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In the development of this kind of self-interested society, money is a special key for each of us, especially after marriage, money is the joint property of both husband and wife, and all the expenses of the family, the other party should let others understand, so that your family can be more harmonious.
But in real life, there are always some people who want to save face and like to do most of it, especially with the opposite sex, as long as they have a request, then he will help without saying a word, and will not discuss with others at all. Naturally, it's not a bit of money.
Naturally, let's not talk about the opposite sex and not pay it back, once you let your other half know about this matter, can you express it yourself? This is also a member of the opposite sex, who would believe it? Think about it, if everyone is really just ordinary good friends, how can they secretly give things to the other party?
Personal items such as mobile phones, cotton towels, kitchen utensils, clothes and pants, etc. are not allowed.
In fact, many people of the opposite sex usually feel very familiar with each other, and they will no longer shy away from anything, such as personal items, cotton towels, kitchen utensils are all used together, and they are not shy about mobile phones, so that they will continue to send some clothes and pants to the other party. You think it's normal, but in the eyes of others, it's not that simple, and you're too close. Therefore, if you want to maintain a pure friendship, it is better not to give such personal items casually.
In fact, everyone encounters difficulties and frustrations, and at this time, they most want to find someone to talk to. At this time, the so-called confidant or confidant has always been the target of confidant. Naturally, you confide in you, and the other party can comfort you, but you must not hug each other, because this is only between lovers.
At any time, don't give a hug to the opposite sex, even if you just want to comfort the other person and don't think about anything, but you can't make sure that the other person doesn't want anything either. If you send out and hug each other, then your relationship will become more and more abnormal.
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Even if the relationship between friends of the opposite sex is good, don't give each other some gold and silver jewelry and other more valuable items, and don't give each other perfume, which is easy to misunderstand the other party, and don't give each other more natural clothes, or don't give each other more taboo gifts.
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You can't give each other a warm hug, you can't give each other expensive gifts, you can't give each other movie tickets.
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Don't give anything too valuable, if the other party has a suggestive gift, don't give flowers, don't give some gold and silver jewelry, don't give some big brand gifts.
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No matter how good the relationship between the opposite sex is, you can't easily send lipstick, cosmetics, rings, flowers, and clothes.
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Do not give away a few things such as a hug, a scarf, a belt, a cup, a necklace, a tie, underwear, money, etc.
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Don't send your grievances, troubles, different feelings, ambiguity, thoughts, don't send these things, otherwise you will cross the line.
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You can't give each other some underwear, you can't just put some natural gifts, you can't give each other something with more obscure meanings, you can't give each other something more ambiguous, and you can't give each other roses.
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You can't get a movie ticket, you can't give a hug, you can't give a particularly expensive gift, you can't have physical contact with the other person, you can't kiss the other person, these behaviors will make others misunderstand, I know.
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You can't chat late at night, you can't give private items, you can't have intimate physical contact, you can't give money, you can't give some expensive gifts.
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You can't send clothes, you can't send some hairpins, and you can't send cosmetics, which need to be avoided.
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No matter how good the relationship between the opposite sex is, the following two things cannot be given, and the relationship will become impure.
1.Underwear.
2.Couple's clothing and accessories.
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Often chat online, give each other some personal things, send each other some private items, and give each other underwear.
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In their daily lives, they will always have many friends of the opposite sex around them. Sometimes we eat with them, and sometimes we go out on vacations together. But even if you have more connections with friends of the opposite sex in your life, don't share these items, you see if you guarantee it.
Clause. 1. You can't just use the other party's money.
We will have one or two friends of the opposite sex around us, and they will come to help us when we are in financial difficulties. But that doesn't mean we can just use the other party's money. In the case of money, it is not too much, but it is also good to say that it is small.
It's not easy for everyone to make money, and if you use their money casually, or if he uses your money casually, this relationship cannot be sustained. When it comes to money, let's be cautious.
Clause. 2. You can't share a confidant and friend.
Everyone has their own good friends, and they show different sides in front of different good friends. But if we share a confidant with a friend of the opposite sex, it will be more troublesome. Since the three of them are together, it is inevitable that there will be situations of one kind or another.
Because there are many people, it is very easy to complicate the innocent relationship between each other. Therefore, for true friends, it is good for one person to have one, and there is no need to share it.
Clause. 3. It is not allowed to share a post.
We know that competition can be stressful at work, and if you compete for a position with your friends and friends of the opposite sex, you can easily get emotionally troubled. Since everyone wants to live stronger, no one will let anyone in the face of interests. Therefore, when it comes to actual peer competition, it is better for everyone and good friends to bypass each other.
Clause. Fourth, you can't share a promotion opportunity.
It's not easy to have a job, but it's also important to have a fast development after that. If you and your friends of the opposite sex are going to compete for promotion opportunities together, it will be very easy for everyone to have problems. In this way, it is easier to ruin the mutual affection of everyone.
In fact, in people's daily life, although rights and interests are crucial, friends are also very important. Therefore, in some public places, people must distinguish between light and heavy.
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Mobile phones, toothbrushes, towels, underwear, these four things, even if the relationship is good, cannot be shared, otherwise there will be conflicts.
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Your own private belongings, money, mobile phones, you can't share a trip, don't have common secrets, your own special treasures.
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Don't have a common bosom friend, don't share a job, and don't live together.
Because if you often contact each other, it will make two people have feelings, after all, the opposite sex attracts each other, and you must be cautious.
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