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1. If you want to blame, blame yourself, you have the ability to like others, and you don't have the ability to make people like you. - Yang Jiang.
2. No matter what you do, always think from the perspective of others, which can be called a kind of wisdom and a kind of charm. For women, this wisdom is more likely to be appreciated. A wise woman is neither shallow nor complicated, she has a peculiar aura about her that makes people feel warm.
- Yang Jiang. 3. What the years give to women is not only the wind and dust, but also the rich experience and mature wisdom. What women gain is from unrestrained dreams to quiet hearts, from endless enthusiasm to calm and calm feelings, from barren hearts to abundant souls. The years have allowed women to understand love, life, and their hearts.
- Yang Jiang. 4. A wise woman walking in the world, you might as well think more about the purest love in your childhood, so that you can keep a calm and calm heart. No one's thoughts can change you, nor can they discourage you. This is the benefit of having no quarrel with the world, and it is also the highest state of joining the WTO.
- Yang Jiang. 5. As a woman, you can not be beautiful, you can no longer be young, but you must have a gentleness like water. Because gentleness can make you glamorous, gentleness can make you have a successful career, and more importantly, gentleness can make you enjoy all the happiness in life and become the goddess of your lover's life. - Yang Jiang.
6. For women, gentleness is a kind of wisdom, a realm, a unique temperament of women, and the embodiment of women's tenderness. Feminine tenderness is a beautiful sculpture, and it is made of self-confidence.
humor, tolerance, and richness are carved little by little; The gentleness of women is like a crystal clear gem, shining with dazzling light, and this brilliant light illuminates the world. - Yang Jiang.
7. The reason why some people continue to grow is definitely because they have the strength to persevere. Good reader, willing to work hard, not only read, but also take notes. If people want to grow, there must be a reason, and the efforts and accumulation behind it must be several times that of ordinary people.
So, the key is also yourself. - Yang Jiang.
8. People who are willing to pay for their studies can take many detours in life. As a woman, it's all up to you to decide what kind of person you live in the end. - Yang Jiang.
9. Be an elegant woman, have a happy life, be full of a rich life, cherish and enjoy the indifferent lightness, and calmly cross the layers of thorns.
Stained with the fragrance of happiness. - Yang Jiang.
10. Optimistic people are worth learning from many people, who said that when difficulties come, we can only resist angrily? Keeping silent and rational is a kind of wisdom that is soft on the outside and strong on the inside, and a strong woman must know how to face difficulties gently, which is not the most powerful force? Gentle strength can allow you to maintain a calm and calm posture in the face of difficulties, and walk unhurriedly on the life journey of a one-way street.
- Yang Jiang.
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1.Once complaining becomes a vice, life will be dark.
2.When the most important thing for a person is face, then he must have lost a lot for it.
3.Life is a long journey, don't waste time waiting for those who don't want to walk hand in hand with you.
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You don't have to pretend to be doing well, not many people really care if you're good or not. Most of the people who live well in this world are ordinary people who should eat, drink, dress up, read and read, pursue certain basic materials, and then spend money to make themselves mentally happy.
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1. Husband and wife should be lifelong friends, and the most important thing between husband and wife is the relationship between friends, even if they are not intimate friends, they should be friends who can be partners, or partners who respect each other.
Husband and wife are not only intimate husband and wife, but also can become good friends, respect each other, talk to each other, and communicate with each other's souls.
This kind of marriage relationship will last for a long time, and the marriage that cannot become a friend cannot touch the part of the other party's heart.
Mr. Yang Jiang's short sentence reveals the way for husband and wife to get along: couples who can become friends can last longer, and if they can't become close friends, they must at least be able to respect each other.
2. Take the road you choose, don't choose the road you choose, you can have your true self.
Every road in life must follow your own heart, don't think about taking that road because it is easy, and don't take a shortcut in life because you are in a hurry, because the price you pay will be greater.
As a woman, you must follow the path you choose, listen to your own voice more, don't let others affect your life choices, and don't lose your life choices because of material things.
You can be who you really are because you only listen to your inner voice.
3. Your problem is that you don't read much and think too much.
Many people have imagined 100 ways to fail before they have even started, 200 obstacles have been set up for themselves before they have started, and they have even imagined 300 words for themselves that others mock for their failures.
When a person thinks too much, thinks too much, when his inner spirit and knowledge cannot keep up with his own thinking, he will set up a lot of obstacles for himself.
In fact, there are not so many unsolved problems in life. Every problem you encounter, you can find the answer from the book, and find 10,000 solutions.
4. I am alone, and I miss the two of us.
That year, Mr. Yang Jiang and Qian Zhongshu's daughter left, and another year, Mr. Qian Zhongshu also left this world.
Before leaving, Mr. Qian was not at ease, and told Mr. Yang Jiang that he must live well.
Mr. Yang Jiang chose to live well, not only published two books, but also sorted out the unpublished anthologies of Qian Zhongshu during his lifetime.
That year, Mr. Yang Jiang was alone, nostalgic for the joy of the previous family of three.
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Yang Jiang's famous quotes are as follows:
1. After a person has undergone different degrees of exercise, he will obtain different degrees of cultivation and different degrees of benefits. - Yang Jiang.
2. After a few years, I gradually understood: it is the shame of a lucky person for an unfortunate person. —Yang Jiang, "Lao Wang".
3. In the great era, the individual is like a flat boat, only going with the flow, occasional sarcasm and sympathy, but people can only calmly walk to the grave step by step. Fate here is not a tragedy, but a great irony. —Yang Jiang, "Six Records of Cadre School".
4. I'm just a drop of water, not soapy water, and I can't blow bubbles. - Yang Jiang.
5. The noble soul of life is the highest state of life.
6. After a person has exercised to different degrees, he will obtain different degrees of cultivation and different degrees of benefits. It's like spices, the more crushed they are, the finer they are ground, and the stronger their fragrance becomes.
7. Laziness is also innate, diligence requires one's own efforts, and you will be lazy when you relax.
8. Everyone has a spiritual conscience. Constantly restraining oneself with one's spiritual conscience is self-cultivation.
9. After all, people are flesh and blood, with some shortcomings, it is more humane.
10. When an ugly person looks in the mirror, he can't see how ugly he is, and he only sees the beauty that others can't see.
11. I think fate is the most unreasonable.
12. The fate we see is unreasonable, we are used to joking, we are used to playing tricks on people, and we are used to making trouble.
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