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What gifts should not be given between friends of the opposite sex?

The so-called "relationship iron" friendship, there are still uncrossable boundaries between same-sex friends, not to mention friends of the opposite sex, even if the other party does not blame or mind your actions, but in a civilized society, it is better for us to be a measured and polite person.

1. The meaning of ties, scarves, and belts is that they want to tie you up, and they can be given by people who are very close. When I go to work in the morning, the wife arranges the tie for her husband, so it is a more ambiguous gift;

The scarf just wants to give you warmth, show concern for you, is a warm and delicate way of expression, if it is a group of people sent together, it doesn't matter, it is not good to send a scarf of the opposite sex alone;

The meaning of the belt is the same as that of the tie, both of which express the meaning of tying you.

2 necklaces, rings, watches not to say whether they are suitable or not, think about it, you give these three things to others, do people use them or not?

If you use it, you have to wear it on your body every day, and what should you do if your boyfriend asks? What should I do if my boyfriend and girlfriend send the same thing?

No, how can I explain it to you? Does it seem disrespectful to you? Moreover, these three kinds of gifts are worth a lot of money, and they are generally a token of agreement between couples, and your gift is best not the same.

3. Underwear and pajamasTo be honest, I can't imagine anyone who would choose these intimate things as gifts for their friends.

When my friend said that I wanted to choose underwear as a gift, I had the urge to dig a hole in the ground on the spot.

These gifts are given as a couple, what style to give, what size to give, there is a lot of knowledge, not to mention that you are just as a friend.

There are so many choices, you just gave away underwear, and no one believes it when you say that there is no other meaning.

From any point of view, this gift is not very acceptable, let alone the opposite sex. Even if both parties don't mind, it is not clear if others know what is reasonable.

After all, your friend is not so poor that he can't even afford underwear.

The so-called love is that there must be something that distinguishes ordinary friends from them, and the choice of gifts is one of them.

If you can't imagine what boundaries you can't touch with your friends, such a relationship is not right.

If one day you receive the above things, then I also congratulate you, you are not far from getting off the list.

It's best not to send bags, clothes, flowers, rings, etc., because these are things that belong to boyfriends and girlfriends.

No matter how good the relationship is, don't give each other money, because the other party will feel embarrassed.

1.Don't give each other flowers, especially roses, because they are for your significant other.

Expensive gifts, warm care, hugs, and movie tickets; For example, expensive gifts: it is normal for friends to give gifts to each other, but to express their hearts, instead of choosing too expensive gifts, it will make the other party feel pressure; Warm care: It is normal for friends to care about each other, if you don't care about your friends, you will feel that you are inhumane, but you must know that you can not be too ambiguous.

Emotionally, no matter how much two people love each other, there will always be some small contradictions in their lives, and they will have some complaints about the other half in their hearts, and when they are upset, they always want to confide in others and vent their inner unhappiness. At this time, if you confide in you as a confidant of the opposite sex, he will definitely listen to your emotions, make you feel that he still understands you, and make your heart feel relieved and supported.

Once you get used to talking to him, you will make him pay more attention to your inner needs, and you will inevitably compare him to your other half, which will also make you more dissatisfied with your other half. After the confidant of the opposite sex pays attention to your essential needs, he grasps the key to mess with your "seven inches", maybe your thinking is naïve, but he does not necessarily have no thoughts.

Although you can have good friends of the opposite sex, you must grasp the bottom chakra line of being a human being, if you have it, you can say so, some are not easy to say. A confidant may be ambiguous beings with each other. Discuss some sensitive topics with confidants of the opposite sex, even if they gradually become pure, maybe their feelings will be different in the future.

When you fall in love, there is nothing to talk about among the opposite sex, and once you talk about the entrances and exits, maybe you will not be able to do it again. In the most sensitive topics between the opposite sex, it is contempt for the partner, and if you love someone, you should maintain a distance from other members of the opposite sex.

When you meet someone of the opposite sex, you can find a partner or friends of the same sex to be with, and you can get together for dinner and chat, but you can't get together alone. No matter how many good friends of the opposite sex there are, there should be a "boundary" to be able to care for each other, but there is a degree of relaxation. When we put the relationship above your relationship as a couple, it is already a kind of "putting the code" on your personal behavior, and you are both contemptuous of yourself and hurting the other person.

After having a significant other, if you care too much about the opposite sex, you can only hurt each other and ruin your beautiful life.

Don't touch each other's privacy, don't touch each other's body, and don't touch each other's feelings, otherwise the relationship will change a lot and it will be very bad.

Don't touch each other's secrets, don't touch each other's personal belongings, no matter how good the relationship between two people is, don't touch these few things.

Don't touch each other's personal affairs, don't care about each other's affairs, don't go out on a trip together, don't touch these things.

Don't talk about your partner, don't have close physical contact, don't talk about sensitive topics, and don't talk too often.

You must not borrow money from each other, you must not borrow each other's private daily necessities, you must not borrow each other's mobile phones, you must not borrow each other's clothes, you must not borrow each other's feelings.

Can't borrow money. Money is a means of measuring benefits, and money transactions between people of the opposite sex can easily make people think about it. If you don't explain it clearly to the other party, it is easy to cause misunderstandings.

Don't borrow each other's time, a lot of ambiguity is caused by time.

Don't borrow from each other's contributions, the more you give, the more feelings will accumulate.

Don't borrow each other's emotions, once you fall in love, it will be difficult to deal with, and the most difficult thing in the world to repay is emotional debt.

In real life, this question needs to be judged on a case-by-case basis:

1.If there is no other affection or intention between the person who gave the gift and the opposite sex who gave the gift to him/her, then receiving the gift itself should not cause much of a problem and there is no need to mind. However, the subject should inform you of this beforehand to avoid misunderstandings if you learn from elsewhere.

2.If the person of the opposite sex who gives the gift has a crush on the subject or other purposes, then the subject should immediately explain the situation to you after receiving the gift and refuse the other person's kindness. If the subject fails to do so and conceals it, then you will have legitimate suspicion and uneasiness.

3.If there is a relationship or ambiguity between the subject and the opposite sex, receiving a gift is more likely to be disturbing, awakening past memories, and you will obviously feel mind and jealousy. Subjects are to avoid this from happening.

4.If the person receives a gift of high value or other meaning, it may give the impression that the other person's kindness goes beyond the boundaries of friendship, and you will feel quite concerned. This requires the subject to reject the gift and explain it to you clearly to eliminate the mistake.

In summary, the key to the subject's receipt of a gift from the opposite sex is whether there are other feelings or intentions between the subject and the giver that go beyond ordinary friendship. If it doesn't exist, and the subject explains the situation to you beforehand, receiving a small gift may not be too much of a problem. However, if there is a relationship or the subject has concealed the matter, and received an expensive or other gift, you will feel quite mindful and the person should avoid it.

A good relationship needs to be built on trust. It is equally important that the subject be honest with you about any circumstances that may cause misunderstandings, and that you need to be open-minded and give the subject the opportunity to explain and avoid misunderstandings over small matters. Only with the cooperation of both parties can it be possible to achieve senseless minds and vinegar.