My wife often compares others to me! Why does your wife always compare you to others?

Updated on psychology 2024-06-28
8 answers
  1. Anonymous users2024-02-12

    It's up to her to see if she really means it. If it's true, leave, and if it's fun, be cautious. I'm a woman too, and not all women are like that.

    What is good about a rich man, and when he has money, he is bad. Materially, you can live better, but spiritually? I think your wife is just talking and playing, since you are married, it means that at the beginning, you still had something to attract her, she was just a little vain.

    Actually, it's nothing, you just think she's singing. There's no need to be so relished. In the future, she will see more of the empty life of the rich, and she will think that you are the best. Hehe.

  2. Anonymous users2024-02-11

    It's really depressing to say this!

    If I change places, if my boyfriend says every day that I am not as good as this and that woman, I will definitely go crazy! It's yours who can't escape, it's either yours or locked in the safe, and she'll go. You communicate tactfully with her.

    No matter how capable other people's men are, they are not their own men, and no matter how much they covet others, they can't become their own. As the old saying goes: husband and wife are of the same heart, and their strength is golden!

    Let's talk about it! You must not retaliate with a tooth for a tooth, she hurts your self-esteem, and you hurt her self-esteem. People say: The wife by the pillow, the wife in the arms! Women rely on coaxing, and if you coax well, even if you are poorer, she will be very happy!

  3. Anonymous users2024-02-10

    Today's girls are like this, but some are more vain and some are less vain, but keep saying that your marriage is based on money, and the people who like you will not keep saying that you are buddy, bear it silently.

  4. Anonymous users2024-02-09

    In fact, it has always been like this, have you watched "Meteor Garden" Didn't Shancai's mother often say this about her husband, but she still loves her husband very much, your wife definitely doesn't want to divorce when she says this, she just wants you to make more money in the future, which family has no quarrels You can also think about your wife.

  5. Anonymous users2024-02-08

    If you want to blame yourself, you have no money, and you are each other.

  6. Anonymous users2024-02-07

    Why can't you make more money? Then she has nothing to compare.

  7. Anonymous users2024-02-06

    Obviously, they are dissatisfied with some aspects of you, so they will compare you with others, but it is not excluded that some people like this way, which is also one of the natures.

    It's like we've been comparing ourselves to other people's children since we were young, and our parents always like to compare our grades with children with good grades, and our height with tall children, so our level of understanding is the same as that of the most sensible children.

    In fact, it is the same after marriage, the wife should be dissatisfied with the current life in some aspects, but she herself does not know what it is, and can only compare you with various people to show her dissatisfaction.

    If you encounter such a situation in real life, I think it's best for you to have a good chat with your wife, spread out the topic, and see if she is not satisfied, try to correct what you can, try to avoid what you can avoid, save you from comparing your height with Yao Ming, and compare your income with Ma Yun.

    What you can't get is always the best, which is also one of the root of people's inferiority, we are emphasizing all day long, to cherish what we have, but the people who can really do it, or very few, most people will feel that other people's is the best, whether it is someone else's child, or someone else's husband, in fact, it is out of the same psychology.

    It is also a relatively common situation in life for your wife to compare you with others, as long as you don't look like this every day, in fact, there is no need to care too much.

  8. Anonymous users2024-02-05

    This is the situation of one's own wife in marriage, who has no real sense of responsibility and never satisfies her marriage, and always compares herself with others, so that she cannot get real happiness in her marriage.

    A real marriage depends on the maintenance of two people, and a good management is a real happiness, but marriage also needs to have a real sense of responsibility.

    When a person works hard forever, he also needs a woman to support him, and this support is completely the power of love given by women, when a woman lacks this support, men will have less motivation in their careers, and often can't make real achievements.

    At this time, women always compare themselves with others, always saying that they don't make as much money as other men, and after a long time, this is the estrangement between the feelings of the two, and they can't find the real love at the beginning.

    When they really work hard, they often have a lot of time to put on their own careers, at this time women at home, maybe they lack their own love, they seem very lonely, at this time, their wives will also compare themselves with others and say that they no longer love her, not as considerate as other men, and at this time it hurts their self-esteem, for a family to pay so much and get such a return.

    This is when the wife in the marriage always compares herself with others, she often loses the true value of marriage, marriage is the common responsibility of the two people, not to live to others to see their own happiness, only they know, to manage well, have a perfect marriage.

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