It is said that the chance of meeting true love in my life is very small, I am thirty years old, sho

Updated on educate 2024-06-08
27 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    If your goal is to want a true love, then I suggest you continue to persevere, after all, you have persisted for so long, if you give up at this time is not a waste of your previous efforts? And if you're here to get married, then you don't have to stick to it!Some people say:

    If you fall in love, talk about it every day sad and crying, and be depressed, then have you found a partner? Or did you find an onion? It is also said that

    We would rather be proudly single than humblely in love. Love should be a joyful thing, but why in the end we are covered in bruises and bruises, and we are still alone. Have you ever wondered why other people's love can come true, but you can't always find true love?

    So if you can't meet the person you want for a long time, then you have to find your own problemsIn my opinion, the reason why many people who are single and can't meet true love is that they have no standards for true love. If a single person wants to find true love, he must first find himself and understand his heart.

    With the criteria of true love, it will be easier for you to judge and find true love. For example, you are attracted to the other person's appearance and think that this is true love; It didn't take long for you to feel that communication was very important, and that such people were the most true love; After a while, you feel that people who know how to be considerate and take care of themselves are true love.

    Later, you find out that people who can write are worthy of love. Soon, you'll find that none of them deserve love.

    People around me often ask me why he can't meet his true love, so I want to say what love is? What is love? Some partners have lived a lifetime, achieved the hand of the son, and grew old with the son, if you ask them do they have love?

    Maybe they will tell you that they have quarreled and quarreled all their lives, and they have never loved, and it is the will and habit that have allowed them to live this life. What is love? Some people have been in need of answers, trying to find the password to open the door to happiness, but they have no choice but to pay wholeheartedly in exchange for scarring

    In fact, to be honest, I think love is to look at your own feelings, there is absolutely no accurate definition of love, so young people should stop looking for love that is fundamentally unsolvable, enjoy the moment, let love into your learning, into your life, into the bits and pieces of your life, then love will always accompany you.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    I think I should persevere, I have waited more time, do I care about waiting longer? The marriage that will be settled will not be happy.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    If you can't bear the loneliness, don't insist, if you don't want to, just wait.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    I believe that perseverance will work wonders, no matter how old you are, follow your heart.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Yes, I believe that there is love, but the time has not come, maybe someone is waiting for you.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If that's the case, then I think we should make do with it.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    If you want true love, then stick to it, because true love is hard to find, so you have to insist, if you don't want to insist on finding someone to marry, then you have to be responsible, you have to be responsible for your lover and children, they are innocent after all.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    Of course, you should persevere, love really has nothing to do with age, as long as you persist, you can meet it.

  9. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    Of course it will, but it's harder.

    It depends on how we understand "true love", we often say that what we met when we were young was true love, the reason why we say this is because the feelings at that time were relatively pure, and the translation is poor and white, in fact, if you think about it carefully, this may not be the case.

    Chinese talk about marriage and marriage still pay attention to the door to the household, and this has a certain reason, although not absolute, but the door to the household is actually like the "eugenic class" and "ordinary class" when going to school, in today's words the translation is based on the comparison and matching of various data of both parties.

    Will it definitely turn out well?

    Not necessarily. But this kind of data matching is actually very effective, two people have similar growth backgrounds, and their respective conditions are similar, if they don't meet people with very eccentric temperaments, they are more able to understand each other under normal circumstances. For people who have lived together for a long time, we always emphasize the need for a common language, what is a common language? It's not that we like the same things and have common pursuits, but that we have the same understanding of the same thing, especially when it comes to the three views.

    This is crucial.

    So, what do we understand and expect from true love after the age of thirty? Is it to meet a person who is shocked and excited? That's basically unlikely, or we understand that we have the same knowledge and understanding of many things, and have a common purpose to stay together, this is a mature intimacy.

    Love is not a product of a sterile environment, it must fall into the world and take root solidly, and those love in a sterile environment are just a flash in the pan, not true love.

    Endure loss, endure time, have hope, and support each other. This is worldly and long-lasting love.

  10. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    Yes, but hard. Thirty-year-old people have a certain amount of social experience, and their thinking is becoming more and more mature, and their choice of partner will be more realistic.

  11. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    Yes, after all, single characters will encounter a single love world to match consensual and achieve the morning and twilight of destined people.

    It is a timely time for true love to have true love earlier, and it is a time for true love to have it later.

    30 years old is still very young, must understand the pity of missing, but also know the regret of love, in the future to meet the right lover must experience the love of life in the world, learn to manage the reality of the distance towards the twilight.

    When you meet true love, you will be moved at the age of 30, and the love presence of action is that true love responds to you just now.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    It is possible when true love is met, many actors only got married at the age of forty, and they are very happy, which shows that true love has little to do with age.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    Look at fate, some people meet true love at the age of 20, and some people meet true love at the age of 50 or even 70, but the fortune teller said that it is difficult for me to meet ...... in my life

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    1.It shows that you have achieved love, which can also be said to be the icing on the cake of life. Let's find out.

    It is just the right age. Most people already have a stable job at this time, starting a business first and then starting a family. I believe that many people are reluctant to talk about love in their early 20s, even if they talk about a vigorous love, it ends in tragedy.

    Falling in love with someone I like is completely different from my current age, and I have become a girl, and I feel that I met the right person at the right time. As the saying goes, you're the one I checked the eye. It felt like a thousand years had passed.

    At that moment, I wanted to give him everything I had. It's like eating the sweetest jackfruit in summer, and my face is sweet. I love cotton so much, so sticky, it's the feeling of watching it for 10,000 years.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    I don't think it's realistic anymore, your life situation makes it difficult for you to embrace such an emotion.

    Everyone has the right to pursue love, and they all look forward to being able to go to the white head with the person they love. But love is like the sun in the afternoon, as you grow older, it becomes more and more difficult to be illuminated by the sun.

    At the age of 30, you can pursue love, but it is difficult for you to find a significant other. Everyone will have a different definition of love in their hearts, but in most people's minds, a sincere love should put aside material and family circumstances, this kind of love is actually very common in life, but most of it happens in young people's lives.

    Everyone can pursue love, and the age of 30 can't stop you from pursuing love, but if you want to find a sincere love at this age, you may only gain disappointment.

    Everyone is constantly growing, and in the process of growing up, people actually pay more and more attention to suitability, love or not love can only be the secret of everyone's heart.

    I think at the age of 30, it is no longer realistic to pursue sincere feelings. As someone who has reached this age, I know very well what kind of life I am in, and I also know what kind of life my peers are in.

    At this age, people who have entered marriage begin to become the pillars of the family, and they have to face all kinds of difficulties in life, even if they are tired and tired, they must persevere; People who have not yet entered into marriage are paying more and more attention to the material foundation and the fit between two people, love or not love, may no longer be in the scope of consideration.

    I have never denied that everyone has the right to pursue love, but at the age of 30, you have to recognize your reality. The stage when a person is most likely to embrace love is youth, and after missing that age, the more we experience, the more we think about it, and you will no longer be a simple person.

    Maybe you can meet your sincere love in life, but the starting point of your consideration is not just feelings, you will bury this love into the abyss with your own hands. Instead of being so tired of love, it is better not to be too extravagant from now on, find a suitable person to enter into marriage, and cultivate feelings in life, which may be a good way.

    Everyone's different views on love determine everyone's different attitudes towards real life, and different people's real life conditions determine whether love will favor you. When a person reaches the age of 30, he can pursue love, but love may not come.

    Reality or unreality is your life, and only you can decide whether to continue to wait for your love.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    Of course, this kind of thinking is still more realistic, many times dreams still have to be had, the most important thing is to rely on your own efforts and your own persistence, only by your own persistence.

  17. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    I think this is realistic, although we have passed the age of 30, we can still meet better people, and we can have a hope in our hearts.

  18. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    Of course, in reality, no matter what age you are, you have the right and freedom to pursue love, and I believe that through your unremitting efforts, you will be able to get a sincere love.

  19. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    Of course, it is possible to realize, to send you a sentence that someone else has said, there are only people who are suitable for marriage, and there is no suitable age for marriage.

  20. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    I think realistically, what happens when people reach the age of 30, everyone has the right to pursue true love, as long as you are willing to be sincere.

  21. Anonymous users2024-01-22

    I think this is already very unrealistic, because 30-year-olds are mature enough to know what they want, and they really pale in talking about feelings.

  22. Anonymous users2024-01-21

    Of course, the reality, I think love has nothing to do with age, as long as you want to pursue it, you have to be brave to pursue, I have a friend who fell in love at the age of 30, so it can be seen that age is not a problem.

  23. Anonymous users2024-01-20

    I don't think it's realistic, because 30 years old is already an older leftover girl, and if you pursue sincere love, it's really a very naïve idea.

  24. Anonymous users2024-01-19

    No matter how old you are, it is possible to find your true love. Love has nothing to do with age, and we can see that many elderly people have started their new lives after meeting. If you haven't met true love yet, you should reflect on yourself first.

    Is it that you missed love, or that some of your habits are not very good, so that love is getting farther and farther away from you.

    1. Love has nothing to do with age

    Thirty-five years old is considered the prime of life, and there are many people who are not married at this age, which does not mean that they cannot find true love. Love is a wonderful thing, sometimes it will be delivered to the door, and sometimes we need to be patient to find it. Love can be divided into many types, there is long-term love and love at first sight.

    Many people are reluctant to open their hearts and close their thoughts for a long time, and it is difficult for others to communicate with them normally. In this case, it is basically impossible to meet your own love. We must learn to communicate and be brave in the pursuit of true love.

    2. Consider your own problems

    If you haven't wanted to fall in love or get married all these years, then it's normal that you haven't met true love. If you have been in a relationship or making friends, it means that you have a certain problem. We can think about our own habits and see if there are any things that we don't do well that annoy other people.

    Or think about your personality, whether it is not very suitable for making friends. Find your own shortcomings and correct them. Of course, you can also look at your circle of friends, you can't meet new friends if you stay in a circle for a long time, and we can't meet your own love.

    3. Be brave to pursue

    If no one likes you, then you have to like others. Nowadays, many people are appearanceist and only follow their own aesthetics. At this time, people who are not dominant in appearance will be single for a longer time.

    At this time, you should learn to take the initiative and pursue the person you like when you see it. If you don't take the initiative, love will never find you. Maintain a perseverance in the pursuit of true love, and we will be able to meet our own love.

  25. Anonymous users2024-01-18

    Yes, if you look for it with your heart, you will always find it, maybe fate will come in the next second.

  26. Anonymous users2024-01-17

    There will be, but there must also be material conditions. I have a house, a car, and money.

  27. Anonymous users2024-01-16

    Age is not a problem, height is not distance, everything is dependent.

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