Is it good to marry a boy from a reorganized family, and can a man from a reorganized family marry

One: His humanity is at its lowest level, and he is particularly threatening to you.

Do you know" Sheng Minglan.

Say: "Get along with people, look at the lowest part of human nature." ”

What is the lowest point?

It's just to see how he behaves when he's at his worst.

A divorced man must have ulterior flaws, and these shortcomings must be discovered by yourself. Look at his shortcomings, whether they are unacceptable to you.

In the process of getting along with the two, if you can talk about love for a long time, try to get married as long as possible, don't get married hastily in order to find a support, in order to relieve loneliness.

When getting along, don't look at how good he is when he is good to you, for example, when he is good, he can take you to eat Western food, he can take you on a cruise, and he will move you to the ground, thinking that he has found the right person.

The key is to see what happens when he treats you badly, such as when the two quarrel, he doesn't talk to you for a week, snubs you, and the two fight coldly and never admit their mistakes.

In the course of the quarrel, they attack you personally and use cold violence against you.

Be careful, sarcastic, derogatory, negative, abusive, and even hurting you with your past experiences.

There are these manifestations when you are in love, and you will still be after marriage, don't expect him to change, let alone expect him to change his own problems for you.

When a man is in love with you, he shows disrespect for you, so don't expect to respect you after marriage.

This is the lowest point of human nature.

2: Extremely poor, with excessive greed and obsession with money.

As the saying goes, poor mountains and bad waters come out of the people.

The more economically backward the place, the lower the people's minds and the less inclusive they are.

If the remarriage partner you are looking for is very poor, let alone raising a wife and children, and even supporting yourself has become a problem, then I advise you not to marry.

When a man is particularly poor, he has excessive greed and obsession with money, and who does not know the benefits of money. If your economic conditions happen to be better than men, or even much better, marrying is like going to poverty alleviation, you should be more cautious, not only optimistic about your money, but most importantly optimistic about your people.

The evil of human nature lies in the fact that the greedy appetite is raised.

Just like the previous case of a pregnant woman in Thailand falling off a cliff, the husband pushed his pregnant wife off the cliff with his own hands for money, and he also wanted to create the illusion that his wife had fallen down.

Close relatives and estranged couples, when it is good, it is husband and wife who are closest to it, and when it is bad, it is also husband and wife who are most estranged, and even the person next to you who hurts and threatens you the most.

Therefore, men who are overly greedy for money and lazy and do not have a serious job should be cautious about remarrying.

First of all, I am a man, and the difficulties faced by reorganizing a family are definitely more complex than those of a non-restructured family, so you need to be prepared for this, and secondly, it also depends on whether you reorganize the family, which is related to the issue of children. For example, if you have children and he doesn't, or vice versa, or has children of his own, it all has to be weighed. It is better to have it or not, as long as there is one party and one is not, it is impossible for the hearts to be together, and it is definitely necessary to be distracted for their children.

There will also be a divide in education. If the other party's child has been with you and made a mistake, do you say no? If you say that people don't want to, don't say that this is a heart disease, and it will definitely break out after a long time.

This kind of thing happens all the time on our side, because there are also many people who are separated from us, including relatives. The person is good, just because he said the other party's child, he broke up.

Third, economic independence, if you mix together, or live on the other side, it will not last long.

Fourth. Character, there must be a party to be soft, can not be hard, this is also important, my cousin because of this divorced first marriage, there is a building at home, more than one, the income is more than 10,000 per month, the other party is also the same, and is still an only daughter, his father is still the boss, there is his own hotel, not bad money, my brother pentathlon in musical instruments, the first in the country, his predecessor is the first piano, these two people married no one thought to be able to divorce, and they are the first marriage, a year to divide, just because both sides are too tough.

Fifth, we can't help but talk about money, it's easy to talk about money, but if you don't have money, there will be a lot of things.

Many people say that it depends on how good this person is, his personality, his education, how good he is, it's useless, it's so good, why can he get a divorce? There are still drawbacks. And not small.

Except, of course, if the other party dies. Now it is difficult to find the first marriage in society, and the risk of the second marriage is definitely higher than that of the first marriage, and there will be more things.

The first marriage may not always meet the right person, so divorce does not mean that people are not good, if you want to find the right person, you must look at your ability to recognize people rather than see if the other party has been divorced. To see whether a man is good or not, we must first see whether the man has good qualities. With good qualities, you can be happy only when you are with him.

What are the qualities of good quality? His attitude towards his colleagues, friends, work, his parents, and his attitude towards life;And what is his attitude towards his ex-girlfriend?You can see his qualities in each of these aspects.

For example, he is very friendly to his female friends on the outside. When he returned home, he lost his temper with his parents. He has no patience and good temper with the people closest to him.

This kind of man must be chosen carefully. Clause.

Second, take a look at his circle of friends. If a person's circle of friends is full of friends who drink and meat, then it means that he himself is also that kind of person. If his friends are very nice to him, it means that he is also like that.

I have a friend who is such a person, a lot of friends. He was very nice to his friends, and his friends were very good to him. He went to the home of a college classmate to travel, and the classmate arranged the whole process and arranged hotel accommodation.

When I asked him how your classmates were so kind to you, he said that when he was in college, his classmates were sick, and he lent him money to see a doctor. Looking at how his friends treat him, you can see from the side how he usually treats his friends. Clause.

3. His attitude towards work. If a man is so-so with his work, it means that he is not self-motivated. Some men always talk about making money, but they don't take action and don't have the perseverance to carry it out.

Although this kind of person has a good personality, he is definitely not a potential stock. It is difficult for him to change his living habits and conduct, so you must be mentally prepared for this kind of man. Clause.

Fourth, a man who has money in his family but will not make money. This kind of man has money in the family, and all the money is in the hands of his parents. Every month's living expenses or something, you have to rely on your parents to pay.

If you marry this kind of man, although the surface is glamorous, you will not be happy. A woman's youth is not a few years. What you are looking for is the kind of man who has money and is willing to spend money for you, a man of good quality.

And a man who does not bother and is always loyal to you.

You can marry if you have the same three views, and you need time to understand more about whether he will stand on the right side or only on his mother's side when there is a conflict. You can go to his house for a meal, and you will probably know the attitude of his family. The first time you go to his house, let you help, no matter who speaks, it is not appropriate, they will think that it is a matter of course, you should not be busy taking the initiative, and you will not be in a hurry to serve the small family well after marriage.

If they use the name of exercise to let you work and wash dishes, some of you will not get a good game of hard work in the future.

There is nothing wrong with reorganizing a family, don't have psychological barriers, it mainly depends on how the boy treats you? If it's good for you, you can marry more sufficiently, and it doesn't matter if you're not pure.

Restructuring is not the fault of this boy, but the tragedy of the parents' incorrect choice of marriage, this does not look at the reorganization, we have to look at the boy's character and self-motivation.

It depends on the individual. If you really love him, you will definitely not be in his hands He is a reconstituted family.

The relationship is very complicated, but it still depends on the atmosphere at home. However, it is better to live separately.

My family is a reconstituted family, and everyone is very harmonious. Now the sons are also married. It turns out that regrouping the family can also come to an end.

There is an old Chinese saying, "Young marriages come to old companions, and halfway couples are difficult to end."

The meaning of this sentence is probably as follows: Holding the hand of the son, growing old with the son is really existing, and when you are young, you may experience all the rich emotions and contradictions in the emotion, but when you are old, you have to rely on each other; The second half of the sentence means that the marriage that started halfway is difficult to end.

It can also be understood that it is difficult for second-married couples to get to the end.

So, when you really reorganize your marriage and enter a second-married family, will your marriage be happy?

I think that this problem is really the opinion of the benevolent and the wise, but the most clear thing is that only those who have experienced it can know the pain and happiness after the second marriage.

1. I also know a friend who is married for the second time, because the first husband has a bad style and goes to prison, so the friend remarried with the child; is only 28 years old, with a 4-year-old son, and now married to a man who is honest and loves her mother and son very much. I think she's living a very happy life.

When the first marriage fails, the younger second-married woman will want to find another man who is worthy of relying on and trusting her life, but the most important thing is to be able to accept her children.

Second, I met the right person to get married, and the second marriage is better than the first marriage; But if you don't meet the right person, the situation of one marriage and two marriages is actually the same.

When two men and women who have also failed in marriage sit together, all they have to consider are more realistic issues; If they all have children, then they will definitely see whether the other party is willing to treat their children as their own children, which is the first condition.

It is easier for two wounded, sympathetic married men and women who have failed to enter each other's hearts; Because they have all been hurt and have experienced failed marriages, they will become cautious in getting along in the second marriage to maintain this relationship, this marriage.

For example, a disclosure of the assets of the parties after the marriage; who will take care of the children after marriage; How to get along with both parents after marriage is also a problem that needs to be faced together.

If the second couple wants to go on happily, then these problems must be solved, and there must be no escape.

The same is the end of the world, after coming together, they should support each other, because of understanding, so they need to slowly cultivate feelings and trust between each other, only in this way can the second-married family be happy.

Today's Zen enlightenment: The first marriage is already very tiring, and the second marriage should stop intriguing and creating pressure on the other party; Since you have chosen a second marriage and reorganized your family, you must accompany each other and rely on each other, only in this way can you be truly happy.

Don't use the person who reorganizes the family to judge whether you can marry, but whether the person is suitable for you, and whether the person is good or not cannot be judged by whether the family is reorganized.

Two reconstituted families, the man gives the best to his son, can such a man marry?

Whether such a man is worthy of a dowry varies from ear to ear, but there is no doubt that his actions are unjust. In a family, the needs and hopes of all members should be considered and respected equally. It is difficult for a woman who values justice and family equality to accept such a man, because she pursues a reciprocal and cooperative marriage relationship, not just the distribution of material wealth.