When it comes to society, do you do what you do to others, and others do to you????

You're so naïve. First of all, there is nothing wrong with the phrase "what you do to others, others will do to you," but no matter what happens, when it comes to real interests, everyone will only fight for interests, it's as simple as that.

Kindness is the essence, don't just throw it away! You need to express your own thoughts and opinions in the discussion of some things, and others do not look down on you because of your kindness, but because of your cowardice and lack of opinion. Give yourself more confidence, even if you do bad things with good intentions, you can win the eyes of others.

It depends on who it is, of course, to make friends, to make friends, to find some morally noble, then this sentence is right, you can learn from each other, you can be each other's mirrors, but if you are unfortunate enough to make a bad friend, then I have to advise you to turn back as soon as possible!!

It is also possible that you are not good to others, and others are good to you, which is called 'treating evil with good', but if you meet a cautious person, you will treat him badly, and it will only add fuel to the fire and be bad for yourself! That's it.

It can only be said that this is an ideal state, and the reality is too cruel. Harmless heart, but must not be defenseless, not everyone you meet is so kind, lucky as this, bad luck to find their own anger.

Hehe, everyone wants to think like this, but people can't help themselves in society!

Keep an eye on it, people are very bad now, don't trust others.

**None of these may apply.

The saying "what you do to others, others will do to you" is often referred to as the "mirror rule", which means that your actions and attitudes affect the behaviors and attitudes of others, and the attitudes of others towards you also affect your attitudes towards others. Therefore, if you smile at someone else, they may smile back at you; If you are angry with others, they may also be angry with you.

From an interpersonal point of view, there is some truth to this rule. Interaction between people is a process of mutual influence, your actions and attitudes will trigger reactions from others, and the behaviors and attitudes of others will also affect your emotions and behaviors. If you want to be respected and cared for by others, you need to respect and care for others first; If you want others to understand and support you, you need to understand and support others first.

However, this law is not absolute. Different people have different personalities and experiences and will react differently to the same behavior. For example, some people may feel offended by the same sentence, while others may feel comforted and encouraged.

Therefore, this law cannot be simply applied to the behavior of others, but should be understood in combination with the specific situation and the personality of the other person.

In short, the saying "what you do to others, others will do to you" has some truth in interpersonal communication, but it needs to be noted that it is not absolute, and needs to be understood and applied in combination with specific situations.

What you do to others, others will do to you, this sentence is very reasonable, because if you are very sincere to others and cherish each other, the other party will also cherish you, but if you snub the other party, the other party feels your indifference, and naturally will not respond to you with enthusiasm.

It's a bit wrong, like I often quarrel with my parents, and they also dislike my little temper in various ways, but they still love me, love me much more than I love them, so this statement should only apply to strangers!

If you are cold to people, they will be indifferent in return; If you criticize others a lot, you will also receive a lot of criticism;

If you always put on a stinky face, yes, no one else will give you a good face. All that you give, will come back to you.

As long as you continue to be good, you will win, to paraphrase the psalmist: "Whoever is deceived by malice will be rewarded by doing evil." ”

What you do to others is what you do to yourself, so what you want to get, you must first let others get, if you want to make true friends, you must first be sincere to your friends, if you want to be happy, then bring happiness to others, the best thing we can do for ourselves is to do more good things for others.

Many times, when we help others, it doesn't mean that we will lose. And it is because you help other people that you get friendship and friends.

I think that to help others is to give yourself a path, to give yourself a chance, that is, to give others a chance.

Life should be less selfish and more caring for others, then our world will be full of sunshine and wonderful.

What we need to do is:

1. Be grateful to the people who give you the opportunity;

2. Be grateful to those who give you wisdom;

3. Be grateful to the people who have accompanied you along the way.

The original team leader of our office is a very capable sister who has a flexible head, a capable work, and a clear distinction between love and hate. I used to admire her very much, and I also admired her very much. Because my personality is much softer than hers.

She once told me about a few people in our office, some of them were selfish, some of them were self-willing, some of them were self-serving, and some of them were campy. She looked down on them very much, because they had some verbal or minor conflicts with her. Later, my sister had a better development, so she transferred to the south.

I became the new team leader, and I was worried that my not strong enough personality would not be able to manage the people in the office, and Brother Hengkong was afraid that the whole group would become a mess under my leadership. That's why I treat everyone with sincerity. When I encounter good things, I will take the initiative to back down, I will share good resources with you for free, and I will sincerely help anyone who encounters difficulties, and I usually try to think from the other party's point of view.

Gradually, I found that everyone was also very sincere to me, when they saw that I had something, everyone would take the initiative to help, they had good things, and they would also take out and share them selflessly.

Therefore, I think that when you think that others are not good, you will not treat them sincerely, and you will naturally feel it when you are wrong, and you will also guard against you in your heart, so the relationship will get worse and worse. Therefore, we might as well think about the good of others, think more about the advantages, pay less attention to the shortcomings, and open our hearts, most of the time, we can reap unexpected surprises.