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You have to choose a man, no matter how happy a man is, he doesn't have to be busy every month, and sometimes his temperament will be changed by his aunt, and he really can't control himself. Every day my husband just goes to the sofa after work, waiting for me to cook for him, and I also want to spread it on the sofa without asking about housework, but no, if this is the case, we will not starve to death. My baby woke up in the middle of the night and was crying, he slept like a pig, I could only open my eyes to coax the child, the child fell asleep and I had insomnia, sometimes I was really jealous of him, I wanted to kick him out of bed.
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Man. I don't want to suffer my aunt's pain anymore, it's worse than death.
When I am a man, I can go to the bar at will, not afraid of being taken advantage of, free and easy.
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It's better to be a woman, the pressure to be a man is too great, and you have to have money to marry a wife in the future, and it takes a lot of thought, and it is relatively easy to be a woman.
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You must be a woman, what is good about men, when you are tired, you want to rely on it and find that you are a man to be strong.
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Of course, I have to be a man if I can choose again, I don't have a big aunt, I don't have to have children, and I don't have to worry about being out of shape.
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I still want to be a woman, and I can't imagine what kind of rush I have when I have no meat on the top and an extra string on the bottom. Moreover, I love stinky beauty too much, and it feels unrealistic to be stinky and beautiful when a man doesn't do anything all day.
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I think the re-choice will also be to be a man, how comfortable it is. Most women have too many things to do, and they are far more involved in worldly things than men.
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I think it's better to be a woman, there are beautiful clothes, skirts and shoes to wear and people love, yesterday I was tired from shopping and I could let my husband carry me back.
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I'm sure I'm going to be a man, and women have to come to my aunt every month, and I'm going to have a baby, which is scary to think about.
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If I could, I would be a woman, and enjoy the feeling of being pursued by boys, and the feeling of receiving gifts and receiving numbness.
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Of course, it's to see if I'm more handsome when I become a boy, and then marry my best friend, haha, because they all say that if I were a boy, I would definitely marry me. He would run to play basketball, go to bars and drink, and call his favorite people brothers.
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Man, I also want to be cool and want to be pursued by girls, I don't have to have children if I don't come to my aunt, but the most important thing is that I don't want to leave my parents, so that I won't get married and can protect them for the rest of my life.
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If I were given the first opportunity to choose my gender, would I choose male or female? Personally, I think it is relatively selfish to choose men, after all, women have to bear more pain than men physiologically, but men will also bear more pressure, anyway, in fact, men, women have their own advantages, and each has its own disadvantages, if you can choose, of course, everyone's thoughts are different.
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If I could keep my current memory and choose my gender, I would choose a man because I want to experience the life of another gender and nothing else.
If I can't keep the memory of the present, and live the multiple-choice questions I did in my previous life, the regendered "me" will not be the current me, I can't accept it, it's not about gender.
This question is like asking you which gender you think is better and which one is more popular with you, and the subjective factor is strong. The premise of gender is people, we can't choose the established gender, but we can choose the way to live as a "person", choose to be free and easy, and we can laugh at the good and bad in this life; There are also people who choose to be violent and refuse to settle down....Life is rich and colorful, so why bother with the non-existent multiple-choice question of gender.
No matter what gender he is, I can still live this life well.
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If I were given a chance to choose my gender, I would choose men, the current society is different from the past, men can earn money, women can also earn money, but women suffer too much, and a large number of men just enjoy it.
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Of course, I chose men, although men are a little tired, but they are safer.
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If I were given another chance to choose my gender, I would still choose to be a man, not a woman, because after all, men are still in a certain strong position in this society, and they can get more resources, and they choose to be men, they don't have to do housework, they don't have to take care of children, they can just be responsible for going to work, and as a woman, they have to go to work, take care of children, and do housework, which is very hard, and the process of having children is also more painful.
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If I was given a chance to choose my gender. I would choose male. Because men can give a lot of warmth to women. Although in today's society, men and women are equal, but most of the time. It is also unequal. Men are stronger than women.
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Gender is always a popular topic, and there are different points of view. For example, men often say, "Women don't have to shoulder a lot of responsibilities like men, as long as they dress up beautifully and find a rich man to marry", "Expectations for men are always high, no money, no house, no car can't have a girlfriend at all", "Men can only swallow tears in their stomachs, and women can always cry generously in front of people", "When it comes to working overtime, it is left to the boys to do more, and the girls can leave after taking a leave"...I'm sure you've heard a lot of men say that, right?
But is it true that women are in the same situation as described above?
From the perspective of companies in different industries, except for the IT industry, where there are more men and fewer women, there are more girls than boys in the service industry and the news industry. At least the part of making money, the expectations of men will be higher, and girls will like to find a man who is stronger than themselves to marry, but the problem is that if the competitiveness or luck of the girls themselves is not enough, this idea is not as practical as realizing it themselves.
When it comes to women, they don't need to work too hard for their careers and wait to get married and have children, which makes women cry and laugh. Just the menstrual period, the pain of giving birth, breastfeeding, and the body is out of shape. Wait, I'm about to cry when I talk about it, but do men understand?
Of course, men also have all kinds of hardships, as the economic pillar of the family will inevitably bear more, but women are the pillars of the family's life, and it is not very easy, first of all, it is necessary to shorten the distance between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law (the problem of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is generally far more than the problem of father-in-law), there is no time for children at home, disconnection from society, and independent housework. I believe that many women think when they see this: women are better?
Let's change to a man!
The pressure of life is the same, men and women are not the same, it is better to be a man or a woman, why bother to think about it, live in the moment and do yourself well first. Men envy women and don't have to think about economic issues, and women also envy men who don't have to think about family issues.
In fact, no matter which gender has a hard side, men should not preconceive that being a woman is easy, and women should not think that being a man is good and majestic. Although the social environment and family structure lead to a gap in the perception of gender roles between men and women, it is important that the two sexes need mutual respect, communication and understanding, so that both parties can adapt to development.
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Women should be virtuous and patronize their families".
Cooking, laundry, mopping floors, washing dishes, tidying up the room ......Since ancient times, women have had to be virtuous and virtuous, and these housework seems to be inherently women's work. The hostess of a home, in fact, is also half of the family, the operation of the whole family depends on her, she has the responsibility to keep a home clean and tidy at all times, the windows are bright and clean, and there are hot meals on the table when the time comes, and to know accurately that each sock of each person in the family is placed in the ** ......
The scariest thing is that this job is still free and lifelong!
And even if you do all this, no one thinks it's a big deal, you're a woman, shouldn't you do it well! Could it be that these little things at home make it impossible for men to do them?
Women should be financially independent".
The economic foundation determines the superstructure, in modern society, there are not many men who can afford to support the whole family, and the husband and wife only have one person to make money and the whole family will suffer from poverty, even if the man can afford to support the family, the days of reaching out are not as good as imagined, and the ability to make money is almost equal to the right to speak in the family, just like a company you have enough shares to be a major shareholder is not!
When you want to buy food, clothing, housing and transportation, when you want to arrange family trips, when you want to arrange children's future education plans, everything that costs money, then it can't all come according to your ideas, or the opinion of the person who gets the money is the most important.
You have to listen to others for everything, you can't call the shots, what a humiliating life it is, a full-time housewife is the most dangerous and insecure job, no salary and no contract, all the future is pinned on the feelings and character of the husband, if you don't make your own money, who can guarantee that you are so lucky enough to be a broad wife for a lifetime? Therefore, while women are virtuous and patronize their families, economic independence is also the foundation for modern women to maintain their marriage.
A woman should be as beautiful as a flower."
Men can not be beautiful, as long as they are neat and decent, if a man is fat and has a beer belly, he will be more successful people. But women can't, if a woman is not exquisite, not groomed, not dressed, not beautiful, she is irresponsible to herself and rude to others. Even women who are not good-looking, the advantage in the workplace is not particularly large, gender discrimination in the female workplace is indeed very common, women are respected in the workplace is often related to a good self-employment image, only by dealing with their own workplace image, in order to win the trust and respect of leaders and colleagues, in order to have a higher prestige, and the time and energy she spends is much higher than that of men.
This society's requirements for women are all-round, three-dimensional, 360-degree harsh without dead ends, behind the label of a "good woman", how many requirements there are, think about it will feel incredible! But before being a good woman, let's learn to love ourselves first, Qingxin magnetic power sanitary napkins will solve menstrual troubles for you, beautiful from the inside out! And Xiaoqi wants to tell you that this sanitary napkin is different from the sanitary napkin you usually use.
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I feel that it is better to be a girl, because girls are less constrained, and it is easier for us to choose to live in China, and if we are boys, we will be disciplined by our parents. And if you choose not to marry or have children, then your parents may think that you are unfilial, but if you are a girl, this kind of trouble will generally be reduced.
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If I had to choose my gender again, I would choose a male. Because I feel that men are the embodiment of strength, bravery, and responsibility. He is a man who stands up to the heavens and the earth. I've always admired people like that.
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At least now for me I am more happy to be a man, because at the beginning of my own distinction between men and women, I feel that girls are not as happy as being a boy in many things, especially after they have started their female development, whether it is to come to the aunt or other things have brought a lot of trouble to themselves, especially the aunt, this must be a deep understanding for girls with dysmenorrhea, once a month, it will last for five or six days, It's just more pro than anything else (roar roar roar).
In fact, since I was very young, I heard people say that my father really wanted to have a boy in the family, (I am the second girl in the family, and there is an older sister above, and my father hopes that my second child will be a boy). I also asked my mother about this, and my mother also said that my father was working outside at that time, and when he heard that my mother was born, he quickly bought a bunch of things and rushed back, and as soon as he entered the village, he asked people whether my mother gave birth to a boy or a girl, and then people said that it was still a girl, and my father was angry and threw everything away. Moreover, there is a military hat of my father who was a soldier in our cabinet, and my uncle's son was reluctant to give it to his son if he liked it, but he did not realize this wish.
Because of this, I also hope that I am a boy since I was a child, and I can get more love from my father, although my father also loves me now. But it always feels different. In addition, now every time I come to my aunt, I am miserable, I can't sit still, I can't lie down, I don't want to have a stomachache every time, so I hope I don't want to be a woman again, this pain is a little unbearable...
I think maybe every man has a dream of being a girl in his heart, and every girl wants to be a man, and if there is a conflict, just fight and deal with it, and boys are more neat than girls. But it is not easy for women to have women's suffering, and men to have more important responsibilities for men.
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If I were given another chance, I think I would still choose to be a woman, after all, girls can have too many advantages that men can't have. Because ancient China was a patriarchal society, women were basically housewives, so whether it was history or reality, the burden on men was heavier, and the general requirements for men in society were relatively high, at least you had to be able to afford a wife and children, you can not have this ability, then you must be thick-skinned, because such a man will be looked down upon by others, maybe you have to suffer from the anger of your wife and children at home, this is a trivial matter, Originally, men should be magnanimous and not care about little women, the key is that if the wife doesn't live with him, or put a green hat on himself, it's a big deal.
One of the delicious things for women is that they can vent their emotions at will, I am a girl who loves to cry, so I think it is too important to vent my emotions by crying, when I encounter unhappy things, I have been wronged, just cry, I can vent my dissatisfaction well, and it is said that tears can also detoxify, men are different, if a boy is wronged to cry on the spot, everyone is estimated to scold him for sissy, to a certain age is a man, who still cry, to tell the truth, I really haven't seen an adult boy cry much, and my mom taught my brother to be strong and not cry. My idea is that not crying doesn't mean I'm strong, these are completely different things, I don't need them to shed tears when I detoxify myself.
There is also the fact that when you are tired of being a girl, you can let yourself be lazy, rest for a while, and relax, and if I am a man, I don't think I am even in the mood to be lazy, especially after starting a family, I have to support my family, even if I am physically unwilling to work, but I still have to worry about it.
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