After divorce, will the children always be irreconcilable when they get married in the future?

For children, the impact of divorce on children is certain, but the size of the impact still depends on how the custodial party teaches the child, not healthy to the end, but there will be some shadows on its growth, such as seeing that other children have fathers and mothers after going to school, but they don't, there will definitely be a downturn...

If you educate well, you will be a pillar in the future, if you don't educate well and lose it to the society, it will not work, you as a parent should be a good example, educate him well, and guide him. From an early age, he should cultivate his hobbies so that he can find a good job in the future.

I think you have to pay more love and patience than ordinary parents, and don't let children feel that their parents' divorce is wrong in the process of educating their children and ordinary bits and pieces, and don't let children feel that they are superfluous and burdensome. Let him feel that although his parents do not live together, his love for him has not changed or decreased. Don't blame the other party in front of your child.

When you remarry, you should also think more about your children.

In the future, you will definitely encounter various problems in educating your children and dealing with parent-child relationships, and it is recommended that you read more books on this subject and not hurt your child's fragile heart.

Now there are a lot of divorces with children, not necessarily unhealthy, depending on how everyone handles it.

The relationship between husband and wife is not good, for children, divorce is also a harm, not divorced, in a discordant family all day long, the growth of children will also be affected, husband and wife feel bad and love, but for the sake of children do not divorce, in fact, it is not good for children: children grow up in unhappy families, and children will become sensitive when they grow up.

1.The child escapes reality.

The husband and wife have to live together if they are not in harmony, disputes must be common, and it is impossible for children to know about every dispute, so in the long run, the children will not have a good grasp of the family relationship, and even afraid to deal with some trivial matters in the family, and avoid getting along with both parents.

2.Stressful.

When the husband and wife are not in harmony but do not divorce for the sake of the child, this will increase the pressure on the child, because the child knows that the parents are not divorced for themselves, Chunzhen stares at the parents and sacrifices their emotional life, and the travel wants to let themselves have a complete home, and they should have a good future to repay their parents, so the pressure on the child will be great, the little child actually knows a lot of things, some children are more precocious, they will be better until the parents are separated, but they are children after all, will blame his parents' unhappiness on himself.

3.The personality becomes uncheerful.

If the parents' emotional discord will make the child more sensitive, everyone will have a lot of topics around the family when they go to school, so the children in the family who are not in harmony with the husband and wife are inferior to this topic. Children who enter the family are also more sensitive, and they slowly know how to observe words and feelings, and they are also cautious with their parents.

4.The impact on the child's later family.

The impact of parental discord on children is actually greater than imagined, first of all, it will be more difficult for children to deal with their relationship with their spouse in the future, because they never know what is the right and good way. Secondly, there are also some children who will resist marriage when they grow up, thinking that they do not have the confidence to live the sweet family life like in the TV series.

In terms of family interaction, the relationship between husband and wife has a great impact on the children. The relationship is not good, but you still have to make do with your children, which is a hurt to all three of them! Only by giving children a suitable space so that they can grow up healthily is a good choice for children.

1. How to judge if both divorced husband and wife do not want children.

During the divorce proceedings, if both parties refuse to raise the children, a ruling may be made in advance for one party to temporarily raise the children. The two parties shall negotiate on the issue of the children, and determine which party will raise them in accordance with the relevant provisions of the Marriage Law, and the other party shall pay the child support. If the parties cannot reach an agreement, the people's court shall make a judgment that the party who is able and able to do so shall be raised.

After the divorce, the breastfeeding children are too high, and the principle is to be raised with the breastfeeding mother.

Second, what should I do if I want to divorce my husband does not agree.

If a divorce by mutual agreement is not possible, a lawsuit for divorce shall be filed with the people's court. If the place of the other party's household registration is not the same as the place of habitual residence, the court of the other party's habitual residence is the same. ID cards, marriage certificates, civil complaints, and evidence of relationship breakdown should be provided.

The court's criterion for granting a divorce is whether the relationship between the husband and wife has actually broken down, and if this criterion is met, the divorce will generally be granted under normal circumstances.

3. What is the division of real estate after divorce.

According to the relevant provisions of the Civil Code and other laws, the division of the joint house between the husband and wife in the event of divorce shall be carried out in accordance with the following methods:

1) In principle, the real estate jointly owned by the husband and wife should be divided equally, and the specific treatment may also be different according to the actual needs of production and life and the actual situation of the property.

2) Houses jointly owned by husband and wife that are not suitable for division shall be owned by one party in accordance with the housing situation of both parties and the principle of taking care of the woman or the innocent party. The party who has been allocated the house shall compensate the other party in the amount equal to half the value of the house. In the case of equal conditions of both parties, the woman shall be taken care of.

3) In the event of divorce, the joint property of the husband and wife shall be disposed of by agreement between the parties; If an agreement fails, the people's court shall make a judgment on the basis of the specific circumstances of the property and the principle of taking into account the rights and interests of the woman and the children.

4) Where the house lived in during the existence of the marital relationship belongs to one party, and the other party requests temporary residence on the grounds that the divorce has no place of residence, it may be verified that temporary residence may be granted according to the needs of the actual situation, but generally not more than 2 years.

Civil Code of the People's Republic of China

Article 1084.

The relationship between parents and children is not extinguished by the divorce of the parents. After divorce, the children are still the children of both parents, regardless of whether they are raised directly by the father or mother.

After divorce, parents still have the right and obligation to raise, educate and protect their children.

In the event of a divorce, children under the age of two shall be raised directly by their mothers. For children who have reached the age of two, and the parents fail to reach an agreement on the issue of child support, the people's court is to make a judgment based on the specific circumstances of both parties and in accordance with the principle of the best interests of the minor child. Where children have reached the age of 8, their true wishes shall be respected.

If neither party wants a child, then it will be awarded according to the actual situation, and it may be awarded to the man or to the woman.

The criteria for determining custody are as follows:

1. Children who are breastfeeding shall be raised with their breastfeeding mothers in principle.

2. Children under the age of two generally live with their mothers, and if the mother has one of the following circumstances, she can live with their fathers:

1) Suffering from incurable infectious diseases or other serious diseases, and the children are not suitable to live with them;

2) There are conditions for raising children who do not fulfill their obligation to support them, and the father requires the child to live with him;

3) The child is unable to live with the mother due to other reasons.

3. Where both parents have completed the agreement that a child under the age of two years lives with the father and there is no adverse impact on the healthy growth of the child, it may be permitted.

4. For children over the age of two years, both the father and the mother request to live with them, and one of the following circumstances may be given priority:

1) Have undergone sterilization or have lost their fertility due to other reasons;

2) The child has lived with the child for a long time, and the change of living environment is obviously detrimental to the healthy growth of the child;

3) There are no other children, and the other party has other children;

4) The child lives with him/her, which is beneficial to the child's growth, but the other party suffers from an infectious disease or other serious disease that cannot be cured for a long time, or has other circumstances that are not conducive to the child's physical and mental health, and it is not suitable to live with the child.

5. The conditions for the father and the mother to raise the child are basically the same, and both parties require the child to live with the child, but if the child has lived alone with the grandparents or maternal grandparents for many years, and the grandparents request and have the ability to help the child take care of the grandchild or grandchild, it may be considered as a priority condition for the child to live with the father or mother.

6. In the event of a dispute between the parents over the age of 10 over that a minor child over the age of 10 should live with his or her father or mother, the child's opinion shall be taken into account.

7. On the premise that it is conducive to protecting the interests of the children, where both parents agree to take turns raising the children, it may be permitted.

8. Where the parents agree to change the relationship between the children and raise the child, it shall be permitted.

9. At the time of divorce, where the spouse serving a sentence or being ill is willing to raise the child, and his or her parents are willing to raise the child on his behalf, and the other party agrees, it may be permitted, but where the child is a minor over the age of 10, the child's opinion shall be solicited.