When I wasn t with him, I felt like I was in a good mood and I felt a sense of relief

You love him, but in actual interactions, his words and deeds do not meet the standards in your heart, and even some things will make you feel uncomfortable. But you still think you can put up with it because you love him. But after a long time, there must be some things that you can't bear, so you are in a bad mood, but after not seeing him for a long time, you can't help but think about him, remembering that there are still a lot of happy things when you are together, so it has caused your current trouble.

There are two ways to solve this:

1. Talk to him. Tell him what you have in mind, and the two sides will coordinate to see if they can find a compromise. But in general, boys are not as attentive as girls, and it is almost impossible for him to remind himself all the time about what to do.

Suggestion: As long as it's not a matter of principle, ignore it.

2. Think it's useless to talk to him. His behavior in the past has made you quickly veto the first one, so you will be much happier if you lower your standards for him and not think about some details, but it is important to note that you cannot blindly lower your standards. When what he has done is already beyond your forehead tolerance, it is recommended:

Break up as soon as possible. Better a finger off than always aching. Love built on tolerance will not be sweet.

Normal, you feel restrained when you are with him, you will be very relaxed when you are not by your side, but if you can't see him for a long time, you will miss him, so you want to find him.

In terms of mentality, even if you love him, treat him as your ordinary friend, otherwise you won't know how to love, just be yourself, don't pretend!

Then don't get rid of it, be together well, lovers get along well and love each other, feel sorry for each other, a hundred years of life are a flick of a finger, life is fleeting, let go of that attachment, unhappy, everything will pass, I hope you can get better and better!

Because you feel that your relationship with him is not very good, you have to communicate more, don't fear him, treat him as a peer, but you can't be too casual.

My brother-in-law is also good to me, and sometimes he is very uncomfortable! But it's normal to think that he's not an outsider.

It's all men, so there's nothing to worry about, leave it to time,. Feelings are something that needs to be cultivated slowly.

It's okay for him to be nice to you, it's right, after all, he's an elder, and you can try to talk to him about work or something.

There's something wrong with you.

Because you think that he is not the right person for you, not the person who can make you give everything, and this kind of person is what you really want.

Even if it's not interesting to others, why bother yourself; also mistook people's youth! You may enjoy his kindness to you and the feeling of being liked.

But for this person, you are still not very satisfied! ~

Because I don't have much affection for him in my heart, the more I treat you like this; Instead, you feel like a burden instead of happiness! ~

If you love, please love deeply, if you don't love, please let go; It's also a sign of respect for each other! ~

Either you don't know how to cherish it, or you really don't have feelings for him; If you don't have too many feelings for him, then don't force them together, otherwise both of you will be very sad in the future, and there will be a lot of contradictions, but you will not be happy.

One is that his kindness to you is not what you want, but what he imposes on you. You can communicate that distance is also a beauty, you may be too close.

In the end, I think what other people have in the pot is good, and it looks good or not.

Cherish the person in front of you and pay attention to discover his beauty! I wish a lover a family member! ~

Because she is too good to you, you feel too easy to cherish.

If you don't like him, tell him that it's hurtful to see it, but it's a relief for both of you. If people are good to you, you should be grateful, and no one should be good to you. You don't like him, no matter how good you are, you can't catch up with happiness, and no matter how bad the person you like, you feel good.

It's very simple, you just don't like him, and you think he pays so much, it's a little uncomfortable, so it's annoying.

It's a pity to discard it.

Let go of the guy, you can free yourself!

Maybe you just don't like it and don't care!

Maybe he's not the best dish in your heart.

It's very simple that you don't like her very much, his kindness to you is not what you want, he doesn't do what you want, and you don't like him very much

Hello, no feelings, it is recommended to break up.

Because you think he doesn't like him very much, you don't have feelings for him, you have such thoughts.

You feel that he is used to being nice to you, so you don't feel it anymore.

If you don't like it, just let him go

If you don't love, you don't love.,No matter how much the other party does.,It's impossible to suddenly make your heart move.。。 Love is not a reward for hard work, even if you try your best to fight for it, there may be no result.

"Journey to the West" (1996, Zhang Weijian played the Monkey King).

Chapter 48: Indiscriminate love, misguided thoughts, amusement, Mu Ya Nu Ya collection of bitter poems.

I'm afraid that you already have someone you like, and none of the people who love you are what you like, so you can't eat, he doesn't love you, but you have a big appetite because you don't like him either, he doesn't like you.

You haven't found someone with fate yet, it means that you are not satisfied with that person.

You may not understand this yet, but only you know what you want, and it may not be that person, so everything about him is an excuse, and he who really met you will feel good no matter what.

You've got something wrong with your brain. Masochistic? What a happy thing it would be to let someone love. but you have become a burden. Then you're still single. Do what you want. Don't embarrass yourself. Just be happy with yourself.

It's not called unrequited love, it's just that they love you and you haven't loved you from beginning to end.

Who are they referring to, and how many boyfriends do you have?

It turns out that you are suitable for a person.

Because he's not the one you're in love with.

Because you don't love him and hate them.

I think you're a bit of a love-phobia.

Who, to be specific, or I'm not good at judging.

I just want to know how many people love you!

Life is full of helplessness every day, and life is a mood. Anything, anyone, is a thing of the past.

Happiness is also a day, and unhappiness is also a day, and what kind of mood you want to have depends entirely on the state of mind you want to look at things.

Road, when it is not passable, choose to detour; Heart, when unhappy, choose to be bearish; Love, when it is getting farther away, choose at will.

There is so much time to worry about in life! Say what you say, don't talk too much; If you love, you will love, don't always regret it; If it's scattered, it's scattered, don't denigrate.

Give yourself some self-confidence, give yourself a little happiness, give yourself a smile, why not be happy?

It shows that you are not in love at all, and you are forced to feel for yourself. It's a good thing to break up now, take a break and continue to find your own forest, that big tree to lean on. Giving up what doesn't belong to you is also liberation, and living your own happy life with ease.

It proves that your previous relationship with him was spent in a depressed state, you are not on the same channel, and the difference is too great.

If it is not suitable, they will be separated, and it will be uncomfortable to meet in the future.

Speaking of which, there is still no way to make up your mind, the choices are made by yourself, so the results are also borne by yourself, you don't want to leave, you can only accept the status quo.

Why are you so tired? For life? After being together for a long time, it is definitely not as perfect as when we first met, which is not pleasing to the eye, maybe it will be fine after a while!

Think about whether you like it or not.

Divide it! We'll be happy for each other!

This kind of is the legendary one who doesn't like him in his heart, but you think you like him.