My money was borrowed by our colleague

The problem of borrowing money ... If you don't come back, you should be lucky.

First of all, you have to be clear, even the best friends. Don't expect to get your money back. So when someone asks you to borrow money, you have to understand that I ask you for money. With such a mentality, let's consider whether to borrow money or not.

The relationship is very good and it is small money, and if you borrow it, you will borrow it.

The relationship is good to borrow a lot of money, and if he is willing to borrow, let him write an IOU. If you don't want to borrow, don't borrow.

If the relationship is average, it is generally not recommended that you borrow money. If in case it is impressed. The money was given to him. But remember to write an IOU.

According to what you said, there should be no IOU. Although I know that you are in a bad mood like this, it is not recommended that you keep this matter in mind, first, whether the money will be returned. Second, I still need a normal life.

Spend money to buy lessons If it's 1-2w or something, it's a tuition fee, and tell yourself that the home that hasn't been cheated is gone to comfort yourself. Don't make mistakes next time, you're a hero.

Now some people just say that you don't lend money to him, what kind of social indifference, and you ask him to borrow money, and he will do the same to you. This kind of thing doesn't have to be reassured.

By the way, I will give you another trick, for example, A asks B to borrow money, B first cries poor, and then asks A to borrow back if there is an emergency, it is best to have a larger amount, and then lend the amount A wants to borrow together with A when the time comes to repay A's money. Thus aguarantees dumb fire!! Tried and tested!

You go to his house and wait for him to come back.

Say that your family is in a hurry.

Money is needed. You don't stay at your house.

Until certain he said to write an IOU to promise to return.

If you don't borrow much.

I think it's okay, just take it as a lesson.

If there are a lot of them, sue him ...

Dizzy. To deal with such people, it is necessary to know the way of others and to treat their bodies. Hey.

If you are shameless, you will be even more shameless than you.

Hey. An eye for an eye and a tooth for a tooth.

The trick is not to lend money to others indiscriminately when your own conditions are not sufficient.

You look for a day, and you suddenly tell him in a hurry. Your friend is sick. It takes a lot of money. Waiting for help.

He doesn't pay back. Push and push. You just say.

You have so much friendship with you. Can't help once? By the way, I'll lend you money before.

Go give it to me now! Waiting for help! If it's a friend, help.

And you took him by the hand. I had to pretend to be like I was going to die.

I think it should be ok.

You can practice at home beforehand.

But when you get all the money, it's coming. Don't lend it to him again.

Eat a trench and grow wise, don't lend money to this kind of person next time.

There's no need to pretend to be there, either ask for it directly, or forget it, and he won't borrow it in front of you even if he dies in the future!

Just ask him!! Said that there is an emergency at home).

Wait until the time of the salary to ask him for it.

When you encounter a colleague borrowing money from you, you should deal with it according to your actual situation, sometimes the purpose of the other party borrowing money is not urgent, then you can refuse him, if the other party borrows money for a very good reason, you can give your colleague appropriate help according to your own conditions.

How to politely decline a loan from a colleague or friend.

1. When a colleague asks him to borrow imitation money, he can say that he has no money.

If the relationship is not bad, when a colleague asks him to borrow money, he can directly explain the situation to him, and tell him generously that although he also wants to help him, he really has no money. If the relationship between the colleague and himself is really good, he will naturally understand your difficulties, and will not ask you to borrow money again, and at the same time will thank you for your kindness, thank you for thinking about him, although the money was not borrowed afterwards, but the relationship did not decrease but increased.

Second, when a colleague asks him to borrow money, he can return to move out of his family to block it.

If they all say that they have no money, or a colleague who is not persistent to you, it means that they don't treat you as a friend at all, and they won't think about you. At this time, the best way is to prevaricate him, you can tell him that this matter needs to be discussed with his family, and he can't make the decision, tell him that the financial power of the family is not in his hands, and when he comes back to borrow money from you, you can tell him that his family does not agree, and he has no way at all. Although this method is old-fashioned, it can't find any fault with it, and it is still very practical.

Three. When a colleague asks him to borrow money, he or she can help the other person borrow money from someone else.

When a colleague asks him to borrow money, but he doesn't have or doesn't want to lend it to him, if he can't refuse outright, he can also tell him that he will help him find other colleagues to borrow money. The advantage of this method is that although he can't give him financial support, he also shows that he will help him find a way, and as for agreeing to help him borrow money from other colleagues, it depends on his own wishes. It should be noted that even if you will really help him borrow money afterwards, you must not borrow money from colleagues in your own name, but borrow money for him in his name, otherwise you will pay back the money of other colleagues when the time comes.

Summary. If you borrow money from a colleague, this is a private loan and has nothing to do with the company or work. In this case, you need to reach a clear loan agreement with the borrower, including the loan amount, loan term, interest and other aspects.

It is recommended that you write down the loan agreement and have both parties sign it to avoid disputes in the future. At the same time, make sure that the borrower is able to repay the loan on time as much as possible. If the borrower is unable to repay the loan on time, you need to communicate with him in a timely manner to understand the reason and try to negotiate a solution.

If you can't negotiate a solution, you can consider applying to the court for arbitration or taking other legal means to protect your rights and interests. In short, in private lending, you need to pay attention to protecting your own rights and interests, and at the same time, you should try to avoid negative impact on interpersonal relationships.

If you borrow money from a colleague, this is a private loan and has nothing to do with the company or work. In this case, you need to reach a clear loan agreement with the borrower, including the loan amount, loan term, interest and other aspects. It is recommended that you write down the loan agreement and ask both parties to sign it to avoid disputes in the future.

At the same time, make sure that the borrower is able to repay the loan on time as much as possible. If the borrower is unable to repay the loan on time, you need to communicate with him in a timely manner to understand the reason and try to negotiate a solution. If you can't negotiate a solution, you can consider applying to the court for arbitration or taking other legal means to protect your rights and interests.

In short, in private lending, you need to pay attention to protecting your own rights and interests, and at the same time, you should try to avoid negative impact on interpersonal relationships.

There are still 3,000 left to be returned.

She's going to sue me too, what should I do.

Dear, the cost of suing you is definitely greater than 3000, it is recommended that you negotiate with him and show that you are willing to repay.

I said that I can only pay her back 500 a month so far

I already gave her 500 last night.

I don't know what to tell her.

It doesn't make sense.

Dear, if you are in a hurry to resolve the dispute with him, you can borrow money from friends around you to pay it back.

Hello, I often encounter colleagues and friends borrowing money, and I will take different ways to deal with borrowing money according to the specific situation.

In general, I would say no. Because before borrowing money, two people may be scumbags, friendly colleagues, and good friends, but after borrowing money, they may become enemies, and they can't even be friends.

When you encounter someone to borrow money, first of all, don't ask others directly how much to borrow, if you ask the amount first, then the next topic focus, or fall on yourself, if the other party how much the amount, it depends on whether you borrow or not, if you ask him to borrow money, this question will fall on the other party's head, the other party should give reasons, with appropriate statements, to explain their reasons.

At this time, it can help him analyze the problem, whether he needs to borrow money? You can also find out the real purpose of your friend's borrowing money and find a reason for refusal.

If it is really difficult to refuse directly, you can also use the excuse that you don't have so much money for the time being, and lend him a little less, which will also reduce the trouble and annoyance that may be caused by repaying the money in the future.

If a colleague or friend needs to borrow money in a special situation, I will try my best to help him get through the difficulties and lend him money for turnover, but the amount of borrowed money cannot exceed the scope of my own bearing, and I can't bring difficulties to my life because of borrowing money.

If you have a family wife and children, you should also discuss with friends when they borrow money, so as to avoid conflicts and family disputes due to colleagues and friends borrowing money.

I may lend him money, but only if the amount is not very large, within the range that I can accept, and the most important thing is that we have a good relationship, otherwise I will not borrow money easily.

1. Don't talk about leadership.

Don't talk about the leader behind your back, and don't talk about your colleagues in front of the leader. Don't point out this bad or bad with your colleagues behind your back, even if your colleagues scold the leader for how bad, don't easily show your attitude, you know, one day, what you say will reach the ears of the leader.

2. Treat your vanity correctly.

Vanity is something that everyone has, but to treat vanity correctly, if used properly, it is a propeller that will help you improve by leaps and bounds, and if used incorrectly, it is a fire extinguisher, which will extinguish your enthusiasm or dilute your enthusiasm at work. Some leaders don't necessarily recognize the achievements of their subordinates in person, but they will recognize your work when communicating with others in private. Doing a good job is actually your duty, and it can also show your ability, and people with a discerning eye can understand it without saying it, and sometimes you don't need the leader to pierce that layer of paper for you.

3. Communicate with the boss in a timely manner.

There will always be some problems at work or there will always be some misunderstandings in daily life, and only effective communication can solve the problems and eliminate them. Good communication can shorten the distance between you and your boss, and you can get along more happily.

4. Keep your promises.

If you don't deliver on a promise, he will doubt whether you can keep your promises. If you are really difficult to do at work, tell him about it as soon as possible. Although he will be temporarily unhappy, it is much better than the dissatisfaction that comes with the final disappointment.

5. Respect colleagues.

There is a good saying, respect is mutual, for example, colleagues have problems do not know how to ask you, please don't feel that you are superior, ignore others, and even deliberately embarrass them, we are all colleagues, is a partner who struggles together, respect is a must, but also the primary condition for getting along, so both sides need to understand each other and work hard together!

1. Lend him and help others for pleasureThere are still many good people in this world, not to mention that it is still an era when the credit system is slowly established, and more and more people have to pay attention to their own credit. In addition, people are kind, no one can survive without a relationship, if you want to live a good life, solidarity and mutual assistance is a way, you help others when they are in difficulty, and others also help when you are in trouble. I used to borrow money from my colleagues, and they lent it to me very happily, which was convenient for me, but also showed the friendship of help, and made me feel the warmth of mutual care between colleagues.

The relationship between people is inherently mutual, you respect him a foot, and he pays you back! The grace of a drop of water should be reciprocated by a spring. But there is a premise for this borrowing, and the person you borrow money from must be honest.

2. Don't borrow, don't want to do thankless thingsNow many people are reluctant to lend money to others, because it is the master who owes the debt, and it is the grandson who asks for the money. You kindly lent him money to help him get through the trouble, but he didn't know that he borrowed it but didn't pay it back. I've experienced this firsthand, and I'm still experiencing it.

Because a colleague helped me, when another colleague borrowed a credit card from me to cash out, I didn't hesitate to lend it to him, but I didn't expect this behavior to get me into endless trouble. After swiping my credit card, not only did he not pay it back, but he also planned to cash out for a long time, and 90% of his monthly repayment was delayed until the last minute of the repayment period. I was afraid that his behavior would affect my credit, and every month it was like a menstrual affair, urging him to return the card, and he came down many times, and he was annoyed, and directly said that he had no ruler to destroy the rest of the noise and money!

I was forced to be helpless, afraid of affecting my credit report, so I repaid the money and asked him to give me an IOU.

3.If you are not financially well-off, I advise you not to lend money to any colleagues or friends, otherwise there is no money and no friends. After all, no one's money is blown by the wind, and if you don't pay it back, you will only suffer!

Because you didn't borrow money, you used to be colleagues, but after borrowing money, you are enemies, which is really a thankless thing that is both hard and money.