Why don t you go home for the New Year, why don t you go home for the New Year

The reasons why many people do not go home for the New Year, my opinion is as follows:

1. Visiting relatives and friends is time-consuming and tiring, the New Year is not easy to go home, everyone is the most Qi at this time, of course, it has become the best time to visit relatives and friends, the first year of junior high school in their own village neighbors' house for a hundred years, the second uncle and grandmother's house, the third year of junior high school until the end of your holiday has been the New Year's greetings of seven aunts and eight aunts, if there are many relatives at home, you have to go to at least three relatives a day, otherwise you can't finish before the end of the holiday, if you can't arrange the time, it will attract gossip, It was supposed to be a good Spring Festival to go home to rest, but it was arranged clearly and properly, and there was no time for me at all, so not going home became the best choice.

2. I can't stand the comparison of others, and there is no harm if there is no comparison. When I go back to my hometown for the New Year, there are always some curious seven aunts and eight aunts who ask questions, knowing that you don't earn much money, and you don't have enough scenery outside, and you suddenly have a sense of superiority, showing off how much money your children have given you, how many clothes you have bought, how many high-end health care products you have bought, how to honor yourself, and so on. A good young man, happily went home for a reunion, but was ruined by these messy things, alienated from the feelings between relatives, and felt congested when I thought about it.

Therefore, some people would rather work overtime outside to earn money during the Chinese New Year than go home.

3. There is a difference in urban and rural life, and it is easy to say that people who are urban at home have similar working conditions when they go home and work outside, but it is cold and inconvenient for rural people. It is too cold to build a stove without a stove, and it is too dusty to make a stove; To go to the toilet in the middle of the night, Wang Han had to go outside against the north wind; Or the kind of person who digs a small pit and squats without a light and plays a flashlight, especially if the hometown is in a remote rural area, there is no free Wi-Fi, you can't play with your mobile phone, you can't get on the Internet, you have lost contact with the outside world, you are bored and anxious, some young people are used to living in big cities, and some people have more friends and colleagues outside, and they like young people to spend the New Year together. There are more topics and hobbies in Qinglingqi, and the customs and ways of celebrating the New Year at home can no longer be adapted.

Just send some money back and don't go home for the New Year.

I am a parent, and I can also understand the difficulties of your children, it is not easy to work outside the home, the time is tight, the distance is long, and you have to face a certain amount of financial pressure, it is really not easy to go home.

But then again, you also think about your parents, the Chinese New Year is our traditional folk festival, every family wants to be reunited, separated for a year, parents also want to see their children, you don't go home, it will greatly snub the long-awaited heart of your parents.

The point to be made here is about money, most people say that they have no money in their hands, and even have debts on their backs and have no face to go home. In fact, you don't know the hearts of your parents, most parents don't want their children to go home for the New Year, they know that you can't earn much money, as long as people go home, even if the child looks like a beggar, the parents will not dislike it!

I also have children and daughters, and I also work outside, but they all work at home, and it doesn't involve the problem of long distances, if they are in a distant place, because they can't afford to go home for the New Year, I will send them money to let them go home for reunion.

Today's children lack communication with their parents, and the pressure in their hearts is not told to their parents, and they hide it in their hearts and bear it silently, which is a rather unhealthy heart. Remember, children, the pressure is not borne by you alone, but also by your parents, your family, who will support your future life with a heart of love, not on your own.

Today's children, whether they get married or buy a house, there are a few of these major events in life that can be completed alone without the help of their parents, and most of them have to be realized with the help of their parents. What does this mean? It shows that parents love you, and they prove their love for their children with practical actions!

You have strong self-esteem, love face, and only hope that you can return to your hometown in style, the starting point is good, but these are too far-fetched reasons not to go home for the New Year, and you can't appease your parents. I hope you will act according to the idea of having money and not having money to go home for the New Year, and don't break the hearts of your parents.

If you have money to pay for the journey, you have to go home for the New Year!

If you don't have money to pay for the journey, you have to go home for the New Year with your parents!

This is the common wish of all parents!

The experience of not being able to go home during the Chinese New Year is like this, do you feel the same way?

1.Very lonely. Some people may not be able to go home because of work and may feel very lonely.

2.Very happy. Some people just don't want to go home for the New Year, for fear that they will be taken on a blind date by their parents. On the contrary, a person's life is very happy.

4.Homesick. Some people can't go back for the Chinese New Year, and they will be very homesick.

5. I want to cry. There is no way to go back during the Chinese New Year, and many people will be sad and cry.

6.Feel ashamed. Some people want to go home because they don't make money and feel ashamed.

7.Envy. Some people can't go home, and they are especially envious of those who can.

8. It's very calm, it doesn't matter. Some people think that there is no difference between the New Year and the New Year. For example, Xiamen people generally only celebrate the Mid-Autumn Festival, so it doesn't matter to them.

9.Despair. Some people haven't come back for the New Year for a long time. If they don't come back for a long time, they will feel hopeless.

10.Hey. Maybe I can't spend the New Year at home and I can't go back to spend time with my children, but I will also look forward to spending time at home with my children.

Some people can't go home during the Chinese New Year in order to prepare for the doctoral exam, write **, etc., although the doctoral is an application system, and an English test is also needed, and some young people have prepared in advance in order to prepare for passing the exam. Without a lot of memory, you won't be able to pass the exam at all.

Like these people who are busy with work and study, there is no such thing as the New Year, because every day is exactly the same, work cannot be stopped at all, and learning cannot be stopped. Work and study are like eating, and they can't be separated from each other for a day.

Unable to go back for the New Year, some people are immersed in disappointment, and some people are immersed in the joy of work and study.

All kinds of flavors can only be tasted by yourself.

Chinese New Year is one of our most solemn and longest-standing festivals. Chinese New Year means reunion and joy. Only during the Chinese New Year, the wanderers who went out went home, and relatives and friends gathered together to eat and drink, which was quite happy.

But there are always some people who don't want to go home during the Chinese New Year, or can't go back. Whatever the reason, it's a pity. After all, wandering outside, but not going home for the Chinese New Year, the feeling in my heart must be uncomfortable.

The reason for wanting to go back to Changchang is the same, that is, I miss my home and my parents. The reasons for not going home are different. Either way, it makes people feel both sad and helpless.

This rapid upheaval has led to an imbalance between urban and rural populations on weekdays, and when the Chinese New Year arrives, people who study or earn a living in big cities flock back to their hometowns, resulting in a situation where it is difficult to find a ticket. I want to go home but can't go back, which is really a very sad thing. The hardest thing in the world to buy is a ticket home for the New Year.

Fear of being urged to marry. As soon as you go home, the seven aunts and eight aunts will see you alone, and they will hula and surround you. They care most about your life's work.

Even if you say you don't want to fall in love yet, they won't pay attention to your thoughts, for fear that you will be left. When I thought of them forcing myself to go on a blind date, I trembled, and I simply didn't go back, so I wanted to be clean.

It's right that you care about the lifelong events of the younger generations, but please don't be too enthusiastic, don't let the younger generations be afraid of you, so scared that they don't dare to go home for the New Year.

In fact, fate is coming, and it can't be stopped. There is always the right person waiting for him in this world.

Work required. At any given time, there are always positions that need to be manned. For example, doctors, police, drivers, ......Everyone else is on their way home.

They went and had to stick to their posts. We should be grateful to these frontline workers who continue to serve the people during the festival. With them, we can have a good year in peace and happiness.

It's inconvenient to go home.

There are many people who work hard outside for many years, get married, have children, and have their own small families. So I didn't go back to my hometown, and I wanted to guard my small home for the New Year.

There are also those who have lived in other places for many years and returned home without adapting to the water and soil, resulting in physical discomfort. It was originally a festive day, but he was uncomfortable, so it was better not to go back than to go back to suffer.

The main reason for not going home during the New Year is to see what the reason is, because some people are too busy with work and can't go home, and some people want to get a little more money during the New Year, so they don't go home for the New Year.

For us, the Spring Festival is the biggest of all festivals, so under normal circumstances, we should go home for reunion. Whether you are a student or a social worker, the time to go home is only a handful, there are so few festivals, and the vacation time is so short, so many people will choose to go home during the Spring Festival. But for those who don't go home for the Spring Festival, I think there are several reasons:

1.It's not easy to buy a ticket to go home during the Spring Festival. As we all know, the Spring Festival is equivalent to a great migration, and it is not easy to imagine how difficult it is to buy a ticket.

I remember a few years ago when I had to buy a train ticket back to my hometown, I had to go to the train station to buy it, and my dad had to queue at the train station almost all night, otherwise he wouldn't have been able to buy a ticket. Now we buy tickets for the Spring Festival, although it is said that you can buy tickets online, but there are many people holding their mobile phones to grab tickets in a second, which is also very difficult, but like last year, Ctrip in addition to the function of grabbing tickets, although it has been improved for mobile phone users, but for people who do not use mobile phones for a long time, it is simply a disaster, and they can't go home at all, so I think this is a reason.

2.There are too many red envelopes to pay. For the current post-90s, I think the reason why they are reluctant to go home may be that there are too many children at home, and there are too many red envelopes to give, after all, it is not the kind of person who can get rid of it if you give five, ten, or twenty yuan, and now you give fewer red envelopes, and relatives will say that you are too stingy, and the impact on yourself is not good.

3.There's nothing to do when you go back. Like more backward cities, young people have gone out to work, and those who stay in ** are generally elderly people, and young people have nothing to play when they go back, after all, those who are the same age as themselves have not gone back, and there is a generation gap with older people, so I feel that there is nothing to play when I go back, so I don't want to go home.

4.Wages are high during the Spring Festival. For those factories, there is rarely a time to stop work 365 days a year, so they have captured the psychology of young people, and it is also a national regulation, which sets a high salary during the Spring Festival, so young people do not go home for high wages, after all, some places can take annual leave, so that they can go back at ordinary times.

5.I don't want to face marriage urging and blind dates. Some people who have reached marriageable age feel that they are young, so they devote themselves to their careers and are unwilling to get married and have children, so parents will take advantage of the time to go home during the Spring Festival and quickly arrange blind dates for their children, which will make so young people reluctant to go home.

The above are the reasons why I don't go home during the Spring Festival, which varies from person to person, but I still advocate more people to go home to accompany their parents, after all, people's lives are so short, and the time to go home is getting less and less.

This year, there is too much work in the factory, and there are orders to catch up, so there is no holiday for the New Year, and people have to work overtime, so they can't go home for the New Year.

I didn't find my own love.

I didn't find a target this year, and I didn't have the face to face my family and relatives and friends when I went back, and I felt that it was not interesting to go home for the New Year, so I simply didn't go home for the New Year, and I went home when I found the object.

Didn't make any money.

Everyone wants to go home for the New Year, but this year's benefits are not good, not only did the salary not rise, but also declined, did not earn money, and it was not comfortable to go home, so they chose not to go home for the New Year. Bad relationship with family.

Maybe some people have too stiff relationships with their families, and they don't have a very good relationship with their families and people in the village, so they don't bother to go back for the New Year, and stay in the city for the New Year, and no one will disturb them.

Go on vacation. Every year I go home for the New Year, I don't feel much fun anymore, because of the lack of New Year's flavor, so I still choose to go on vacation. For business.

Some friends are doing business in other places, 365 days a year, every day, and the business may be better during the New Year, so they will not go home for the New Year, continue to run their own business and work hard.

Everyone wants to achieve a career, so if there is no successful career, many people will not go home, and they must do something to return home.