Not long after I was with my boyfriend, I asked him to buy him shoes, should I buy them?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-21
22 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    I don't think you should buy it for him, you just talk about boyfriend and girlfriend, you can't buy him what he wants, you must have a bottom line, otherwise it is easy to be deceived.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    With my boyfriend, if I ask him to buy shoes, if they are not expensive, you can also buy them for him, if he wants to buy more than a thousand shoes, then I will not buy them for him, because the two people have not yet reached a real relationship, and I can't let him spend my money.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Summary. Hello! Your boyfriend buys you shoes, he's a very attentive guy, and if you want to thank him, say so.

    My boyfriend buys me shoes, how.

    Hello! Your boyfriend buys you shoes, he's a very attentive guy, and if you want to thank him, say so.

    I like the shoes you bought, I didn't expect you to be such a careful boyfriend, I'm so happy, I think I'm very lucky, I think I'm lucky to meet you in my life, I think you're the one who loves me the most. I will cherish you and love <>you

    Because tomorrow is 520 Valentine's Day, you can also pick a gift for your boyfriend to give him, so that he can only be happy as soon as possible, and he will be a special surprise when he receives your gift

    Very few guys take the initiative to buy shoes for their girlfriends, so you have to thank him well, accompany him, and make him feel that he is so happy to give gifts.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Summary. Hello kiss, buy shoes for your boyfriend.

    Is it good to buy shoes for your boyfriend?

    Hello kiss, buy shoes for your boyfriend.

    It's good to give your boyfriend a pair of well-fitting and comfortable shoes. But there is also a saying that giving shoes to your boyfriend means that you want to send him away, hinting at breaking up, and hoping that he will leave. I don't know how deep your relationship is, whether he will think about it much, if you are afraid that he will misunderstand, you have to make it clear in advance.

    Dear most boys are very fond of shoes or watches, and if a boy likes sports, giving them sneakers will make him have a lot of affection for you. If you don't exercise, it's okay to send casual shoes. In fact, it doesn't matter what you send, what matters is your heart.

    Kiss, if you are afraid of the meaning of sending away, kiss can ask your boyfriend to send you a red envelope of one dollar after sending the shoes, indicating that he bought these shoes, and you can crack this meaning.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Summary. Hello, <

    I am Xing Yao, an emotional counselor, and I am good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, so if it is convenient to tell me about your specific situation

    I've known my boyfriend for almost a month, and I said I wanted to buy a new pair of shoes, and he said no, I can't buy them for me, and I can't be too nice to me, what does he mean.

    Hello, <

    I am an emotional counselor and I am good at analyzing problems in marriage and family, love, psychology, interpersonal communication, etc. I can feel that you are very confused now, and if it is convenient, tell me in detail about your specific situation.

    That's how it is, I want to buy shoes, and he says he can't be too nice to me.

    Your boyfriend says he won't buy you shoes and can't be too nice to you, which has the following possible meanings:1He wants your relationship to be more stable:

    He may think that being too accommodating will make your relationship ruin, so he wants to keep a certain distance as the relationship develops. 2.He wants your relationship to be more equal:

    He probably thinks you should learn to solve problems on your own, instead of always relying on him. Therefore, he is reluctant to buy you shoes and wants to let you solve the shopping problem yourself.

    He thinks that if he is too good to you, you will not be able to restrain yourself, and he will ask him for this and that in the future.

    Then he is reluctant to buy me shoes Can I not afford shoes He is obviously reluctant.

    I have a job myself, and I'm going to ask him for this and that.

    This man can't stay.

    That's right, he doesn't even meet this request, what else do you want him to do.

    How long have you been together?

    It's been almost a month.

    Has he taken care of you this month?

    I don't live with him, I can't take care of him, he gets off work at 9 o'clock every day, and sometimes it's 11 o'clock late.

    Did he mention cohabitation to you?

    Are you still there, my dear?

    If you are confused now, the teacher can help you point you in the right direction.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Summary. If your boyfriend asks you to buy something for him, you don't have to think about how to refuse, just refuse directly, what kind of boyfriend is this, why do you have to let you buy him something, boyfriend and girlfriend fall in love, give each other, buy gifts are due, but they are willing to pay for each other, not for each other, this kind of boyfriend, you don't talk to him directly, he is scheming. If your boyfriend asks you to buy him something, then you can directly tell him that you haven't paid your salary yet, you don't have any money recently, and there may be no way to buy him something, but I feel that if your boyfriend always asks you to buy him something, then he definitely doesn't love you, because the person who really loves you will not take the initiative to let you buy him something, because he is more embarrassed, and boys are generally more face-saving and will not take the initiative to let his girlfriend buy him something.

    If your boyfriend asks you to buy him something, then you don't really need to be in a relationship with him, because he definitely doesn't love you, he just wants you to buy him something. If he asks you to buy him something and you want to refuse them, then you can also say that you don't have money recently and let him figure it out on his own.

    I showed my boyfriend the shoes, and she said that I would buy them all, and she didn't plan for him to buy them for me.

    Hello, dear, I'm glad to answer for you: I showed my boyfriend the shoes and said that I bought them all and didn't plan to buy them for me, and the answer was: dear, your boyfriend may have no money.

    If your boyfriend asks you to buy something for him, you don't have to think about how to refuse, just refuse directly, what kind of boyfriend is this, why do you have to let you buy him something, boyfriend and girlfriend fall in love, give each other, buy gifts are due, but they are willing to pay for each other, not for each other, this kind of boyfriend, you don't talk to him directly, he is scheming. If your boyfriend asks you to buy him something, then you can directly tell him that you haven't paid your salary yet, you don't have any money recently, and there may be no way to buy him something, but I feel that if your boyfriend always asks you to buy him something, then he definitely doesn't love you, because the person who really loves you will not take the initiative to let you buy him something, because he is more embarrassed, and boys are generally more face-saving and will not take the initiative to let his girlfriend buy him something. If your boyfriend asks you to buy him something, then you don't really need to be in a relationship with him, because he definitely doesn't love you, he just wants you to buy him something.

    If he asks you to buy him something and you want to refuse them, then you can also say that you don't have money recently and let him figure it out on his own.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    1. Ball jersey. Every boy has a favorite player, so buy him a jersey for his birthday, and if you can, it's even better to have it autographed. I believe that this boy will be happy after receiving it.

    2. Mobile phone peripheral gift box. You can choose a peripheral gift box according to your boyfriend's mobile phone, such as wireless chargers, data cable storage, and small interface objects, which are economical and applicable. Never worry about finding the charger again.

    3. Fitness equipment. Boys like to exercise, but sometimes they are too busy at work to go to the gym, so they will give him a fitness machine that he usually uses, such as a tensile machine, counting jump rope, or barbells.

    4. Bluetooth keyboard. Generally, boys like online games, sometimes the keyboard equipped with the computer is not so smooth and transparent, choose one with colorful lights, it is best to feel more comfortable, and the keys are more flexible.

    5. Camera. In fact, boys also like to take pictures, especially when they go out with their girlfriends, the shutter never stops, choose a more beautiful style, the body is lighter and give it to him.

    6. Handbag. Generally, there are more mobile phones, chargers, card wallets, keys and other things when you go out, so boys also want backpacks, which is more convenient, and you can choose a small and simple bag to give to your boyfriend according to his style.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    My boyfriend has a birthday next month and I want to give him a pair of shoes, he says he has shoes and won't let me buy them, won't let me waste money on him?

    Then you can take a look at the belts, wallets, watches, etc.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Your boyfriend has a birthday next month, and he doesn't want you to break the bank, so it's usually not for you to buy anything, because if you want to buy it, you can buy him a shirt or displacement.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    This situation shows that your boyfriend is very good at living, you must cherish your boyfriend is right, your boyfriend will not care about the price of the gift you give him, which can make the love between the two of you sweeter.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Then you just look at what other gifts the other person usually likes, after all, things like shoes still have to be tried with your feet to know how to buy.

  12. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Personally, I think that your boyfriend doesn't have shoes, mainly because he is afraid that you will spend money and is reluctant to spend your money, as long as you have the heart, he will like anything to buy.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Then send something he needs and doesn't have, maybe for him to have you with you is the best gift, you don't have to be entangled, you must want to send a heart.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A boyfriend who shouldn't spend money is a good habit and doesn't give anything Then find a restaurant that is really delicious and inexpensive to celebrate I believe that your boyfriend is willing to celebrate your birthday with you.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well! When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along with for a lifetime.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    On my birthday, I want to be born, he said to write, he said to have. If you don't let me buy it now, you should get one.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Summary. Hello, a boyfriend buys shoes for his girlfriend's friend, this is a normal situation.

    Boyfriend buys shoes for girlfriend's friend.

    Hello, a boyfriend buys shoes for his girlfriend's friend, this is a normal situation.

    This is because boys want to please their girlfriend's friends.

    I hope that my girlfriend's friend can say good things for him and let the girl stay with him all the time.

    It's equivalent to a boy using money to buy off his girlfriend's friend.

    In this way, the girl's friend will say good things for the boy in front of the girl.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    If their family is very rich, spending this money is trivial for him, I think you should support him, people spend this money, not at all, but if he is a poor ghost, but he likes to buy a lot of expensive shoes with a swollen face and fat face, I think you should no longer support him, but should wake him up so that he can see clearly, he is not a rich second generation, he is just an ordinary worker, if you buy shoes like this, he may lose you.

    Why do I say that, because if his family has money, then he can buy shoes for everything, these are all trivial to him, his family supports him to buy these shoes, he can buy whatever he wants, after all, the money to buy shoes is trivial for him.

    But if his family conditions are average, and he is also a salaryman, but he likes to buy very expensive shoes, then what I want to say is that you should tell him well, after all, he likes to spend money on shoes, there is no possibility to save money, there is no possibility to save money, he did not put the marriage on the agenda, he did not think about marrying you, so he will spend so much.

    If he wants to marry you home, he will save money, save all the money, knowing that marriage in this era will cost a lot of money, but he is not willing to save any money, either he gives this pressure to his parents, or he wants to let you go home with him if you don't want anything, or he has never thought of marrying you home, or in his heart, he is still a child, and marriage is too far away for him.

    Such a boy, if you are with him, it is a waste of your time, so it is better to separate early, if you can't persuade him, leave him as soon as possible, and let him go to the fat man with a swollen face by himself.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    If you can afford it, I think you should support it, after all, many boys like to collect shoes.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This hobby is something you can't afford, so you shouldn't support him, we have to live a stable life first, and then consider other factors.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I don't think it's supported, because the shoes are good to wear, and there is no need to spend so much money on them.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    Yes, everyone has their own hobbies, as long as they can afford to pay for their hobbies, then it doesn't matter.

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