.

Forced marriage, forcing him to marry you, so that this problem can be solved, and after getting married, you can give him a space to be independent.

I will choose to break up, he doesn't want to get married because he doesn't want to give me a future, and continuing to be with someone who can't see the future like this will waste his time, so it's better to break up.

You should choose to break up, which means that the other party does not have you in mind, and he does not have you in his future plans.

Summary. If this is the case, then the advice to you is either to make it clear in time, or to get out in time, otherwise in the end, it will be two people who will be injured and delayed.

If this is the case, then the advice to you is either to make it clear in time, or to get out in time, otherwise in the end, it will be two people who will be injured and delayed.

I'm 25 years old and it's the first time I've been in a relationship, he's been in a relationship before, but he's been single for four years, so we're both looking forward to love. We are both romantics, and we feel that marriage is far away for us, and in fact, in terms of marriage, its conditions do not meet my standards for a marriage partner.

So you have to think about the question yourself, whether this is the original intention of both of you, and what you want in the end. Don't waste time and effort until the end, the bamboo basket is empty.

But when we got together, we felt very pure with each other, and I felt comfortable with him. But I was afraid that I would have a hard time getting out if I was really emotionally involved, after all, it was my first relationship, and we had a lot of intimate physical contact.

You should learn to express your needs and thoughts.

We both want to live in the present, be there for each other, and let the future take its course, and if I have ideas that I don't feel like are suitable for each other, he supports them. But he was like the fire that ignited the love that I had always longed for in my heart, and I wanted to invest in it but knew it would be over, and I was afraid that I would not be able to get out. We've just been together a short time now, and I don't know if I should continue.

The teacher understands your feelings, and the more you are like this, the more you have to get out, otherwise how can you do things that don't work, and you will be confused.

Love is very sweet, well, I believe that in real life, there are many couples who have gone through many years of long-distance love and have never achieved positive results, that is, they have never been married. If my boyfriend doesn't want to marry me right away, should I wait for him? What should I do?

1. First of all, we have to figure out why he doesn't want to marry you, some men may think that the two of you have not yet reached the point of marriage, for example, both parties do not know much about their respective tempers and characters. Not yet. is so deep, for example, that you don't even know what the other party likes to eat and what you hate, and you may feel that you won't be happy if you get married in such a hurry.

2. Another reason may be that he doesn't love you that much. Maybe he treats you like a spare tire, if the two of you are together, there is no such deep affection for you. The three-year itch and five-year pain we are talking about may have experienced these things when you were in love, and if you are at this stage, he may not have any plans to get married.

Why you like someone, but don't want to marry him, obviously, there is no other reason than because you don't love him enough。When true love comes, if you love him, you really want to be with him for a long time and never separate, the only way is to enter the marriage hall openly.

Since you don't want to marry him, why keep together? It is because love, like, and appreciation are different, except for relatives, loving a stranger will definitely want to possess, so it is called love; It is also human nature; If you love someone and the other person doesn't love you and can't get the other person, you will definitely suffer until your love slowly fades or hides it, so that your pain can be reduced; If a person loves each other very much, but does not want to possess them, is that person a saint? Of course not, it only proves that you don't love him.

As for what to give, I have long understood by now that most people can only see their own contributions, and cannot see the contributions of others. If his contribution is something you don't want, then you will only subconsciously ignore it. In the same way, he is the same, which is why you always feel that you are giving one-sidedly.

Moreover, an obvious psychology, you pay in the hope of something in return, which is human nature, but it ignores that the real love of a person's pay, should not ask for anything in return, it is their own return psychology that is at work, and if the response is not satisfied, people will be lost. In love, there is always more or less to give. Contentment and happiness are the heart.

If you clearly know that you don't want to marry him now, and you won't marry him in the future, then you better break up as soon as possible, don't delay, since you don't love, let him go, let him find his true love as soon as possible, and you are the same, why waste time on someone who doesn't plan to get married, right?