When people reach middle age, what are the characteristics of couples who really continue to be in

Being able to give each other private space, and two people who have problems can discuss together and understand each other, so that the marriage is happy.

Convey positive emotions The power of a smile is really very powerful, if you don't believe it, you can go and see the family of actor Chen Xiaochun, his wife Ying Cai is smiling all the time as a child, and the smile is very sweet, even Chen Xiaochun talked about the impression when he first saw her, he said, I have never seen a girl who likes to laugh so much.

Many couples seem to be unable to escape the seven-year or ten-year itch, and their marriages will definitely crack after a few years or more than ten years of marriage. The two of them either quarreled every day, or they slept in separate rooms with cold wars. There are even couples who break up directly without any involvement.

But there are exceptions, after the husband and wife get married, the sweeter it gets, and the people are still in love after middle age, just like when they first fell in love and got married. Although such cases are rare, there are such couples. So, why do many couples still love each other when they reach middle age?

I think there are several reasons why these couples are still very affectionate in middle age.

Many couples are still very affectionate in middle age, and one of the main reasons is that they are very affectionate when they are young. It's just that at that time, their affection felt normal to others, and only after a few years or even more than ten years of time, others would feel special and curious when they saw that they were still loving. Because they really love each other unreservedly, they have always been very affectionate.

It is precisely because they are full of infinite love and concern for each other that their attachment to each other has become deeper over time. Because they know that human life is limited, they cherish their middle age, and together they join hands to resist the coming old age.

There is another reason why this kind of couple who are still very affectionate in middle age is an important reason why they are affectionate. It is that they share the same ideals and goals in life. Their love for each other has surpassed the love of ordinary people, they are more like a pair of teammates who work together to achieve their ideals, and they rely on them to achieve their ideals in life.

Because the two of them know how to maintain their relationship, and the two of them attach great importance to this relationship, so it can be maintained very well.

It's because they can always understand each other in the process of getting along, and it's also because there is a lot more novelty in marriage, and they still have the same attitude after middle age.

Because the relationship between two people is very good, two people have always loved each other very much, can understand each other, can tolerate each other, so they are still very affectionate.

They shape the common need to love and be loved; They satisfy the other person's need to be trusted and secured; They also build an emotional need for belonging and self-actualization.

The relationship between this kind of husband and wife is very good, and this kind of husband and wife are very respectful of each other when they get along, and the two people will also care about each other very much, although many years have passed, but they still love each other.

It's because they don't play machismo and femininity in ordinary times, and they don't add their opinions to each other, so they can maintain such affection.

Know how to keep love fresh. They have topics to talk about, and they generally share common interests and hobbies, and they like to share them with each other.

Because they are very interested in life, they will not live their lives like boiled water, they will have a more poetic way of living.

Many middle-aged couples are still in a good relationship, how do they do it? So let's share some of the experiences!

First, the relationship between middle-aged couples is still very good, because they maintain their original intentions, communicate and exchange together, do things with discussion, and love each other more under the accumulation of time.

When you reach middle age, even when you have gray hair, being by your side, still being the person you like when you are young is really a very happy and enviable thing, many people are middle-aged, and the relationship between husband and wife is still very good. In fact, it is very simple, because they have always maintained their original intentions, maintained the same heart of love for each other, and are loyal to their feelings, they will also encounter a lot of contradictions in life, but they will communicate and solve things together. Perform their duties, together to manage life and marriage very well, although time has passed, there are traces of time on the face, but their love is getting deeper and deeper under the accumulation of years, and the two people love each other more.

Second, the relationship between husband and wife is very good, because both people trust each other, give each other personal space, and actively work hard to face life.

The good or bad of a marriage is based on whether two people run the marriage on the basis of trust. If two people are guarding against each other's mutual suspicion in their lives and have no trust at all, then, I don't think it is very likely to stick to this marriage, and in a marriage of distrust, two people live very painfully. In middle age, the relationship between husband and wife is still very good, because the two of them trust each other very much, believe in each other, give each other a certain amount of personal space, and do not interfere too much in each other's decisions, they will only support each other, cheer each other, and face everything in life positively together.

Marriage and feelings need to be managed, as long as we work hard and manage seriously, we will reach gray hair, and even when we reach middle age, the relationship between husband and wife will definitely be as glued as when we are in love.

Tolerance is needed in marriage.

With tolerance in marriage, two people can better compose a hymn, everyone will have their own shortcomings, if you always blindly blame him, then he may not dare to approach you because of this, and your relationship will also be affected. If the other person can tolerate you, why can't you tolerate him? Learn to take the initiative in marriage and don't find faults.

Since you choose to be with him, you also know these problems in him, so try to avoid them, learn to tolerate, and learn to manage love.

02It is important to learn to communicate properly.

They really love each other when they are young, they really regard each other as their lifelong partners, and after they get married, they can tolerate each other, help each other, and run the family well.

Both of them will work hard to manage the relationship. The two have been married for a long time now, but they will still create some surprises for each other, and the two will communicate effectively, so the relationship between these middle-aged couples is still very good.

Because they have been helping each other and tolerating each other in the years they have been married, it is also because the relationship between the two people has always been very good and they have never given up on each other.

Behind all good things there are twists and turns, so we have to have good intentions to face complex people and things.

Although many people say that people are not allowed to reach middle age, there will be helplessness and a happy marriage at the same time. For some loving couples, they will not show their affection directly on their faces, and often let their affection be directly displayed through some details. In the face of these details, many people feel a little shy, but there is also a breath of falling in love.

In the face of such a situation, maybe you like it very much, and of course we will work hard to change this state.

The following is a brief introduction to the obvious characteristics of middle-aged couples' affection:

1. Have a husband and wife appearance

Speaking of husband and wife, in fact, many people don't believe it, but as time goes by, slowly husband and wife appear. There may not be any scientific basis for husband and wife, but we do know that husband and wife do exist. After all, husband and wife get along for a long time, and their daily routines and eating habits are the same, and slowly we find that husband and wife are born in this way.

Of course, there is a good saying, it's not like a family doesn't enter the door, in fact, that's what it says.

2. Middle-aged couples will share housework together

When it comes to sharing housework together, it seems that some families are not like this, but the fact that everyone needs to continue to explore. As a simple example, when I was not feeling well, my husband was doing the housework all the time, but the food he cooked was really not delicious. One day, when there was a guest at home, my husband was in charge of picking vegetables, and I was in charge of cooking.

Although the body is not very comfortable, after my husband picks and cleans up the vegetables, he cleans the dishes, and then I am in charge of stir-frying, so I think this is the life of a middle-aged couple.

3. There is no overnight feud between husband and wife

As the saying goes: the head of the bed fights and the end of the bed closes. But as a young couple, if two people quarrel, maybe the man will run to his mother's side, and of course some women will run to her mother's house.

In fact, with the passage of time, middle-aged couples may be getting older, of course, they are more familiar with each other's personalities, generally after the quarrel, it seems that everything has passed, and they may become more affectionate, which is actually that the husband and wife do not have an overnight feud.

In fact, there are many details of the love of middle-aged couples, but the situation of each family is different. And we are envious in the face of such a family, and of course there is the baptism of time, but we firmly believe that such a life is very happy. If you also want such a happy life, it is recommended that you first think about how to manage your marriage, after all, marriage needs to be well managed to become more and more happy.

The biggest characteristic of the affection of middle-aged couples is that they respect each other as guests, they have experienced a lot of things, understand each other's personalities, know how to humble each other's shortcomings, usually share housework together, and can control their temper even if they quarrel.

The most obvious feature is that "husband and wife follow", they know how to respect each other, and do not tear each other down in front of outsiders; The second is to be considerate of each other, consider each other in every word and deed, and try not to let the lover be wronged.

Two people care about each other, understand each other, often do some heart-warming little things for each other, prepare some gifts for each other during festivals, and occasionally create some small romances, two people are good partners in life.

Yes, it has nothing to do with age.

1. No matter how fierce the quarrel is, it will be reconciled quickly.

Middle-aged people tend to be less likely to quarrel. Middle-aged imitators will maintain the necessary restraint in the face of love. In other words, middle-aged people tend to look at problems more objectively and comprehensively, he will have a sense of the overall situation, and he will not be short-sighted.

When a middle-aged person is really in love with you, he will be extra tolerant and tolerant of you, and he will not easily quarrel with you over some trivial things.

Leo Tolstoy said: "If you live with another person, you should make a pact with him that as soon as one of you begins to reprise the other, you will immediately stop arguing." ”

Even if you have an occasional fight, he will be quick to make concessions and compromises, and he will not let the quarrel between you go on endlessly.

No matter how strong or intense your argument is, he will quickly reconcile with you, and he will not let the quarrel stay overnight. The love of middle-aged people is often more rational and restrained, and they will love more deeply and passionately.

2. Be able to withstand the test of dull years.

The love of middle-aged people can often withstand the test of ordinary years. When a person reaches middle age, the people around him come and go, go and come back, he will experience a lot of warmth and coldness, and look down on gathering and dispersing.

The love of middle-aged people may not be romantic enough, but it must be sincere enough. As time goes by, the love of middle-aged people will exude a more charming fragrance.

The love of middle-aged people is sometimes like a glass of wine. The passage of time will not only not fade the love of middle-aged people, but will make your love more rich and mellow.

When people reach middle age, they will know how to cherish the people around them more. Especially when a person has experienced many failed relationships, once he meets a partner who is really suitable for him, he will definitely cherish it.

When a person reaches middle age, he often does not easily make a vow to his partner, but as long as he makes a promise to you, he will fulfill it in time.

3. Full of tacit understanding, one eye can understand each other.

The love of middle-aged people is reflected in one look. The love of middle-aged people will be full of tacit understanding. A look, an expression, a movement, can understand each other.

Someone who truly loves you will actively integrate into your life and can't wait to step into your inner world. Because he really loves you, he will resonate strongly with you.

The love of middle-aged people is often quiet, but it is refreshing. Because I love deeply, I understand. Because we understand, we are compassionate. Because of compassion, so tacit understanding.

When people reach middle age, in the face of love, they will retain a pure heart. The person who truly loves you will be more sincere to you, and he will also be willing to open up to you.

If a person never opens up to you, there is no tacit understanding between you, and you lack the necessary common language, then it means that you may not be suitable for being together.

In short, the love of middle-aged people is like a spring rain, moisturizing things silently.

A middle-aged person will appear more calm in love, and the way he expresses his love may also appear more subtle. Once he realizes that your fate has come to an end and you no longer love each other, he will break up decisively.

Writer Xian Guiren said.