Do you think you are dragging down your lover when you are at your most depressed?

No, if two people are true love, there will not be this kind of time when no one drags down or not, and no one has smooth sailing, if she can't tide over the difficulties with you when she is down, then don't want such a woman.

My long-distance relationship with her spans half of China, one of the three eastern provinces, and one of the Pearl River Delta, and the snacks sent every month are the love that the courier brother helped me convey. Her father went bankrupt and went to be hospitalized abroad. I took out most of my savings, afraid that she would not have a good time because of the change.

That half a year was the saddest time for her, and her emotional instability caused a lot of uneasiness in this relationship. I went to the Northeast, and she avoided it. Suddenly, one day a friend told me that she had undergone a huge operation.

It was then that I learned that her illness was so serious that she chose to have her uterus removed in order to take care of her father. At six o'clock that morning, she called ** and didn't say a word, just cried. Friend sent me a screenshot of her chat:

An unsound woman, what else does she want. "I will continue to go to her, and when she is emotionally stable and can listen to me well, I will continue to tell her: I will always love you, I am not afraid of anything, only afraid that you will ignore me. ‍‍

I don't think so, lovers are together through thick and thin, sometimes together, and have fun together, which is the moving part of intimacy.

Of course not, when everyone has brilliance, there are also times when they are down, there is no one who drags down who in love, and it is true love to share difficulties and blessings.

Before McGregor became famous, his girlfriend had been making money to support him in boxing, and the most important thing for a drag is whether this person is self-motivated or whether he is a potential stock.

In "The King of Comedy", Stephen Chow was just a little trick when he first met Cecilia Cheung, although he liked it from the bottom of his heart, he could only pretend to trade. I don't want my lover to be bullied at night, but I was choked up by the sentence "You support me if you don't go to work". When you are most incapable, you meet the person you want to take care of the most, and there is nothing more sadddy in love than this.

didn't even have the confidence to fight, and he was already defeated. When you meet your beloved when you are down, it is a disaster for others and yourself. You love me, I can't love it, I blame you. ‍‍

This is not a drag on the lover, even if you think so yourself, the other party does not think so, two people together is to tolerate each other and support each other, whose life is not smooth sailing.

At that time, my father was in business, and he had no money, and the debt collector came and slammed the door loudly. My mom hid it from her family and sold a kidney. The sequelae are menacing and require a large amount of medical expenses urgently**.

Due to the previous experience of debt, the people who used to call them brothers and sisters have repeatedly shirked their words, and even some relatives do not want to help. Money is a lifesaver for mom and a life-saving spell for dad. ‍‍

Winter in the North, nineteen o'clock. While waiting for the bus, there was a couple who had just gotten off work, discussing where to eat. Boys say they eat seafood, but girls are too expensive.

I've just been paid, and I've worked so hard for so long, so let's eat something good. "I haven't paid the rent this month, so let's save some." "I don't remember you liking....The boy restrained compromise.

It's just that the economic conditions don't allow it, and I can't even satisfy my appetite, but fortunately, your hand holding me in your pocket is warm. ‍‍

We used to be a good couple in the eyes of everyone, childhood sweethearts for thirteen years, so familiar that we can't tell which one is more love or family affection in this feeling. Before I could afford a diamond ring, she took everything with her overnight. When we got together again, we ate food stalls on the street.

Simple, because we were all too poor. ‍‍

To be precise, it is a test, adversity sees the truth, everyone will have a trough, and the one who can accompany us out of the trough is the person we should really love.

Scratch the lottery and win the down payment for a second-hand house, pinch yourself, well, it's true. I didn't have the money to renovate, so I moved into a new house, which coincided with Christmas alone. The heating in the house has not been installed, it is really cold, I put the sofa cushion on my body, and I saw my ex ** in a hazy sleep, and gently pinched it, at that moment, I felt so handsome.

I broke up with my ex-boyfriend because of this, I have been with him for five years, I want to get married, but he doesn't want to get married, he said that when he can't give me a good life, he won't marry me, I'm afraid that I will be dragged down in the future, but I don't care, because I love him, I think as long as two people love each other enough and work together, everything will be fine, and then he broke up with me.

When you fail, accompany you to make a comeback, and when you reign in the world, you will never give up!

Nobleman

When we are down, the first thing that comes to mind should be our nobleman, right? Because we always feel that the other party will help us, so with a fluke mentality, as long as we ask them for help, we can get through this hurdle without too much effort, which is also our inertia that drives us to do this, but why can't we think about noble people when we are down? Because there is no free lunch in the world, others cannot always help you, and you still have to rely on yourself to get over.

Lovers

This statement is a bit cruel, but there are quite a few examples of this saying:"Husband and wife are birds of the same forest, and they fly separately when disaster comes." Many times, when you really encounter a big thing, the sea is dry and rotten, and the oath of the mountains and the sea is empty in the blink of an eye.

Say, you only need one mouth, and you can say it whether you can go away or not. But to do it, you need to be really careful. Downfall is a test of love, Tu Lei once said in the show:

To see whether a woman really loves you, it depends on whether she is willing to be with you when you are hungry and cold. In reality, there are many instances where when one party is seriously ill or depressed, the other party hides far away for fear of being dragged down.

Although they really love each other, there are lovers who accompany them without regrets, but in any case, you have to know how to be grateful, thank each other for their encouragement and companionship. In this real society, many things cannot stand the test, and we do not measure the people around us with the worst intentions, but we should not take it for granted. If there is no hope, there will be no disappointment, at least in this way, when you are most down, you can quickly adjust your mentality, not too much pressure on yourself, and not too much pressure on the other party.

This will help you get out of the predicament as soon as possible.

Enemies

When you are down, your enemies may be triumphant. You won't want to see him good, but you will think about how to surpass him immediately. These "demonic" thoughts can easily make your mind lose control and make unwise choices and actions.

And these decisions, veryIt could make your situation even worse.

This is why people often say that "misfortune does not go alone", which is not a matter of superstition, but illustrates bad things and is prone to chain reactions. Or if you don't think it's a big problem, if it doesn't go well, it will become a bad big problem. When you are frustrated, let go of the future, life is your own life, good and bad, what does it have to do with others?

Fighting for a breath, but delaying himself, it is not cost-effective. Or use your strength and ability to speak, so that you can be regarded as conquering others in the true sense of the word and winning respect.

If you don't think about the three of you, which three people are you referring to, does it make sense to say this?

The main thing to say here is not to warn people not to pin their hopes on others, they are the most critical, first of all, they don't think about nobles, because everyone hopes to have noble people around them to help them when they are down, so as to pull themselves along, maybe there is such a phenomenon in life, but you must understand that this kind of thing is actually very far away from you,Because we all know that noble people will not help you for no reason, unless you have something that can make the other party pay attention, but you usually put your hope in the presence of noble people, you have already lost, so you might as well focus on yourself and work yourself, so it is right.

The second word is not to miss the lover, as the so-called "husband and wife are the same forest birds, and they fly separately when disaster comes", there are actually many such examples in real life, once you are down, maybe your lover will disappear when he turns around, so he should actually learn to be independent for himself, and he should learn to face difficulties by himself, so as to rise again; The last word is not to think about the enemy, because once people are down, they will actually be in a bad mood, and some people will even blame the enemy for the reason for their failure, in fact, this will only cause their mood to become worse and worse, so if we want to get out of the predicament, in fact, it is better to keep the brain clear first, so that there will be the possibility of re-rising.

There is also an illegal business, now there is a saying that the general high-profit business is written in the criminal law, but once it touches the law, then it will undoubtedly bear a lot of responsibility, so it is necessary to be down-to-earth, step by step to do it, so it is the most real; The last word is to do business in partnership, because partnership business is often successful and failing, life has seen a lot of success after the imbalance of interests and thus break up, there are also because of partnership business and break up, so do business must not choose to be with friends, even if you want to make it clear in advance, this is the most correct.

The first is a noble person, you can only last a long time by relying on yourself, and you can't succeed by relying on others.

The second: the enemy. In a depressed situation, of course, it is accompanied by emotional instability, and if you still think about the people who have a holiday with you at this time, it will be even more uncomfortable, and it will make the enemy look at yourself like a joke.

The third is your lover, poverty will make you lose your courage and miss the opportunity.

When people are down, they will experience things that they have not experienced before, and at this time they should pay attention to three points, do not desire to meet the noble people of life, do not expect to meet love, and avoid meeting their enemies.

Because the state at this time is the worst, meeting these three types of people will make their state worse, and if the blow exceeds their psychological expectations, they are likely to lose confidence in living.

"Downcast and unthinking""Three"They refer to nobles, lovers, and enemies.

The saying is obtained by the ancients based on their own life experience, and the reason why the ancestors said it"Downcast and unthinking"In fact, I want to tell us: when people are down, remember not to pin their hopes on others, but to rely on themselves to get out of the predicament, so as not to fall into the trap.

No matter who you are, there will be a day when you will betray you, so will you need their alms?

Who in the world would not abandon themselves?

That's yourself, when you feel lonely, lonely, hurt.

Don't rely on others, believe in yourself, it's enough to have yourself.

Because I won't betray myself!!

People who believe in themselves. Even if it's just sitting next to you.

It's also a comfort. Happiness.

will regard the person who will never abandon him at this time as a lifelong friend or lover, and will be good to him all his life, after all, adversity sees true love.

It has never been easy to share hardships, but it is difficult to share wealth and wealth, and when he is down, he can betray his wife, so how can he stick to his lover when he is prosperous?

Of course, I was moved, and I will love this woman even more.

Similar to the courage and determination to be born again after death.

A desperate fight after being abandoned.

A strong and tenacious character that can accompany him to the bottom**. If he were a tough guy, he would have done it.

Care, encouragement. And plan for his future life and support him.

He needs to make himself strong the most, in this materialistic world, there are others except himself.

The relationship between lovers is already ambiguous, and if you add what you described, it will make their relationship even closer.

Sometimes moral support is more practical than material, but also be careful with the one who brings me to you for encouragement and support

Yes, because the one who comforts him will be determined to be good to whoever he sees when he needs it most.

It is very likely that a man wants only one thing, and that is true affection, and he may give up the person he loves and fall in love with the person who loves him, and that's it.

The reason why they are lovers is that they have long fallen in love!

Maybe, if not, this woman will also leave a significant impact on this man's life, so it is a good opportunity to want to be with this man.

It's said that it's a lover, isn't it already in love? If it's an ordinary friend, it's not necessarily true.

Yes, that's moral support.

Lover? I'm already lovers, and I'm definitely in love.

Many people can share in suffering, but not in happiness. However, your situation needs to be analyzed again, whether he is busy and has snubbed you for the time being, after all, after some achievements, time is not all for him. You should also be considerate of him.

The relationship is two-sided, if one party is abnormal, there is no need to keep it, after all, some things cannot be forced.