Because I am good to him, is his good affection for me considered love? Why does my heart hurt so mu

Hello girl, I can tell from what you wrote that you really love her. He becomes almost all you have emotionally. Or that you put all your emotional investment in him. It's a testament to how much you love him.

But it seems that your boyfriend doesn't realize this, and it seems that he is eating from the bowl and looking at the pot. After more than two years of getting along and living together for more than a year, animals can develop feelings (sorry I say that, but why not?). ）。

Men sometimes need you to be distant (here the estrangement is relative to sticking to him), and there are a lot of things that he should not get easily.

When you slowly become independent, have your own thoughts, and be happy without him, he may realize that you can be happy and happy without him. Such a happy girl is liked by many boys (I don't mean to ask you to find other boys), and he may have a sense of crisis. Flip it over and it's good for you.

It's better for you not to get his attention to you in time, but you can really be happy and independent without his support. Wouldn't that be better?

In a word, let yourself be more independent and live your true self. Your problem will be solved.

If it's so painful to be with him, break up! If he often talks to you about that girl, then. It's not good, he cares more about her than you do!

He cares what you send to that woman, but he doesn't care why he cries so sadly, I don't think he loves you! Maybe because you are good to him, he is good to you! If you are cold to him and lose your temper with him often, I think soon he will break up with you!

He can pay attention to other women in front of you Such a man flies quickly Otherwise, your future relationship will not be strong Remember one thing I'd rather find someone ugly than someone who doesn't really love yourself You cry for him and he doesn't comfort you From this point, it can be seen that you are not 100% in his heart Hurry up and divide it Don't be sad If a person really loves you personally No matter what she does, he will selflessly pay for her Just look at her happiness Such a person should be divided as soon as possible.

Loving for the sake of loving is God, and loving for being loved is man. None of us are human, so love is mutual. Don't always doubt something.

If you really love you, how can he say those words to hurt you, he says that he is very responsible for you, but in fact, he hurts you a lot. He cares so much about that person's feelings, but doesn't take your feelings seriously, this kind of person doesn't deserve to be so good to him. A kind-hearted girl like you can find a better one, he doesn't cherish you, you stay by his side, it's just your insistence on love, if you really love him and don't care about him, if someone else stays by his side, you won't listen to others.

However, this is related to the happiness of your life, if you are not sure to replace his first love, it is better to think more.

I advise you to put an end to this fruitless love.

Maybe you'll be like me.

The mouth said that he had forgotten him.

But all the time I was thinking about him to redeem it.

If you love each other.

Even if you don't like him anymore.

He's still going to like you.

Or he thinks if you don't like him.

You're definitely liking someone else.

He wants you to be happy.

Be a strong woman.

It can be very ungentle.

But it will help you later.

The answer is up to you.

Beauty, if you touch your heart, can you bear the pain? Are you sure you can't live without him? If you can't do it, then you have to endure it, smile and endure, and look at it tolerantly, after all, you are the one who sleeps with him every day, you are the winner, what are you angry about, haha.

Hello landlord, I read your answers and analyze them by yourself, and I think the friends on the 7th floor are the best. I suggest you can take a look at his advice.

I won't mention my own opinion.

Hello. It's normal to be good in exchange for good.

Eh, first of all, I'm a boy, I've been chasing the girl I like for four years, and I've been chasing her, and I haven't caught up yet, so I understand your feelings, I think that feelings are not worth it, only whether they are willing or not, and it's normal for boys to be spending, but when you're lonely and sad and your heart is empty, you will think of your favorite one, the one you can't forget, so you can try to ignore him for a week and bask him to see if he's in a hurry, but it may also be because of this, cough cough, estrangement, more distance, it's up to you.

Maybe you are loving, but obviously that woman has higher emotional intelligence.

There is also the title of first love. This is the most hidden thief in the world.

Even if you guard against them like a thief, you still can't grasp the progress of things.

Unless you're more skilled than the woman.

However, if you have already begun to doubt his love and are thinking too much about breaking up, then it is better to give some time and see what happens in the end. From now on, pretend you don't know and ignore your boyfriend. Things may turn around.

If you really can't let go, go and compete with the woman. However, from the perspective of an onlooker, if that girl wants your boyfriend, you will be the one who loses in the end.

Hello, a slight smile is happy to answer for you.

Love is an unconditional giving and sacrifice;

Love is never-ending and never lost, love is not not to be reciprocated, and the return of love is the eternal joy and happiness of the other party;

The happiness of the other party is your happiness, the happiness of the other party is your happiness, you should be happy with his happiness, happy with his happiness.

Everyone knows this kind of high-sounding theory, but everyone needs to be able to get a little solace from love, even if it is only a little.

Think about ......The flowers are blooming.

What is given to it in return is the true fruit;

When someone loves and gives, what does she give in return?

The dedication to love, as long as you are truly willing, a sentence of "I am willing" represents no regrets and is willing to hurt for love.

There are many reasons why loving someone will hurt your heart, such as:

1. Long-distance relationship, you can't see each other all day long, and your eagerness makes you feel miserable;

2. Unrequited love, the person you love doesn't love you, such a relationship is likely to be fruitless, it will make you see some disappointment, and such a sense of loss makes you feel painful;

3. If you are both married or one of you is married, then your love is an extramarital affair, because extramarital affairs are generally fruitless, and you don't want to hurt innocent people, so it is painful not to get someone you like;

4. Incompatible personalities, if two people who love each other can't understand and tolerate each other, quarrel all day long or at every turn, and let quarrels become the main theme of married life.

Because he makes you sad, but he doesn't want to blame him.

You don't have to have someone to love, but you have to love someone well!

When you have experienced loving and being loved, and learned to love, you will know what you need, and you will find the most suitable person for you and be able to get along for a lifetime.

But sadly, in real life, people who truly love each other for various reasons may not be able to be together;

The one you love the most often doesn't choose you;

What loves you the most is often not what you love the most;

And the longest-lasting, it's not what you love the most, and it's not the one you love the most.

Only the person who appears at the most suitable time will really be with you forever!

No one deliberately wants to change his mind, he really loves you when he loves you, but he really doesn't love you when he doesn't love you, and there is no way to pretend not to love you when he loves you;

In the same way, there is no way for him to pretend to love you when he doesn't love you.

When a person doesn't love you and wants to leave you, you have to ask yourself if you still love him (her), if you don't love him (her) anymore, don't refuse to leave for the sake of poor self-esteem;

If you still love him (her), you should want him (her) to live happily, hope that he (she) is with the person you really love, and will never stop it, if you prevent him (her) from getting real happiness, it means that you no longer love him (her), and if you don't love him (her), what right do you have to accuse him (her) of changing his (her) mind?

Love is not possession!

You love the stars, and it's impossible to take them down and put them in the basin, but the light of the stars can still shine into your room.

In other words, if you love someone, you can also have it in another way, so that the lover becomes an eternal memory in your life, and if you really love someone, you have to love him as he is, love his good, and love his bad:

Love his strengths and his shortcomings, and never want him to become what he wants because he loves him, and if he can't change, he won't love him.

You can't tell the reason for really loving someone, you just know that no matter when and where, good or bad, you want this person to be with you;

The real relationship is that the two can stay together in the most difficult situation, that is, without the slightest requirement.

After all, feelings must be given, not just wanted to be gained;

Separation is an inevitable test, and if your relationship is not stable enough and you have to admit defeat, true love will not turn into resentment.

When the two are in love, they like to make each other swear and make promises, why do we swear to each other, it is because we don't believe each other, we don't believe in lovers at all, and these mountain alliances and sea vows are very unrealistic.

The sea is dry and the earth is barren, but it can't change my love for you!

knowing that the sea will not wither, the stones will not rot, the earth will not grow, and the sky will not be barren;

Even if he could, he wouldn't live until then.

When making a promise, be careful, don't make promises that can be fulfilled, it is better to promise what you can't do, anyway, it doesn't matter if you can't do it, remember that "impossible promises are the most moving".

In love, one thing is said and another is done;

The speaker does not believe it, and the listener does not believe ......

Who have you met in the vast sea of people? Who met you again.

Since you love him, don't think so much, it's worth it to pay for the person you love! Since you love, don't choose to regret it, believe that you love him and there is nothing wrong with him, he actually cares about you very much, but it is not as obvious as you appear.