My boyfriend said that he loved me because I was good to him, and he broke down

Updated on psychology 2024-06-08
55 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    Oops, you're so stupid, he obviously doesn't love you, can't you feel it? Such a man is really selfish, not worthy of your kindness to him, don't be too good to a man, especially before marriage, he will get used to it and gradually get bored, and ah, why do you think he should love you because of what you look like? Love is a process of mutual conquest Yes, men will be attracted because of a woman's appearance, but this attraction is not long-lasting, so my advice to you is to leave yourself a way back and taste whether this man really loves you Don't be carried away by love, be sober!

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Everyone needs his care and love. When you pay more attention to someone, they are more likely to have a good impression of them. You are good to him, and of course he loves you.

    Sometimes, love doesn't come for a reason. However, when we really live together, we should have responsibilities and ideals.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    Landlord, I'm speechless. If you can love someone with good looks, specialties, and special reasons, it can only be said that you have unfortunately encountered an emotion**. I don't know what your boyfriend is doing to you, but at least this sentence shows that he didn't lie to you.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Your boyfriend is the kind of lover who will find someone who loves him more than he loves ...

    To put it simply. He likes the devotional ...

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Your boyfriend is too hypocritical, break up, follow me

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Hehe, I'm also because my girlfriend loves her so much to me.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    He doesn't love you enough. He didn't want to give.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Not quite normal.

    Love is not what many people think is to take what they need, this is more selfish, and it is an extreme idea of love.

    If there is a third person who is also good to your boyfriend, or even more so than you, then your boyfriend's loyalty will be questioned.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Rare, but normal. It's like some people choose to love their own people instead of the people they love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Normal, each according to his needs, you need his love, he needs your good.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    In fact, how complicated do you think love is?

    The happiness of ordinary people is that two people will feel relaxed, happy, and comfortable together.

    Love is involuntarily being good to them.

    It's getting used to each other and getting used to living with each other.

    In fact, men just don't have such delicate thoughts.

    It's great if he knows you're good to him.

    And you can't be the only one who is good to him.

    But he only remembers you, remembers your goodness and everything, isn't that still loving you.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    This answer is not simple at all. When two people are together, the important thing is to care for each other. You love him and be good to him.

    And then he loves you too. Since I love you, I will care about you. It hurts you.

    Isn't this kind of love perfect. I'm just waiting for someone who can share the ups and downs with me. Trust him, I feel like I really love you.

    Hopefully, you will be able to manage a good love.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    I'm a girl, and all I can say is that I'll make friends with a guy because he's nice to me, and then I'll fall in love for a long time.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    To be a man to be content, that's how it is pulled.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    He doesn't love you, but because you were too good to him, he felt guilty, and he stayed with you in order to repay you for being good to him. If one day, you are no longer good to him, he also feels that after repaying him, he will definitely break up, in fact, you tie him up like this, although you can get him for a while, but what you get is only his person, not his heart. At the end of the day, it's yours who hurt yourself.

    Think about it.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    To love or not to love is only the person concerned to say clearly.

    It's just because it's good for him, and it's not right for this reason, is there someone else who will leave you after he treats him back?

    Think of the vows of marriage, whether you live, old, sick, or die... Unswerving to death is worth cherishing.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think you should talk about it, and there are some things that you have to figure out. You can't just go on like this. It's not good for anyone!! Listen to my advice. Talk to him well, and face it with a forgiving heart, no matter what the outcome is.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I was originally with her because of my girlfriend's special name for me, but slowly my heart has actually undergone a qualitative change, and I slowly got used to her, although I pretended not to care. I think there is a kind of love called life.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    This is normal.,Feelings are like this.,If it's just a simple like.,That's the end of it.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    There are many factors that attract and like each other between men and women, not just that you are good to him or that he is good to ......you

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    If you feel tired, mention the breakup first, and see his reaction, if he says okay, then break up, maybe he really doesn't like you, if he likes you, he won't break up with your father!

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    If you don't go down with him, can you not follow? Change the way to love him! If it really doesn't belong to you, don't force it! It also gives yourself a reason to leave!

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I'm the same as you, sometimes you also need to care, and it's inevitable that there will be times when you're upset, so you're so tired

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    If you like it, you can be together, and if you don't like it, it's just that.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Go on because you like him and he likes you.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    Then you show a little coldness to him, see if he treats you well, and then think about whether to go on.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    You will be tired, if you love him, then you will eventually hurt, and if you can let him go, then the sooner the better.

  28. Anonymous users2024-01-15

    Your question is strange.

    If you treat him badly, why should he like you? Could it be that there are masochistic tendencies?

    If a man treats you badly, will you love him and marry him?

  29. Anonymous users2024-01-14

    As long as he likes you, you've been together.

  30. Anonymous users2024-01-13

    Then don't be so nice to him, see if he wants to continue with you.

  31. Anonymous users2024-01-12

    It depends on whether you like him or not, and if you like it, you will be together

  32. Anonymous users2024-01-11

    I'm in the same situation as you.

  33. Anonymous users2024-01-10

    Go on, either you're good to me, or I'm good to you.

  34. Anonymous users2024-01-09

    That's a must, couples are mutual.

  35. Anonymous users2024-01-08

    Of course, two people have to be good to him when they are together, you think about it, if he treats you badly, will you be with him?

  36. Anonymous users2024-01-07

    Do you have a problem with your brain? There is a kind of love called gratitude

  37. Anonymous users2024-01-06

    Love Ben is like this, you are not good to him, why does he like you?

  38. Anonymous users2024-01-05

    That's the way in life, whoever loves more will be a little tired, but if you think it's worth it, then continue to be with him, it seems that he is not a boy who can take care of people, and whatever the bottom is what the bottom is, if you get married in the future, it is also the current model, you have been taking care of him.

  39. Anonymous users2024-01-04

    In fact, this kind of man knows that gratitude proves that he can still relate.

  40. Anonymous users2024-01-03

    If you like him, just keep going.

  41. Anonymous users2024-01-02

    This is repaying the favor, not the natural attraction to each other.

  42. Anonymous users2024-01-01

    That's how men generally look at their feelings.

  43. Anonymous users2023-12-31

    The relationship is very dimensional, my girlfriend asked me the same question, and I answered her like this, but I really like it, I really love it! All the way around. I actually feel very happy to look at her.

  44. Anonymous users2023-12-30

    If it's true love, sometimes I really can't say why, maybe it's because of the good people, what the situation and time are.

  45. Anonymous users2023-12-29

    Whether you like it or not, it's useless to come here and ask, you have to feel it with your heart, and it takes time.

  46. Anonymous users2023-12-28

    It's not what he says, but it depends on his attitude towards you or what he does to you, and whether he has the heart to do it.

  47. Anonymous users2023-12-27

    When choosing a partner, you must first put your heart away and pay attention to whether he really cares about you in his heart. Women who fall in love have zero IQs, and this is all a history of blood and tears.

  48. Anonymous users2023-12-26

    It's not really love, it's just that it's not so tiring to be with you, and you're not demanding.

  49. Anonymous users2023-12-25

    Is that why you were chosen? In fact, the answer is useless, the key is how he treats you. Let time take your time. If I had to say why, I would just say: I know that I like you very much.

  50. Anonymous users2023-12-24

    Your actions have already touched him, first bitter and then sweet, accept the reward.

  51. Anonymous users2023-12-23

    You say that, which means that you don't have a good impression of him. Or haven't accepted him yet. You feel that you have been together for a short time, you can talk to him first and then be friends for a while.

    Look at your performance or something. Then during this time, think about whether it is better to talk to him about friendship.

  52. Anonymous users2023-12-22

    Normal, I'm like this, the same experience, as long as someone is good to me, I will also be good to her, normal interaction is fine, but he is tired, just don't toss around, people who have been injured can't withstand the wind and waves.

  53. Anonymous users2023-12-21

    True love is invincible, love him well.

  54. Anonymous users2023-12-20

    Time to influence him. Give him time to forget about her.

  55. Anonymous users2023-12-19

    The person who has been hurt will have a transition.

    period, and fortunately there is you in this transition period, so that he feels loved (because before he loved people, not others loved him), but in this transition period, he is also afraid of being hurt! Therefore, I will not express too much, and let go to love someone! --If you love him, please spend time with him!

    Let him feel true love in this transition! [At the same time, I also remind you of one point: people who have been hurt know how to cherish, single-minded, if you get his approval, then congratulations] - you need more companionship in life, more understanding and tolerance in life, so that love can go long-term!

    I wish you both happiness!

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