Is he doing it to me because of duty or love?

Updated on psychology 2024-04-20
15 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    Don't you think it's tiring? If so, I think it's too fair to me, I don't think he should put the blame on you, although you don't like his job, he quits the job he likes, but if he really loves you, he won't say that he regrets giving up so much for you now, which proves that he doesn't love you now, he regrets it, do you think you will be happy again now? Sooner or later, they will break up.

    He still loves you to some extent, and if he doesn't love you anymore, he won't be responsible. But I'm sure that if he regrets what he did for you, it means that his love for you has wavered. Try to give each other the space to calm down and analyze your feelings.

    Also, what age is it now? Nothing responsible. Don't be so stupid that men will be responsible for you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I also said that if two people can get closer, no matter how good the job is, I will give up, or I will take each other with me after I settle down in work, because it is very painful if two people are in different cities. I think the reason for his coldness towards you should be found in your own feelings, not only because of the work matter, in fact, a man is not so obsessed with the past (especially for work, things outside the relationship between two people). It's also important that you trust each other.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Of course I still love you.

    You should communicate more, and you should care more about him.

    Career is also important to him.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    There is a kind of man who always puts his career first, he doesn't love you, and he doesn't love you enough.

    According to what you said, he may be used to being with you, because if he doesn't love you, there will be a thousand reasons to leave you, either he doesn't want to leave you, or it's not time for him to want to leave, take care!

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    If you really love him, he has found a good job, you should support him and be happy for him, right, how can you not be happy? Once a man does this kind of thing for you that is contrary to his or his family's wishes, no matter how much he loves each other, there will definitely be problems in the end. Learn to put yourself in his shoes and think about the problem.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    I love you completely, and it is the best choice to give him some space appropriately, and you have to believe in each other and give enough oxygen for love to breed.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    It should be responsible, if you love, since you have given up so much, it is impossible to regret it in the end.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    He still loves you, give him a little more space, and don't let him feel tired of loving you. Or he'll leave you when he's too tired to breathe.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    I'm in favor of you breaking up.

    You are not happy in love.

    Sooner or later, it will be divided, it is better to divide it early.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    A man who doesn't love you, he won't be responsible for you at all.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    Love is love, and he may be psychologically unbalanced.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    Summary. The responsibility in love is to love each other, respect each other, and be responsible for the physiology and psychology of the other half.

    The responsibility in love is to love each other, respect each other, and be responsible for the physiology and psychology of the other half.

    And a person who is not responsible in love is nothing more than not loving and respecting the other half. Some boys have no plans to get married and have children but let their girlfriends get pregnant, which is irresponsible.

    In love, it is a responsibility to love each other. Since you have become a boyfriend and girlfriend, you must learn to love and care for each other, which is a responsible love attitude. If you meet a boy who is in love with you, but never cares about your life, doesn't care about your work, and doesn't even know what your birthday is, such a boy belongs to the one who is not responsible in love.

    It's the same for girls, they don't care about their boyfriends, they don't care about their boyfriends, they just like to ask each other to do things for themselves, but they never pay, such girls are also irresponsible.

    In love, respecting each other is also a responsibility. Respect means that no matter what we do together, we must respect each other's intentions. For example, if two people go on a trip together, the man or the woman just arranges it according to their own preferences, which is disrespectful to the other party.

    Or, it is also disrespectful for the man to rashly take the woman to meet his friends without asking the woman's opinion. It is also disrespectful for the woman to let the man ask herself and her girlfriends to pay without telling the man. Falling in love is a matter for two people, so both men and women must respect each other's opinions and feelings in love.

    If you find that you hang out with your boyfriend, no matter what you eat or live, and he never asks your opinion, then he doesn't respect you enough.

    Therefore, when girls are in love, they must be clear about the responsibilities of love, which can help many girls avoid meeting scumbags.

    Hope mine can help you

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  13. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Love can only be an episode in life, the important thing is when it evolves into family affection, whether you think of the responsibility at that time, two people can walk together and live together is fate and blessing, responsibility is not so simple but from person to person, from person to person, from person to person, no sense of responsibility is useless in how you talk about it, the focus is on the heart of loving family, no matter plain, rich as long as you get along with each other, know how to be content.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    Love is inclusive rather than indulgent, love is caring rather than pampering, love is intermingling rather than unrequited love, love is all kinds of flavors and not all sweetness.

    True love doesn't have to be a perfect match in the eyes of others.

    It's about the mutual fit of the hearts of people who love each other.

    It is to make the other party's life better and silently dedicated.

    This love not only warms themselves, but also warms those worldly hearts, and true love is to know how to cherish when you can love.

    True love is knowing how to let go when you can't love.

    Because, letting go is the ...... having everything

    When you cherish it, please love it well.

    True love is a kind of care and care that comes from the heart, there are no flowery words, no grandiose actions, only in every word and deed you can feel it. So plain and so firm. On the contrary, swearing, promising shows its uncertainty, never believe sweet words.

    Feel it with your heart.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Liking is a very intuitive feeling, for example, I was chasing a drama recently, and I wanted to watch it until I sacrificed sleep, which is called liking; For example, if you are obsessed with a certain bag recently, you have to swipe your card to buy it in installments when you eat instant noodles, which is called liking; For example, when you recently met a new object, you flirted with LINE every day, and your mobile phone battery was less than 50% low, and you started to get anxious, and you even had to find a restaurant that provided a charging plug for dinner, which is also called liking.

    But responsibility is a different matter, and it's the pressure to do it if you don't want to. The most common thing I see is the female elders of the previous generation, who have an attitude towards their mother-in-law and their concubines, obviously hate each other, but what is there to take the initiative to help with it, complaining while doing it, but you tell her not to do it? She wouldn't listen because they felt it was their responsibility.

    Only love that you like but have no responsibility will definitely separate in the end; And there is only a relationship with responsibility but no liking, but it is a lifetime of mutual consumption.

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