How can I get to know more boys?

There are many ways to get to know boys, so I'll tell you a few.

The first one is your circle of classmates, where all your classmates in elementary, junior high and high school are pulled into a group, right? has its own WeChat circle QQ group, this is a very large and numerous, and a boy's circle who knows the roots. On the New Year's holiday anniversary, have a party, love everyone to reminisce about the old days, Lala is homely, there may be a lot of good stories in this, and some missed stories will continue the preface.

The second one is your own circle of colleagues, that is, after you enter the society, you will have a variety of different experiences, for example, you have been trained, then you have your own circle, you go to participate in a certain job, have your own circle, I believe that there are many ways to work, such circles are more and more, and it is also a similar method, nothing to chat more in the group, active and active atmosphere, maybe you can also spark.

The third one, in fact, is our current social network, there is WeChat QQ, everything will more or less pull a group, will pop up a lot of information from time to time, these are a good way for us to know men, the key is to rely on yourself to grasp it in the group, you have to show yourself, to let others take the initiative to know you, not to let you know others.

The most important point is that you must show your dynamics in the circle of friends, show your beauty, and your excellence, so that others can recognize you, think that you are not bad, and become more and more perfect, then there will be all kinds of different boys who will take the initiative to know you.

When looking for a partner, you can look for it in the following social model Lu Kaijiao fields:

1.Introductions from relatives and friends: It is a very common way to get to know someone through introductions from relatives and friends. This ensures the basic credibility of the other person and allows the connection to be established through the relationship of family and friends.

2.Social**: On the social platform, you can meet more people by adding friends, building social circles, etc. Pay attention to choose some formal and legal platforms to ensure that the other party is authentic and reliable.

3.Social activities: Participate in social activities, such as parties, gatherings, interest groups, etc., to meet people who share your interests or interests. This way can give the other person a more intuitive understanding of your personality and characteristics.

4.Workplace: In the workplace, you can meet people who share your career or goals. Connections can be made through work exchanges, collaborations, or participation in company-organized events.

5.Community organizations: Participating in community organizations or volunteer activities allows you to meet people who share your values and pursuits. This way can make the other person more identify with your sense of social responsibility and dedication.

No matter what social field you're looking for, here are some surefire ways to do it:

1.Establish an authentic self-presentation: In the process of socializing, you should show your personality, interests and characteristics authentically, and do not falsely package or disguise yourself. In this way, you can attract people who are really suitable for you.

2.Choose who you associate with: When meeting new people, pay attention to whether the other person's qualities, values, and behaviors are in line with yours. Don't be easily fooled by the other person's superficial appearances, but deeply understand the inner qualities of the other person.

3.Maintain communication and respect: In the process of communication, maintain effective communication and respect for the other party's opinions and feelings. Resolve issues and misunderstandings in a timely manner, and establish good communication and trust.

4.Gradually deepen the relationship: When getting to know a new person, don't rush to get to know the relationship deeply, but gradually get to know and get acquainted with the other person.

During the school period, hard work, diligent study, good grades, each class has a WeChat group, many boys like to communicate and learn with your excellent students, work hard at work, work hard, have achievements, boys' colleagues like to take the book to talk to you, these will know more boys.

The best way to get to know someone is to travel with them.

Traveling with your partner and engaging in some outdoor sports during the love phase have the role of acting as a "touchstone of love".

When exercising outdoors at high intensity, a person's inner instinctive "self" will be fully released, showing the behavior of searching for dates that is not easy to occur in daily life.

It is suggested that the test of the partner can be viewed from three aspects: before, during and after the trip.

Mountaineering, for example, is an easy option.

First of all, before you go. After making a suggestion, if the other party repeatedly "picks" and always emphasizes that it is boring and not fun, it means that this person may be too rigid and lacks interest in life;

If he always shirks it repeatedly on the grounds of "too busy at work", it means that he may care more about his own interests than love;

If the other person blindly leaves the preparation to you, such a person may be dependent, or "machismo".

On the contrary, if a person carefully investigates the weather and terrain before setting off, prepares various items, and takes into account some special circumstances, such as asking you to wear a hat to protect from the sun, etc., it means that he is a careful and thoughtful person.

Secondly, on the go. Outdoor activities are rarely smooth sailing, with bumpy roads, unbeautiful scenery, unpalatable food, and ...... accidental injuriesThese unexpected situations are a good time to test one's emotional state and resilience.

If he can face it with an optimistic attitude, try to find a way to solve it, and infect the other party with positive emotions, then he must have a sunny and cheerful personality in life.

On the contrary, if he chatters about difficulties, regrets and complains, then he may be short-tempered and have poor ability to work under pressure.

In addition, a considerate and responsible person will be willing to take the initiative to protect each other in the event of a code leak, carry things for you, hand you towels, block the way when you encounter a difficult road, chat and sing to increase fun, etc., so that you are full of security.

Finally, after the trip. When everyone is tired, if he remembers to shush you, take the initiative to send you home, help you organize your things, etc., it usually means that he is very attentive and cares about your feelings.

If you habitually sort out your activity expenses, experience, etc., such people are often conscientious and responsible in life, and are good at careful planning.

In addition, a few days after the fact, the other party sorted out the **, or printed it out to send you a "surprise", which shows that he is enthusiastic and generous, interesting, and likes to create "little romance".

First, the introduction of iron girlfriends.

A good girlfriend, she understands you, and she also knows what kind of man is suitable for you, she gives you the goal of finding the opposite sex, very accurate, and makes good use of her friends, especially friends with resources of the opposite sex, you can have a resume, to the friends around you, to publish your intention to get off the list.

Second, high-quality gatherings.

Sometimes, whether we go to some occasions unintentionally or deliberately, I have to say that it is a good channel for making friends, like skiing and flying.

Plates, outdoor BBQ, car clubs, wine tastings, etc., such activities.

There are certain standards and requirements, and ordinary people will not come easily.

Finish. Being able to spend money outside of the minimum standard of living shows that there are still certain requirements for life and a love for life.

Third, a high-quality single-off platform.

At present, the social software on the market is relatively mixed, especially for girls who have no experience in online dating, and it is easy to be deceived by stupid socks, so you must keep your eyes open.

Fourth, in the circle of friends, post a signal of singleness.

Many goddesses are single, mainly because the opposite sex thinks that you are so good, you should have already taken off single, so you have to release a single signal, such as a person's Valentine's Day, a person to go to the movies, an appointment, etc.

Fifth, make good use of various activities.

According to the characteristics of the other half of his expectations, to screen the activities he will go to, good years to create opportunities to meet easily, general activities to meet and chat, the atmosphere is better, if suitable, you can establish a link, the next date.