I feel like I m selfish, I feel like I m being selfish

With your consent, it's right to borrow your things, it's normal, but there must be a deadline for borrowing things, for example, when you lend something, you can ask, when will you change it?!(Jokingly, no one cares) He said a deadlineThen I will ask for it again by the deadline.

If you wait, you can waitIf he doesn't pay it back, then he will definitely not be able to borrow him again next time, it is his character problem. .

It also has to do with the value of the things you lend, if it's a lot of money, you have to get it back, if it's something else that's not too valuable, if you don't pay it back, it's a tuition fee, and it's cost-effective to recognize a person with a little tuition.

Me too. I also have things I don't want to borrow, I was borrowed, and I haven't returned them for a long time, so that I have borrowed my friend's things now, and I haven't returned them for more than a year, I'm afraid that she may forget it, or she can't find it and lose it, which is the most annoying. Something borrowed by others should be taken care of, hey, lazy to say sad.

It's still that friend, the borrowed thing, either this one is dropped, or that one is broken. At the end of the day, I threw that thing away. Look so that your heart does not ache.

It depends on whether the things lent to others are worth anything, and if they are not worth it, they don't want it.

The normal state of mind of man. You don't have to strive for perfection.

Who isn't? It's normal!

Summary. Dear, glad to answer for you. Everyone is selfish, this is normal, you don't have to blame yourself for it, you just need to reflect on it before doing things, whether you are doing it so well, if it is not good, try to correct yourself.

Dear, Xianshan Li is happy to solve the late answer for you. Everyone is selfish, this is a normal phenomenon, you don't have to blame yourself for this, you just need to reflect on yourself before doing things, whether you are so good or not, if not, try to correct yourself.

I think I'm very self-centered, but I can't change it, I can't control myself, I feel like I'm weak in the face of my family, but I want to be considerate, I want to care, but I can't do it, I don't care about others, but I always want the other party to care about me, I always only care about my own feelings, I always want others to accompany me, regardless of the other party's inconvenience, I'm annoying, I don't want to stop like this, but I can't control myself.

Dear, realizing this is actually half the battle, the rest is to resolutely go down to Jingliang determined to correct, just take your time at the beginning, think about it before speaking and doing things, try to think about others, don't mind if you suffer a little loss, and then just correct your bad temper, tell yourself in trouble, it's not a big deal, it's not a big deal, it's not to win the day and sell the wide land, don't take everything seriously, slowly you will change a lot!

The most terrible thing is that you are selfish and you don't find out.

I've always been aware, but I can't control it, I can't control it, I can't control it, I can't control it.

Dear, this needs to change slowly. It can't be changed all at once. Don't be discouraged.