How to maintain a long distance relationship? Do you have any experiences?

I have been in a long-distance relationship with him for five years, and I will get married this year. The relationship has always been very good, and I chatted for more than an hour every day, and I have never been a junior or jealous in the past five years. There was never a mention of a breakup. I've seen a paragraph before that a long-distance relationship is to have a mobile phone pet, haha.

It's shameless to say, both of us are more eye-catching, handsome guys and beauties. Outside, they also belong to the peach blossom luck. In order to prevent such and such misunderstandings, after confirming the relationship, we bought a pair of rings to wear on the middle finger.

How is a long-distance relationship maintained? Then I'll talk about how we get along. I think the most important thing for girls is not to die. For boys, the most important thing is to "not pay attention". On top of this, there is also the biggest principle, which is mutual trust.

Get in touch every day.

We have been in a long-distance relationship for more than two years, and there is not a day that we don't fight, and we can't save it.

I also trust each other a lot.,He will come to my city as soon as he has a holiday.,It's definitely indispensable to meet occasionally.。

In my nearly 10-year relationship, I've been in this state for eight years. Two cities are different, the same city is different, and the two countries are different; Write a letter, QQ, **, email, **, WeChat... Anyway, there are only things you can't think of, and there is nothing I haven't tried.

In my opinion, there is nothing terrible about long-distance relationships, as long as you use the right methods and add two hearts that will never give up.

It's just that my boyfriend's personality is too attractive to girls.,There was a girl before who was interested in hooking up with him anyway.,Almost bothered me for a few months.,Fortunately, I kicked her aside.,The middle process is not to be talked about.,That girl is a typical green tea.,You know.,I finally let him see it clearly.,Far away from that girl.,Since then, he hasn't gotten too close to other girls.。

A year and a half in a different place, and then in June, the grandson rolled home and went to get the certificate with the old lady.

That's what it looks like.

If you want to see him, I will go to see him at home, go to school together, and go to school in a different place So far, I have been looking for him 6 times.

If you want to go, you can't break the connection, you must have trust.

Trust is important, so it's okay to feel off-site.

Understand each other, don't complain, and talk openly and honestly about any problems.

My boyfriend and I have been in a long-distance relationship for four years, but we talk every day, he comes to me whenever he is free, and what has not changed in the past four years is that he will be the first to call me whenever he gets off work, and we have always loved each other deeply.

Most people are independent in love. Secondly, the individual's sense of independence is enhanced, and the importance of lovers on the spiritual level is also enhanced. When necessary, it avoids the suffocation and boredom of the continuous overlapping space, and the two-way effort satisfies the desire of both parties to protect and be protected, and the temporary separation makes the satisfaction and freshness of reunion rise sharply.

We cherish the moment of reunion even more, enjoy every hug and kiss, and be happy for the ordinary date that others seem, every vegetable and meal is beautiful; In addition, the pace of life is accelerating, and the time cost of individual development itself is already high, and long-distance relationships have largely reduced the cost of dating opened up separately, and shortened the time for lovers to be intoxicated with dopamine to reduce the probability of love brain.

A long-distance relationship provides a better balance between work, friends, and lovers, and at the same time you don't have to worry about which one you are left out with; A long-distance relationship is also a hard-won relationship, since the world is also trying to reduce our barriers little by little, reduce the past misses, of course, we must persist until the moment when we go to each other. After all, if we go back to the past, we may not be able to meet it, let alone miss it.

Long-distance relationships are unreliable!

In order to maintain the relationship, the situation of long-distance relationships must be changed.

Either partner should have the courage to give up their existing job and go to work and live with their lover. Otherwise, it is not the degree of falling in love with each other to the extreme.

As for who defects to whom, the two sides can scramble, but they cannot pass the buck to each other.

As long as either party has a prevarication, then this relationship should be ended!!

This kind of difficult love mode requires more care and love than the general love model. This is also why, whenever someone around us goes through a "long-distance relationship" and finally "achieves a positive result", it will cause most people to sigh that this relationship is "not easy".

Communicate. It is the foundation of every emotion, and it is even more important for couples in long-distance relationships. Long-distance couples will spend a lot less time together than the average couple, and their direct time together is often made up of virtual networks or a thick stack of tickets.

Not every relationship can achieve the state of "I don't need to say, you will understand me", if you want to reach a level, you need to understand and get along for a long time, and communication is the best nutrient to nourish this state. Communication can let each other better know each other's thoughts, so that they will not easily make irreversible decisions. When quarreling and contradictory, communication is also 100 times stronger than the "cold violence" way of dealing with it.

Trust. Trust is the bond between two people, and trust in each other can resist the distance gap. Trust is a strong bond that binds the relationship between two people.

Because of trust, it is cherished even more, after all, the cultivation of trust is especially difficult. Trust is also fragile, it is said that trust is a piece of paper, once there are wrinkles, it will always leave traces. If you are habitually suspicious of each other, then the relationship will not last long.

Accompany. There is a saying that "companionship is the most affectionate confession." "The companionship of a long-distance relationship is very special, it is a kind of companionship that spans time and space, you can't see and touch each other every day, only each other's hearts can be together.

When you are alone, your heart is lonely. If you can't feel the warmth of another person, the distance between your hearts will slowly become farther away. When you are alone, your heart knows that someone is concerned about you from afar, and it will bring the two hearts closer together.

When two people get along, the most important thing is communication. But it is difficult for long-distance couples to communicate face-to-face every day, and most of the time it is text chat. But text chat is precisely the "most efficient" way of communication, with only dry content, no expressions and no voice.

This can easily lead girls to misunderstand you, for example, if you send "oh oh", it seems to you to mean "I know", but girls will think that you are perfunctory, which sows the seeds of dissatisfaction. But don't give them a chance to get angry! Emojis and tone words for me to use, and add a little more to expand the substance of the topic, so that she is satisfied.

And as the long-distance relationship becomes longer, many couples will fall into a state of having nothing to say, not only are there only "morning", "what are you doing" and "good night" left in the text chat, but it is also difficult to open the topic when ** is on the phone. At this time, you can use a chat formula: share specific things + emotions.

Specific things can be big and small, from what you eat at noon to important decisions and future plans. It is important to have a heart of sharing and share everything you encounter with each other in detail. Although the other party may delay giving feedback, the two can establish a feedback communication model, as if they have experienced these things together, which can make up for the lack of companionship to a certain extent.

While you are still planning for the future, he or she is ready to leave.

Keep in touch every day, keep the topic, keep your original intention.

It's okay to talk for half an hour before going to bed.