After a failed relationship, I didn t dare to love 50 anymore

Actually, I was quite touched after reading your stuff, because anyway, I can feel that you are caring for that girl. No one dictates that a man can't be sentimental or have a girl's heart. So there's no need for mediocrity to bother.

I believe you know a lot about the truth, but there is a big gap between what you understand and what you actually do. It's not clear why your family is so your girlfriend, but it's certain that your parents must be doing it for your own good. This is a principle that does not need to be questioned.

I don't think your family is targeting your girlfriend, but they're worried about whether you'll be happy with this girl.

It's important to know what your parents are thinking. If you have the next chance to meet a girl you like, but your parents are against it, it is recommended that you communicate with your parents first to understand why they are against it, and tell them what you think appropriately. In my opinion, there is nothing more correct and important than communicating with my own family.

Good people will be happy, bless you

After reading your mood at this time, I believe everyone's first reaction is to want to know how old you are, I feel that it should be a very young guy, I am from the past, I think your age is to taste how painful it is to fall first, and then know how to avoid falling, have you ever thought about what your girlfriend was rejected by her family, what is the reason, if you are a mature and rational person, I think you will find the answer, and then solve the problem, instead of blindly escaping reality, What are you going to smoke, drink, blow the wind, listen to songs, and shed tears, you are not the male number one in idol dramas, who will appreciate your lonely posture? Just look down on you, you know? If you are such a character, even if the family does not reject others, you will not go far together, there are too many things to manage in life, but the result of things often lies in everyone's attitude towards things, and the attitude towards things often lies in everyone's character.

I don't sympathize with you, to put it bluntly, I'm just giving you a little advice to help you for your 50 points.

I hope that your life can treat everything with a mature and rational attitude, and don't have childish behavior, but men should also be able to afford to let go and be relieved.

Not everyone's love ends happily, in fact, there are many examples of failure. What should I do if I don't have great expectations for love because I have experienced a failed relationship? That's what I think.

How to say that two people can always fall in love, and even enter the palace of marriage is not easy, in reality, it is often more that everyone talks about love many times to accumulate experience. Everyone actually has a failed love experience, but you can't ruin all your beauty and expectations for love because of this failed love experience. You can think of it this way, leaving the wrong person, you can meet the person who truly loves you.

We can't go through the wrong person without believing that we will have a good relationship again.

What you have to do is to look less at those examples of failure and more at those examples of success, so that you can regain your expectations of love. The second is to make yourself good so that more people will pursue you, and at the same time, don't let yourself always be immersed in the past.

Calm down and adjust yourself, so that you have the energy to meet the next beautiful love. I think if you make yourself very good, God will definitely favor you and bring you a beautiful love. So, don't let yourself not accept the next relationship because of a failed love experience.

Don't be too disappointed in this situation, and don't be too sad, you must realize that you are very good, and experiencing a failed relationship does not mean that you have problems, and you will have a particularly good marriage in the future.

Then don't fall in love first, you can go out for a walk, or you can do something you like, and slowly wait for fate to come.

Personally, I think that people should still maintain a good illusion about everything in the world, and they can't not believe in the beauty that this thing can bring because of short-term disappointment. The most important thing is to be clear about your inner thoughts, after all, there is not only one standard answer to many things!

At this time, we should relax our mentality, because the reason why this situation occurs is mainly because we have a lot of turmoil in our hearts.

In order to pursue a happy and satisfying love, we will pursue our own happiness by falling in love. For some people, there will be a situation where they cannot find true love after going through multiple relationships. ......In the process of falling in love many times, you will gradually realize a lot of truths, and then have an impact on your love.

Specifically, these truths that can only be understood through multiple relationships include that love needs two people to work together to achieve a successful result, only if you have the strength to win favor, and love needs to be single-minded and concentrated, and you must not be half-hearted. 1. Love needs the management of two people to reap a successful result. The purpose of falling in love is to pursue love.

And in the process of falling in love, those who have been in love many times but have never been able to succeed tend to make too high demands on each other and ignore their own efforts. ......Therefore, after many times of love, you should understand that if you want to succeed in love, you must work together to manage love, and only in this way can you pursue your own happiness. 2. Only if you have the superior ability to scramble can you win favor.

Love focuses on emotion, but the practical factor should not be ignored either. ......Specifically, if you simply talk about feelings in the process of falling in love, and you lack enough strength, it is impossible to succeed in love. ......After experiencing many loves, you should understand that only with superior strength can you win favor, and strive to improve your ability level, so that you can pursue true love.

3. Love needs to be single-minded and attentive, and must not be half-hearted. The fundamental reason why some people fall in love many times and still fail is that they lack single-mindedness and are half-hearted in the process of falling in love. ......After experiencing many times of love, you should understand that love requires single-mindedness and concentration, and you must not be half-hearted, so as to fundamentally solve the problem, make yourself successful in love, and live a happy life.

Psychoanalysis: I'm just a sensible girl, and I have my own ideas, and after I went to college, I fell in love. was originally full of his own longing and hope to talk about this relationship, but it turned out to be controlled by the sleepy mind.

I feel very distressed about what happened to the subject. But fortunately, the subject stopped the loss in time, knew his mind control, and finally succeeded in getting out, but the subject's uproar hall has been unable to get out of this shadow in his heart, and he dare not fall in love. But not all boys will mentally control girls, and we have experienced a hurt and our own inner growth.

How could it be so easily mind-controlled again? So how do we avoid being mind-controlled in a relationship? ?

If you always feel dominated in a relationship, or even feel that your personal value has become small, you always feel that you need to get better in order to be indiscriminately matched with him, you feel tired of love, anxious, and isolated, these are all signs of "mind control", if you find this hint, stop the loss in time. ?The injured party in mind control often has a strong sense of guilt, and this guilt can also hold the victim back in a wrong relationship.

We should understand that it is unreasonable for us to take full responsibility for the conflict in this intimate relationship, and that we cannot and should not take the blame for the mistakes made by the other person. ?After being hurt in an intimate relationship, the abused person often chooses to compromise to avoid conflict and maintain a "bad balance" in the relationship.

But in fact, when we are wronged, the abuser will only intensify the harm, and in an intimate relationship, there is no need to maintain a "bad balance", not afraid of conflict, stop hurting is what we should do. Love is not control, it is not possession. We need to be wary of mind control in love.

Once you are aware of these signals, you must make your position clear in time and get out as soon as possible. Best wishes