Should I visit my seriously ill ex boyfriend?

If I were your boyfriend, I would go with you because I understand you and sympathize with him. Isn't it okay to go to see a friend or classmate? Although love is selfish, your boyfriend is too cautious, right?

Are you afraid of your old feelings rekindling? If you want him to accompany you, I believe you will thank him from the bottom of your heart and thank him for his understanding and support to you! And you all said that let him go with you, isn't the trust in each other enough?

Hey, let's communicate again, be calm! I think he'll understand! Anyway, the Northeast gentlemen all think like this!

Make things clear, and then most importantly, go with your boyfriend!

Also keep in mind that in the future, do all the things about your ex-boyfriend, and it's best to do it in front of your current boyfriend, such as hitting ** or something.

Misunderstandings (misunderstandings) can kill.

Your current boyfriend is resolutely not allowed to go, understandable, this is not a matter of being stingy or not, I advise you not to go by yourself, you and your ex-boyfriend are in the past, and it has nothing to do with you now, to put it mildly, even if your ex-boyfriend has an accident, it is similar to passers-by!

If you're stingy to death, then you can decide for yourself and go secretly.

You should convince your current boyfriend to go with him to see him, and I think your current boyfriend will understand.

Don't say it's an ex, even if it's an ordinary friend, colleague, neighbor, or neighbor who is sick, I think you will definitely show your concern and help. Not to mention your ex! He's the one you once loved, after all!

Since you asked this question, it means that you are very kind in your heart and at the same time very happy.

I think it can be divided into several situations that need to be paid attention to in the way of the way:

1. If you are still single after you break up, then you can directly express Hongrent's concern and help, it is one thing for him to accept it, and it is another thing for you to express whether you express it. But under normal circumstances, patients must be very grateful for your care and help.

2. If he already has a girlfriend and you are still single, then it is necessary to consider whether his new lover is an enlightened and generous person, and whether there will be unnecessary misunderstandings due to this, you can first greet and tell him through his friends or family.

3. If he is single and you already have a new lover, then explain the situation frankly to your lover, and believe that your current one will definitely accompany you to visit.

4. If both parties have a new relationship, it will be better to solve it, and you will be more calm and sincere when you go to visit them with the current one!

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Although they used to be husband and wife, there are certain problems when they are separated.

So, the answer to the question of whether to help or not depends on the rough relationship you have with your ex-husband and your attitude towards him.

If you maintain a friendly relationship and you feel that helping him will not have a negative impact on your life, then consider giving him some help.

However, if there is a bad emotional entanglement between you, or if you feel that helping him might get you into trouble, then you can choose not to help.

The most important thing is to protect your own interests and happiness, and then make decisions based on specific situations.

If your ex-husband is sick, you can visit him. If you still have a child between you, then try to visit him.

Hello, this question depends on whether you and your ex-husband still have a relationship, or do you think there is still a task for him?

First of all, your ex-husband, because you are two independent individuals after you dissolve the marriage contract, and there is no relationship anymore, so at this time, you choose not to see Whisper Sakura He is also in line with the moral filial piety code.

But if you are in a relationship with a husband and wife before, and he is sick at this time, you go to see him, even if it is a friend, he will be very happy, so it is recommended that you go to see him if there is no special injury to you.

Summary. Hello, happy with your question.

About: I got sick and went to the hospital with what my ex-boyfriend said.

Strictly speaking, I read the chat history, which is normal.

Your ex-boyfriend cares about you and, as you can tell, is worried. He is a good man and very responsible.

I got sick and went to the hospital with my ex-boyfriend saying so.

Hello, happy with your question.

About: I got sick and went to the hospital with what my ex-boyfriend said.

Strictly speaking, I read the chat history, which is normal.

Your ex-boyfriend cares about you and, as you can tell, is worried. He is a good man and very responsible.

Can this still have a chance to be together?

I care about you, of course, we can be together, we have a chance.

Thank you for your hard work.

At least I was sick and asked me to give him a **, and now it's his first time.

Isn't this a change from what it used to be?

I think the male balance stove is very good for you, so eager, caring, taking care of, from the chat records, you can see, and feel it. If you want to get back together, work hard, and you will definitely succeed.

Thank you. Good night.

You're welcome, good night, good dreams.

Of course you can, but it's better not to. Why?

Because of the gratitude that I have received, I have discounted my endurance.

There are two faults in this incident, which also reflect your personality and personality traits.

First: Since he is an ex-boyfriend, why do you have to take care of him when he is sick?

Second: Since you have taken care of it, why do you have the idea of asking him to thank you? Are you doing this just to say thank you?

It's clear that your indecisiveness makes you inadequate.

Here are some suggestions for you:

For your ex-boyfriend, don't help easily, let alone take the initiative and do your best to help, if so, it means that you still can't let go of it. This makes it difficult for you to start a new life on your own.

Above, I hope to help you, if recognized,!

Finally, I wish you a happy life and all the best!

3 All ex-boyfriends, then don't want it!

Since he chose to break up and turned him into an ex-boyfriend, then it's good to be thorough and not get along. Really, I don't know how you separated in the first place, because you knew you were seriously ill, so you forced yourself to leave, or was it not appropriate for you to separate later?

If you choose to break up because of your illness, then you shouldn't go back. After all, you just chose to be noble, so you might as well be noble to the end, so why bother to entangle with him and drag him down? If, after you are not suitable with him, you find out about your illness, you go to tell him, why?

Is it to win his sympathy, or do you want someone to be by your side when you are in danger and never leave you?

Don't be stupid, my dear. If a person loves you, even if they are separated, he will be unwilling and will always pay attention to you, then he must know your news in his own heart. Why do you bother, go to him for a showdown, I don't understand if you want to test your humanity, or if you want to dream?

I know that when you are seriously ill, you must be panicked, confused, and don't even know what to do. And at this moment, the person you once loved with you is like the last straw, you want to hold on to him tightly, you want to draw strength from him.

However, you have forgotten that you are separated and have no relationship, so what reason do you have to go to him? So, be strong, fight the disease well, and welcome your new life as soon as possible. Also, you have to be optimistic and cheerful, because, many times, people's mood directly affects the final effect.

So, I hope you can focus on your own body, accept ** well, and strive for an early recovery.

In short, I hope you are strong and can be your own backing, besides, you still have the parents who love you the most, I think, this is enough to support you to persevere! Finally, I wish you a sooner time and a new relationship.

If it is a minor illness, then there is no need to tell him. But you are seriously ill, and you can hide this matter for a while, but you can't hide it for a lifetime, rather than let him find out for himself, it is better for you to tell him the truth yourself.

Because if you don't tell him, you usually give people two reasons, one is that after telling your boyfriend, you are afraid that your boyfriend will be sad and angry because of this, so in order not to make him too sad, so you endure it yourself, and if you can't let him know, you won't let him know; Another reason is that he was afraid that his boyfriend would break up with him after he knew that he was seriously ill, so he didn't dare to tell him.

Whatever the reason, in my opinion, instead of enduring the fire yourself, it is better to let him know early that if he feels sorry for you, then let him share a little, and the so-called pain sharing with another person will become half of the pain. With him, you can also increase your courage to overcome the disease; If you are afraid that he will break up, instead of worrying about it all day long, it is better to tell him as soon as possible, whether it is a division or a union, so that you know in your heart, and if you drag it out too long, the more pain you will have in your heart. From this, it is better to tell him early!

I don't think you should tell him that since they have already broken up, don't let him worry about you anymore, he should have his own life now, since the two of them chose to break up at the beginning, don't let him worry about your affairs anymore, and think about it, when he knows that you are seriously ill, whether he comes to see you or not, he comes to see what you want to say to you, and the scene will be really embarrassing.

I know that you are seriously ill now, and then you especially need someone to comfort and hurt, but the past is really in the past, maybe he has a new girlfriend now, and he is living a very good life now, why should you let your own affairs disturb his beauty, what you have to do now is to cooperate with the doctor, strive to get yourself up as soon as possible, and then welcome your new life.

He's your ex-boyfriend, and there's no obligation to do anything to you, if you really want to tell him, you can send a circle of friends, or send a QQ dynamic, if you don't want others to see it, you can get him into a separate group in QQ, and then that one can only be visible to him.

I don't understand why I am entangled in this issue, why do I want to tell him this question when I am an ex-boyfriend. If you are single now, shouldn't you discuss with your parents how to treat the disease? Are you stupid or do you think that in your heart your parents are more important than your boyfriend, and they are ex-boyfriends.

If you broke up because of your illness, it means that you didn't tell him that you were sick at the time, so since you didn't tell him at the time, then please don't tell you now, you are not the heroine of a Korean drama, and you won't have an ex-boyfriend who has loved you for 10,000 years. I won't say that I will accompany you to the last journey of your life. You should be the one who spends your limited life with your parents.

Of course, a serious illness does not mean that it cannot be cured. If he really loves you, you can try to cooperate** and come back to him when you are healthy, if you really love you, you will still be together. If you don't love you, you now tell her you're sick and all you get is sympathy.

Just like using lies to verify lies, what you get is always a lie. Think about it from the perspective of inequality, and you will always be at a disadvantage. Love is inherently a matter of equality.

You can't disturb someone's normal life because you're sick.

So definitely don't tell him. In the movie breakup contract with Bai Baihe and Peng Yuyan, the hero and heroine broke up, and the heroine thought she was cured because she had cancer, but she still didn't tell the male protagonist about her illness, and she didn't come to the male protagonist until she was cured. This is adult love, don't involve morality, after all, you tell him that you are sick, do you want him to stay by your side to take care of you because of sympathy for you, or do you want him to ruthlessly leave you alone to face the disease?

Wake up, fairy tales are all lies, instant TV series ** in life, but life is not just a TV series.

If you want to see him, I think you should tell him that even if he doesn't love you anymore, he will still come to see you when he sees that you are seriously ill. In short, you must be strong, even if things are wrong, you should still face life with an optimistic attitude.

Xiao Wang is now living a very happy life and is planning a wedding with his girlfriend, however, there is an incident that has weighed on his heart recently, making him depressed. Yesterday, Xiao Wang called the evening newspaper and expressed his confusion: "My ex-girlfriend's father is seriously ill, should I visit?"

He used to treat me very well, and I treated him like my father. "My ex-girlfriend's father treated me very well, Xiao Wang is 29 years old this year, a native of Anhui Province, and went to a local university. Five years ago, Xiao Wang entered a local public institution.

The work is very smooth, he gets along well with his colleagues, and Xiao Wang is doing very well. In the second year of work, a female intern came in the unit, who was very beautiful, and Xiao Wang, who was single, was immediately attracted to her and pursued her, and finally the two confirmed their relationship. More than two years later, Xiao Wang left his original unit for some reason to seek development in Jiaxing.

Xiao Wang brought his girlfriend, who had graduated, and tried his best to help his girlfriend find a job. In the meantime, as the relationship between the two further warmed up, Xiao Wang went to her house with his girlfriend many times and got along well with her family. According to Xiao Wang, his girlfriend's father is very kind and treats him like his own child, giving him a fatherly feeling, and they have a very good relationship with each other.

Should I visit? However, the good times didn't last long, and a year ago, for various reasons, his ex-girlfriend suddenly proposed to Xiao Wang to break up. During this period, Xiao Wang tried desperately to redeem it, but in the end he still failed to redeem this relationship.

Xiao Wang said that he asked his ex-girlfriend's father to help persuade him many times, and his ex-girlfriend's father also did his daughter's ideological work many times, and for Xiao Wang, his ex-girlfriend's father also quarreled with his daughter many times, and he thanked this father from the bottom of his heart. After breaking up with his ex-girlfriend helplessly, Xiao Wang started another relationship. A few days ago, he unexpectedly learned that his ex-girlfriend's father was seriously ill and was hospitalized in a hospital in Jiaxing, and his first reaction was to rush over to visit immediately, but as soon as this idea appeared, he was suddenly stopped by another idea.

Xiao Wang said that after his ex-girlfriend broke up with him, he had a bad time, he was always single, and he regretted it very much, and he always wanted to get back together, but he already had a new girlfriend. What if my ex-girlfriend comes back to him again? What would her think if her current girlfriend found out?

But if you don't visit, I feel sorry for my ex-girlfriend's father, after all, he used to be very good to himself. For this reason, Xiao Wang fell into distress, and was in a dilemma between going and not going. Do you think Xiao Wang should go?