If you are married and meet the love of your life, will you divorce?

Updated on society 2024-04-16
16 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    I don't think I would have chosen divorce for me, since you chose this person next to you when you started getting married, then why did you choose divorce at this time? Don't you think it's very irresponsible for the person next to you that you choose to divorce at this time?

    Also, can you be sure that the person you meet in your body right now is the love of your life? So when you got married, since the person next to you was not the so-called love of this life, if not, then why did you marry him? Have you ever thought that you are really unfair to the person next to you, then what did the person around you do wrong?

    Maybe it's because of your existence, so you haven't found true love, I think you can't just think about yourself as a person, you have been with her for so many years, how about it? I think there are still feelings.

    Besides, must the love of your life love you? Why are you so confident?

    Then when you choose to get married, what you choose is not only a marriage certificate, but also a voice, a person who has gone through a lifetime, is a responsibility and an obligation! Do anything can not only think about yourself, think more, should be responsibility and obligation, although a person's life is very short, but you can't just let yourself live happily, let others live very unhappy.

    If you liked the person next to you at the time, why did you choose to marry her? Don't you think that you are really delaying other people's lives and delaying their happiness for a lifetime, for a woman, this is really too cruel.

    If the two of you abandon the person next to you, then even if you are with the love of your life in this life, the two of you will not end well, because God must be fair.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    If I am already married, I have started a family with my husband, and I have been blessed by relatives and friends, and my husband and I also have a crystallization of love. That's our little darling. When I meet the love of my life again, I will not divorce.

    Because life is not child's play, not TV, not movies, you can rewind at will. And since I chose to marry my husband in the first place, I believed in my choice, because he was good to me and took care of my feelings, so I was willing to marry him. It is impossible for me to go to the Civil Affairs Bureau for a divorce recklessly because of this sudden heartbeat after getting married.

    At the beginning, it was the will of two people to get married, but divorce is related to the reputation of both families. How could I bear to let my parents who gave birth to me and raise me, and give the best to my parents? How can I bear to let someone point fingers at them behind their backs?

    And I have children, a house, a car, and a mess. It's hard to figure out these clearly, the child is the meat that fell from his body, and he can't bear to want it, but I'm afraid that I won't be able to support it alone. There are still a lot of concerns.

    I don't want my child to ask me who his father is in the future, I have to introduce a child for a long time, I don't want my parents to be told by relatives and friends, so I won't be a bad woman.

    I believe in my original choice, and I believe that I got married because of love, not for life. So for the man I met after I got married, I would at most occasionally think back to him and wonder why he didn't show up earlier. But I'm not going to divorce to pursue him.

    Because I like a stable life, I don't have the courage to get a divorce and face all the gossip. I still firmly believe in my vision when I chose my husband.

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    I don't think I will.

    First of all, I think that since I chose to marry him, it must mean that I think of him as someone I can trust for the rest of my life. After all, marriage is one of the most important things in life, and it is natural to be very cautious and cautious. At least for me, because I'm a fairly insecure person, and I don't have a good temper.

    So if I get married, he must have been decided after I struggled for a long time and thought about it a lot. In that case, how could I give up on him so easily?

    Besides, this so-called "love in this life", in fact, I am a person who does not believe in love too much. Love has always been a very ethereal existence in my heart. For the sake of such an empty love, I don't think I will give up my married life because of this.

    And even if you feel very much in love with that person now, can you guarantee that you will love him that much in the future, and will he love you the same? If not, then what are you going to divorce for?

    Of course, the premise of all this is also based on the premise of a healthy married life. If my married life is not happy, the husband and wife do not get along very well, and I have no children. In this case, if I had met the love of my life, I would have chosen to divorce.

    Other than that, I don't think I'll get divorced because of the so-called love of this life.

    Marriage is actually more of a responsibility, and since it has begun, the best result should be to accompany each other until old age. And it's not like love leads to happiness. Sometimes fitting can be important. What you think you love may not be right for you.

    If the marriage is very happy, maybe you won't feel that anyone other than your husband will be the love of your life, let alone divorce.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-04

    No, before I get married, I will definitely think more about the person in front of me, if at that time I feel that this person is suitable to spend my life with me, then I will identify him, even if I meet someone I like very much, I will not choose to divorce.

    In fact, in my opinion, if two people get married, they don't have to have love, so there is no possibility of encountering this problem - after all, there are really only a few people who marry love, and it is good for two people to be suitable.

    I heard that the probability of two people meeting in the vast sea of people is 1 in 10,000, and the probability of these two people meeting each other is 1 in 280,000, so I will not bet on the happiness of my life with such a small possibility.

    I'm not sure if the love of my life at the time was really the right person, so why did I get divorced because of this?

    Before I got married to my future husband, I thought that at that time, I must not have someone in my heart who liked and wanted to be together very much, so since I chose him, he didn't make a mistake, why should I hurt him because of the appearance of others?It's not fair.

    I'm not going to get divorced, but I'm probably going to be hard for a while — but it's just hard and nothing else.

    Two people who have been married have become a family, we have common responsibilities and obligations, we have a common family that we need to work hard to maintain, this is not just a responsibility, but our sense of responsibility. If you have a sense of distrust in your marriage because of a small change, you are irresponsible.

    Now that you're married, let's live a good life and don't think too much.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-03

    First of all, I will calmly consider the practical aspects, for example, if I have children, I will think about what the children will do after the divorce, what the children will think if they are divorced, and how much damage this will cause to the children's hearts. If the child is still young, I will not divorce, love is a luxury for me, if I really love that person, I will choose to let go, why do people who love each other have to be together? Isn't regret also a kind of beauty?

    It's because they haven't been together, they haven't been able to become a good memory in life for a long time, people are such a creature, what you can't get will be cherished, and what you can get at your fingertips will not be cherished. The love of the life is to love with a lifetime, and the trivial life of firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea is the culprit of burying love, so if it is the love of the life, it should be put in the heart to love the life. I would not choose to divorce, both practically and psychologically.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-02

    If you don't have children yet, I think you can choose to divorce, and pursuing your true love is the principle of our life.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-01

    You shouldn't choose divorce, because it's not your favorite, maybe because you have a good impression of the other party, don't make a decision that you regret.

  8. Anonymous users2024-01-31

    Of course, if you meet the person you love the most in this life, you should make the right choice, which is good for everyone.

  9. Anonymous users2024-01-30

    If the person I fall in love with is married, I will not continue, it will only make the three people more miserable, and I will break this heart and leave him.

  10. Anonymous users2024-01-29

    No, because he is already married, if he intervenes, it will cause damage to their original family, and they will slowly let go of accepting new feelings.

  11. Anonymous users2024-01-28

    No, it will only hurt the other person's family, it will also hurt yourself, and it will stop you from being in this situation.

  12. Anonymous users2024-01-27

    I won't continue, although I like him, but I won't destroy someone's family and marriage.

  13. Anonymous users2024-01-26

    No, if you only hurt the other party, you will also hurt yourself, and you will stop planting the situation.

  14. Anonymous users2024-01-25

    I've always wondered if there is such a thing as love in the world?!

    Love is actually a feeling in our hearts, I understand love is that you are willing to believe in a person, confide in a person, the other party is your best friend, miss the past time together, look forward to a better future together, and your dedication to him will make you happy, people have a lonely heart, love is the two hearts that go closer, the lonely heart has found a common language, this is the whole meaning of love.

    If you are married, you meet the love of this life that you say, and the current marriage is not bad, I will not divorce, I can't bear the price of divorce, I think everyone you meet after marriage should be treated as friends, even if you don't marry the love of your life, this can't prevent you from becoming good friends.

    In addition to love, there are equally important things in the world, such as family affection and friendship, and man is a strange creature, when we get it, we will not cherish it, when we immerse ourselves in it, we take it for granted, and when we lose it, we will feel unforgettable.

  15. Anonymous users2024-01-24

    "The love of this life" is not a certain thing, but just a feeling of this situation.

    I am married, and when I got married, I made a promise that you are the love of my life.

    When I met the so-called "love of this life" again, I should think about whether there is something wrong with myself and my other half, and work together to solve it. It must be more difficult to solve a problem than to run away from it, after all, no one likes a mess, they all like a new beginning. However, it must be better to work through it than to run away from the results.

    Whether there will be a divorce or not depends on the outcome of the settlement. But don't get divorced easily, because someone is bound to get hurt.

  16. Anonymous users2024-01-23

    If so, of course it will.

    The key is how you determine whether you are the love of this life or whether you regard the passerby as true love. To be clear about yourself and the world, you need age and experience. Of course, people with age and experience will make their own ideas, and there is no need to go online to find answers.

    Others can't help you, and you still need to solve your own problems.

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