My son is three and a half years old, he can t understand the complex language, he is very timid, an

After getting used to it, it's okay, and getting used to it becomes natural.

Here we propose three operational steps: what can parents do step by step? The first step is to hold the child when you first enter the unfamiliar environment, have close physical contact with the child, and use language and eyes to communicate with the child to give the child enough security, until the child's emotions slowly relax, tell you a little trick, when you find that the child holds your hand very tightly. It is very nervous, when he holds your hand or hugs your body, then the strong little hand relaxes, and the body does not seem to be in contact with you so closely, indicating that he is slowly and slowly not nervous about the environment, the second step, put down the child, sit with her for a while, or play with her for a while, do not leave the child immediately, if there are acquaintances in the environment, parents should also make an example of communication.

For example, greet the other person, talk, but do not force the child to greet other people in the process. Step 3: Encourage your child to communicate with others when he or she is completely relaxed or has the desire to communicate with others. It turns out that this is the case, it seems that we want our baby to overcome timidity and fear of life.

It's really not a matter of being anxious for a day or two, when facing the situation that the child is timid and afraid of life, put down his face, restore his normal mentality, and analyze the reasons for the child's fear of life from an objective point of view.

When facing strangers in an unfamiliar environment, we must pay attention to step by step, do not force, do not be anxious, and at the same time, parents should also set an example for themselves, maintain a relaxed and not nervous emotional state, only in this way can children in a comfortable and safe psychological environment, improve the fear of timid situation.

Parents should take their children outdoors to have more contact with the outside world, especially let them play and play games with children of the same age. The game allows children to familiarize themselves with various social scenes in life and let them experience the fun of socializing with other children. Knowing how to express and communicate in different situations can also learn more social etiquette, so as to become bold and confident.

Introverted children generally lack self-confidence, what parents need to do is to guide their children out decisively, tell them not to be afraid of making mistakes, and not to be afraid of failure, because failure and mistakes will also become the biggest help on our growth path. When the child does a good job, parents should encourage and praise them in time to make the child more confident. For example, if there are guests at home, parents should encourage their children to be polite and take the initiative to greet them, bravely pour water for guests, and get praise from guests, children will feel that it is actually something, and their hearts will slowly become confident, and when there are guests in the future, they will be able to boldly entertain.

Slowly develop your child's courageous character.

Have you ever been frightened by something, don't usually put any ghost stories for your children, don't read frightening stories, don't listen to scary **!

Parents should encourage their children not to be afraid, nothing? They are all people, more guidance, more to see the world!

Don't be bold. It's a danger to be too bold and ignore the danger.

Human personality does not say which is good and which is bad. As long as you can work and make money.

Don't be afraid if the child is timid, tell God to protect the child, and the child will of course not be afraid of anything.

Slowly start with small things and start to enlighten him, after all, the child is still young.

How small is it? What's the performance?

Parents can help their child to explore and set an example for him to try to overcome his fears and let them know that the things that make him afraid are not so scary.

Sometimes children are timid because they are influenced by adults. Due to the overprotectiveness of adults, they will take advantage of their fears to restrict them. For example, you can't go outside to play, there are bad guys outside who will take you away. I won't see my mom and dad anymore.

See if this is the case at home. Then adjust accordingly.

Children who are timid need to be treated in combination with the cause. The main reasons for children's timidity are poor family education methods, incomplete family structure, greater pressure at school, mental illness, and natural cowardice. For pathological timidity, sand play** or medication** can be used to help improve the phenomenon of timidity; For non-pathological timidity, we should consider whether there is a lack of family education, the child's lack of security, and fundamentally make changes, carry out family **, and also carry out sand table games**, painting**, ****, to help children overcome timidity.

Some children speak late, like Albert Einstein. Our children also started to talk late, and once consulted a doctor, and the doctor asked us to pay attention to a few points: 1. The family environment, parents are too thoughtful, and children can get what they want with simple gestures; 2. For hearing reasons, you need to go to the hospital for examination; 3 Autism, which requires consultation with a medical professional, is difficult to get an accurate answer here.

Personally, it is recommended to let children play with their peers more, and parents try not to interfere. After a period of observation, you should consult a doctor before making a decision.

My daughter is the same, she was very bold, cheerful and laughing when the teacher taught her before. Now that she has a different teacher, she is very timid, she even talks to me in a very small voice, and she loves to cry when she goes to school. Through my own understanding and observation of the teacher during this period of time, it may be that she is a little afraid of the current teacher, and when the teacher scolds other students, she will feel pressure in her heart, and feel that the teacher does not like her.

What we can do now is to communicate with the teacher, and then train him to speak loudly and interact more with the child in daily life.

This is not the teacher's problem, you should train him to be brave at home.

First of all, you communicate more with the teacher, so that the teacher pays more attention to your child, and asks more questions about your child's ...... during class

Hold your horses. Children's courage is slowly trained! You should also encourage your children at home.

The "three and a half weeks" in the title should be three and a half years old. The following ideas may work for you:

1. Usually there is not enough time to communicate with the child, and in the communication, he does not get enough praise, so he is not confident enough.

2. The teacher's education method for the child needs to be improved, so that the child can be fully performed before other children, and the self-confidence will gradually improve.

3. Recite some ancient poems to the child, and then perform them to family and friends, and slowly cultivate their reading ability 4. Three and a half years old is still very young, not anxious, my daughter has just started kindergarten, but you are starting to pay attention now, very timely.

Bless you and your children!

Your child is a little autistic, don't be impatient and rough with your child in this situation, you need more patience and care for your child's education. Take him to a place with a wide field of vision or a place with a lot of people to walk around often, and listen to some grassland style songs for him, which is very effective for the development of children's character.

Ask him to find one or two extroverted good friends to play with. Encourage him to have the courage to do something. For example, if you don't dare to speak to a stranger, but as long as you muster up the courage to take the initiative to speak a few times, the problem will be basically solved.

Such children are too introverted, but some things imposed on them by adults often do not solve the problem, so it is better to encourage him more. The most important thing is praise, parents find out in time that he has done well, done the right thing, even if it is insignificant, but also to praise, so that he is confident, if he gets more recognition, his mood will naturally be good, your affirmation of him will also make him trust you more, naturally he will open his heart, communicate with outsiders, and will have friends.

More encouragement, more care, the child is educated, since he is still young, adults should accompany him more, give him what he wants, and guide him, one day he will be fine.

It's best to let him play with other friends more, let some enthusiastic, talk more with him, worry that he will grow up to be a withdrawn person, and withdrawn people are easy to be infected with homosexual tendencies, especially boys, girls should also pay attention.

I think it is very necessary for parents to play with their children, and they must give their children more warmth when they are young, so that they can benefit their growth. If you don't have much time to spend with your child due to work, you can first consider having one of your parents accompany your child. The other goes to work, so to accompany the child, if there is really no time to accompany the child, then you can only let the child's grandmother and grandfather take the child, but if so, the relationship between the child and the parents should not be very harmonious, it is recommended that the parents change to play with the child, enhance the relationship with the child, and let the child grow up healthily. In fact, you can also let your child play with other children, of course, for children, this requires a process, some children need an adaptation process, let children and other children slowly get along for a period of time, so it will be good, however, a child who is only 3 and a half years old, can really only be accompanied by parents or relatives, and can slowly let children contact the world more when they are old.

It is normal for children to be accompanied by their parents at this age, children let you accompany her, you want to accompany him in the future, you don't want you to accompany him when you are older, timidity may be because the child has failed in the process of playing and received criticism, or adults do not let the child try anything, for example, the child wants to play with mud parents feel dirty and do not let play, the child wants to climb the tree Parents feel dangerous and do not let the child try, after many times after experiencing some disallowed, the child does not have the courage to try new things, It is recommended to encourage the child to try what he wants to play, let the child learn through the experience, encourage the child if he fails, and give the child more freedom.

If the child is timid, it will affect the child's future development, not only in the study and life will suffer more setbacks, but also easy to make the child more and more dependent, seriously affecting the child's communication ability, therefore, to overcome the timidity urgently. Parents should spend more time with their children, take them out to see the outside world, and pay more attention to their children's mental health. Parents should not ridicule and ridicule their children's timid personality, but should strive to correct their children's personality and make them more lively and cheerful.

Finally, parents can also carry out intensive psychological training for their children, and if the psychological timidity is serious, they can seek the assistance of a psychologist**.

At the beginning, try to take the children to integrate into the children's team, step by step, to enlighten the children more and have more contact with others. After a long time, the personality will be cheerful.

Give your child enough security and he will naturally be bolder. However, there is also a large part of it is born with personality problems. I have always believed that parents should not always feel that their children's personality needs to be changed, because it is difficult to change the natural things, and it will bring the pain of the child if they have to change, and they feel that the parents are dissatisfied with themselves and have low self-esteem.

There are pros and cons to any kind of personality.

Parents need to help their children build self-confidence!

First, accompany your child to do what you can. When your child is done, encourage him and applaud him. Then, he will complete some of the more difficult games and so that he will gradually believe that he can do it.

Second, spend more time with your child to play with other children. Some children are more introverted and embarrassed to reach out to other children. At this time, parents need to match up to help the child get off to a good start, and then he will gradually get used to it, and slowly dare to play with other children.

Third, have faith in your child, give him some time, and don't be in a hurry. Don't tell him something like who's kid and what's going on, it's very shocking.

Some children are more timid, but it doesn't matter, because human nature is different. If you want to improve your child's guts, first, you can play with your child first; The second is that you play with your child; Third, if the child is already interested, the child can play alone; Fourth, if the child is bold, we must also educate him to be careful of what to prevent and not to act recklessly.

Encouragement, more exercise, this is also the case when my child is his age, once I sat a few meters away, watching him ask him to buy cold drinks, he was scared, and then I kept encouraging him, and finally he felt proud to buy it.

Take him out to play more, and then encourage him to participate on his own when appropriate, and tell him that his mother is watching and can join at any time to make him feel safe, so that he can take his time and be better with the company of his relatives.

Take the child to meet the 3-5 year old children in their own residential community, and take the lead in playing parent-child games with the children. If your child is in kindergarten, you can also get to know the parents and children of the children in the same class who are close to your home through the teacher, and you can bring your child to their home to play with them on Saturdays and Sundays to help your child find a playmate and eliminate the strangeness of the outside world. It is also a good idea to bring more children to wedding banquets and other occasions.