Why are there always so many intrigues and conflicts between girls?

Women love intrigue, this sentence says that the personal feeling is not right, intrigue men are more powerful, it is nothing more than men's intrigue is to cash out in terms of fame, power, etc. Women's intrigue is embodied in some small things, (not all, there is also a generation of empresses), so there are more intrigues among women. Men are informal, and big things require you to live and die, so it seems that there is less intrigue.

Women have to intrigue even if they are trivial, so it looks like there are a little more. In short, men and women should be peaceful about everything, if it is yours, others can't take it away, and if it's not yours, you can't keep it. If you treat it normally, there will be less intrigue!

There are problems with getting along, and there is a great relationship with personal personality, everyone has a rule, but it is difficult for someone around us to abide by every rule, getting along is a science, there are many problems to avoid, but many can't, not only girls get along with each other There are many contradictions, people get along with each other is the same, learning how to get along with people is an important lesson in life. I remember Gao Xiaosong said that there are three major contradictions in life, the contradiction between man and the environment, the contradiction between man, and the contradiction between man and himself, and at least the first two should be resolved before the age of 45. So, this problem is pervasive and hard to avoid.

Both boys and girls will be intrigued, people with this mentality are jealous in the final analysis, and they can't see that others are better than him or her, and when they or they are inferior to others, there will be an imbalance in their hearts, and this unbalanced mentality is terrible as long as they are hated in their hearts. Two sides and three knives, hiding knives in a smile, doing everything possible to rectify the person.

It's not all of them, there are also girls who are very aggressive, but girls are more delicate. Half a year ago, you chased her with rhetoric, and half a year later, you were cold and indifferent to her, and you ignored her, so breakups abound, and boys think I didn't do anything wrong, but girls are delicate, and she feels your enthusiasm, and she will start to think.

3 women are a play, which has existed since ancient times. The status of women today cannot be underestimated, women can not be provoked and cannot be provoked, women's personalities are slowly being established, and they are all gathered together with personalities, and the consequences can be imagined. Especially the so-called workplace comparison, conspiracy, unscrupulous means, and vanity in order to achieve the goal.

A similar situation occurs with men, but most men are principled.

Both boys and girls will have intrigue and jealousy, such as: officialdom has officialdom fights, work fights have work, and love has love fights.

It's the same with boys, but some men don't, but some men are very careful and can create an atmosphere. Gangs and intrigues, but you don't encounter them.

Infighting? When Du Mu invented this idiom, he didn't point out that this was a woman's patent, in fact, it was just an interpersonal relationship and a social phenomenon, if you had to add it"Woman"This subject, I don't think, is not all women.

Compared with men, women have a little stronger vanity and jealousy, because this is the nature of women, and the education since childhood makes women psychologically more closed than men, especially Oriental women, for thousands of years, they can't put their joys, sorrows, and sorrows on their faces when facing difficulties, and they can't use their fists to protect themselves physiologically like men. So they learned to hide it in their hearts, and the long-term repression gave their hearts a dark side. But they also have a good side, such as virtuousness, such as kindness.

And intrigue also depends on the situation, and a woman with an angular personality will never use this when facing her own children. In the same way, even the most tolerant man will resort to shady tricks when his interests are violated again and again but are restricted from being defended.

If the landlord is a man, you must know how to protect your own woman, she has your protection and care, she will not have such a character, but show kindness, virtuousness, love.

Sub-answer property rent: Troubles >> adolescence.

Problem description: Of the two female colleagues I work with, all three of us have just graduated from college. There was some resentment between the two of them, and they often spoke ill of each other behind each other's backs before I made it clear to me. It is also due to the competition at work.

I've had this kind of thing in college before. If I get close to one, the other one will be unhappy. Now I'm in the same office and dormitory as one of them, doing production work, and she's wary of me, often afraid that I'll take her job, and who knows if she'll say I'm not in front of that girl and other colleagues.

How to solve this kind of dispute between girls? Although I'm also a girl, I won't deal with this kind of problem, so please give me advice.

Analysis: In fact, many contradictions in life are our own assumptions, I think, you should be sincere and tolerant at all times, no matter what they say to you, you just need to be your own good girl. Because over time, everything will be revealed.

Working together, competition exists, and living together, but there can be a lot of beauty, let's be the one who takes the initiative to create beauty, and don't create trouble for yourself under any psychological pressure, what do you say? Hope you are happy!

How to deal with the problem of intrigue between girls? Don't care, just be yourself, you are sincere and tolerant at all times, no matter what they say to you, you just have to be a good girl for yourself. Because over time, everything will be revealed.

Working together, competition exists, and life can be a lot of beauty, let us be the one who takes the initiative to create beauty, and don't lose under any psychological pressure to create trouble for yourself.

Isn't it easy to intrigue if there are many girls? What kind of psychology is this? As a girl, I sometimes wish I was a gentleman and stayed away from all these annoying intrigues!

It's a pity that I'm a girl, and I try to ignore the uncomfortable emotions that some people maliciously exude. That being said, it's actually hard to ignore and definitely affect the mood.

If you want to talk about it, it's not that girls have a lot of things, so they are intrigued. Bad people are inherently bad! You can draw this conclusion from the kindergarten children.

Look at the child now, after getting along for a while, you will know that she is not a troublemaker, easy to get along with, or a thorn! It is said that children have no bad intentions, but that is just wishful thinking on the part of adults!

You see that the little girl who deliberately found fault in the community when she was a child is a bully in school when she grows up. In fact, a lot of school bullying is related to girls. It's just a fight between boys, and girls are terrible, and they spread rumors and punish their hearts with bad thoughts.

I think I really envy you when I say this, and that's a good thing. (I think what I said makes sense, I can only say don't be like this kind of unconscionable classmates.) ）

It is said that "three women in one play", this kind of conclusion should be very similar to that given by boys, right? It's not surprising, after all, the phenomenon of gangs among girls is definitely worse than that of boys. As for what to do, it should have something to do with vanity and psychology.

Some people's parents are reasonable, and their children are kind and reasonable. Some people's parents are not good at stubble, and their children have a black ...... from an early age

In fact, as adults, we all know that there is competition in our society, whether it is a small kindergarten, between colleagues, or between large families. This kind of competition is not only self-motivated, but also crushing and stepping on others. (What do you think?) ）

Therefore, in fact, it's not just girls, it's normal for intrigue to occur in any group. Not to mention, have you ever encountered intrigue among colleagues at work in the company?

What's the use of annoying about this kind of thing? No solution.

It's true, many girls are prone to intrigue, in fact, these girls just want to make themselves the best in this way and be worshiped by others.

Some girls are more comparative, or have an inferiority complex, if you get along with such a girl, there must be intrigue. The main thing is to divide people, some girls are positive and kind, there will definitely be no such things.

I think this is caused by the comparison psychology of girls, when there are a lot of girls, they will always look at each other's shining points, want to compare with each other, girls always want to be better looking than others, more beautiful than others, so when there are more girls, they will not be united, and they will be easy to intrigue when they compare with each other.

Yes, if there are more girls, there will be intrigue, three women in one play, because girls are easier to compare together.

Yes, because girls have smaller eyes and are more possessive, they love to express themselves, so this kind of performance behavior will occur.

Yes. This is because girls' vanity and competition psychology are stronger, and they also have a certain comparison psychology.

It's true, because girls want to be the center of attention, so they will intrigue, and want to get the respect of others in this way.

Remember! Girls are average, and most of them are narrow-minded! So this is the difference in temperament, the difference in personality between men and women! The difference in the perception of things, the difference in the understanding of feelings!

This is a normal psychological need for both boys and girls. Some guys are informal, and they can be big brothers with you. But there are also boys who are very motherly, and girls who pay more attention to their position in the minds of others, so sometimes they have to abandon some people and things.

There are also girls who look like boys... In any case, there is a disadvantage between boys and girls on the girls' side. It's because of their psychological endurance.

Many girls are like children and like to be around people who are good to them, which is also caused by their personality.

Women are narrow-minded, but they don't treat them well, they hold grudges against you, my buddy made a joke about her, he ignored me for three weeks, that buddy, I also have a female sister and a friend of hers don't be friends with my female sisters because they didn't talk to her!

If you want to say that buddies and friends are enough, you still have to be gentlemen!

Feed! Why are you slandering us girls?

That's a small part, you can't be blind and look at the big!

In short, it is not right for you to say this, it is too one-sided!

Why are you slapping them all to death! Ay. I can't see it

Actually, there is a bit of that among the boys. I can't talk about it, in fact, for example, the boys in our class will be divided into many factions. As long as you are in one faction, you can jump to the other faction. It's fickle.

And girls, I don't know why, even I don't want to tie up with them, but they target me. I don't know what they're thinking. However, now that you look away, if you smile at others, others will smile at you. Treating people kindly is the best.

If a good friend sticks to it every day, it may be a good thing or a bad thing. It is possible that in the process of getting along, some problems will arise, and quarrels will occur.

I'm pretty lucky, though. I have a good friend who has been with me for nearly four years and has never said a word. It seems that we have never quarreled when we talked about it by chance that day.

Shall we have a fight? This girl was so excited that her eyes lit up. It was a good fight on the spot.

Men are broad-minded, women are narrow.